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How important is a name to a person?
It is important that when a person is always at a low ebb, it is as if changing a name can kill Chengxiang and kill Ji.
Of course, a bad name may also become a person's spell, and everywhere you go, the name becomes the object of everyone's attention, and this person is often ignored.
Having a good name is still very critical.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="59" After >00, the life of the young guy "Wu Yifan" was affected, and the application for name change was approved</h1>
Wu Yifan, the representative of the former top stream, once had a lot of scenery, and now how lonely he is.
Before the East Window incident, Wu Yifan was involved in infinite glory, and the talented daughter Li Xueqin did not become famous because of the shouting Wu Yifan to get attention.
Wu Yifan, who broke the law and angered countless people, is now a prisoner of the order, forming a sharp contrast between before and after.
A young man after 00 in Nanling, Anhui, since Wu Yifan's accident, his life has been seriously affected, because his name is very close to Wu Yifan, listening to syllables is exactly the same, his name is "Wu Yifan".
Because normal life has been seriously affected, the young man applied for a name change, and now has a new name, the young man said in the circle of friends, to start a new life.
Get rid of the name "Wu Yifan", the young man's life will no longer be disturbed by the previous interference, and it is not an exaggeration to say that he has started a new life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="66" > name your baby, don't follow suit</h1>
In fact, there are not many cases like this post-00s young man, which can only be said to be a coincidence, but when encountering this coincidence, you can only change the name, otherwise the bad influence will always accompany him.
For many ordinary people, the confusion that the name brings to us is not to collide with the problem star, but to share the same name with many people.
After the kindergarten opened in 2021, the reporter did a survey in Henan, and among the many new students, there were more than 10,000 people called "Zixuan", more than 10,000 people called "Xinyi", and there were also many children named "Zihan", "Kexin", "Yuxuan" and "Yinuo".
The biggest headache is probably the teachers, more and more children in the same class have the same name, and it is not easy to put the name and face to the class.
Parents are happy to follow the trend for a while, and their children will hate their names after they enter school.
Everyone wears a piece of clothing, and they are not willing to "bump into the shirt", let alone "collide with the name", and they feel that the name is not their own, as if it is public.
Following the trend of naming, the repetition rate is too high, and another effect on children is that it is not easy to be remembered.
In a class, there are several people called "Zi xuan", and the teachers and classmates are not willing to bother to remember who is who, and in the end, the state presented is that these children with the same name are marginalized, and in the classroom, the teacher is never willing to ask them to answer questions.
Later, when you enter the workplace, you will also present such a state.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="76" > these naming methods are not desirable</h1>
These names are taken out individually, whether in terms of allegory or syllables, which are good, but because the repetition rate is too high, they become garbage names.
Why is the repetition rate so high in recent years?
It is still related to the way parents name their children.
These methods of naming are not advisable, and parents should find another way:
1. Search for "nice names" on the Internet
There are many young people who want to give their children a nice name, and they don't want to spend time, and they don't bother to go through classical books, so they think of a "good way" to search for "nice names" on the Internet.
Choose one of them and it will be your baby's name.
This is really a "good way", that is, I don't know if I have thought that other parents will do the same.
Parents use this method, those "good names" are not all seen by everyone?
2. Name on the naming website
Another common method is to name names on websites.
The website's name inventory is limited, there are many people who want to name on the Internet, and the routine and method are very simple, according to the surname, month, gender, etc., and finally locate the child to a name.
This is all a set of system operation, not artificial naming, more and more people use the website to name, the repetition rate can not be high?
3. Find a name in an online novel
The name of "collision of names" over the years can be found in many online novels, and the names that the author has painstakingly thought about, many parents have taken them to use directly, and some have become a very common name.
No matter how good the name is, there are more people using it, and "Jianguo", "Cuckoo", "Li Min", "Spring Flower" are no different, it is always a rotten street, and then it becomes a tacky name.
Want to give the child a chic good name, the key is to turn over the classics by yourself, there are so many classical books, casually turn over, you can also turn to a new and unique name, don't want to find a name from the Internet, look for more people, good names have become bad names.