Is introverted really a person's innate weakness? If you have studied some psychological knowledge and really understood some scientific analysis of people's personality attributes, you will never have such a misunderstanding of introverted personality. In fact, introversion and outward orientation are only the simplest and most crude way to distinguish between human personality. Among them, there is also an essential difference between introvert and introvert, extrovert and extrovert.
For example, in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Zhuge Liang's logical and intelligent extroverted personality is different from Zhang Fei's outgoing personality of being short-tempered but not afraid of danger and more able to explode his potential when it is more difficult; Zhao Yun's introverted personality of being indisputable and conscientious and good old and good is different from Guan Yu's introvert who is capable and untamed.
What I want to talk about today is the story of a cold and introverted girl who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, looks cold as frost and is not close to humanity, but actually looks like fire on the inside, and is very hot and kind.
It is said that In Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, Jinling Gusheng, because the family is poor, and there is a high cousin and the old mother at home, they need to be taken care of, so they are over twenty-five years old and have not yet been able to become relatives. Delaying the succession, the mother was very anxious. Gu Sheng's family, there is an iceberg cold beauty, who is also an elderly leftover girl, who is also alone to take care of Gao Tang's old mother, and is also in a state of poverty.
But Gu's mother came to the door and said several times, the old lady at the door was willing to have a good match between her daughter and Gu Sheng, but Leng Meiren herself was very unhappy.
Gu Sheng is very good at pen and ink Danqing, and thus, he befriends a brother of a charming prince in a neighboring village. Under the continuous interaction between the two people, there is a friendship that transcends the boundaries of ordinary brothers. On this day, the prince of the neighboring village happened to see the cold beauty on the opposite door, and the prince stared at the cold beauty for a long time, and turned back to ask Gu Sheng who this beautiful girl was.
Gu Sheng replied, "She is a neighbor of our family. The neighboring village boy said, "Looking so beautiful, how can your expression be so frightening?!" ”
When the neighboring village boy left, Gu Sheng returned to the house, and the old mother said to Gu Sheng: "Just now, the girl from the door came to borrow rice, saying that the family could not open the pot, and had not eaten for two days." This girl is quite filial to her mother, she is a good girl, but she is too poor and pitiful, we should help their family more. ”
After Gu Sheng listened, he followed his mother's advice, brought a bucket of rice, and sent it to the door to tell the mother and daughter of the door about the kindness of their old mother. Leng Meiren took the rice sent by Gu Sheng, but still did not have the slightest expression, did not even say thank you, it was still cold as frost.
One day, Leng Meiren came to Gu Sheng's house to borrow something, and saw Gu Sheng's old mother sewing shoes and doing needlework. Leng Meiren took the initiative to help Gu Laoma work, sewing shoes, mending socks, sewing bedding for Gu Laoma, and also doing a lot of other housework for Gu Laoma, going in and out, just like the daughter-in-law of the Gu family, very skilled.
Gu Sheng saw this scene and really knew that this cold beauty was actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside. People just don't like to talk, they are not good at expressing, in fact, in their hearts, they still know how to be grateful, and they use practical actions to express themselves, in fact, they are more noble than those who can move their mouths and do not move their hands.
Since then, Leng Meiren often helps Gu Mother to take care of housework, and Gu Mother often helps the mother and daughter's rice noodles and grains, and gradually, it has become the daily routine of the two families. It's just that this cold beauty is still a serious and cold face at all times, not smiling, and not saying thank you.
Once, Gu Laoma's hemorrhoids attacked, and the pain was so painful that she died and came back to life. Hemorrhoids are such things, the long part is the private part of the person, and it is not convenient to let the son assist in cleaning. At this time, leng meiren was used again, and the girl served Gu's mother in front of the bed, scrubbed the affected area for Gu's mother, and changed the medicine for the wound, three or four times a day. Mother Gu herself felt embarrassed, but the girl did not have the slightest disgust, not dirty at all.
Mother Gu was so touched that she said to the girl, "Hey! If there is a daughter-in-law, like the girl you, can serve me to retire to the end, I die, I can also close my eyes with peace of mind! After saying that, Mother Gu couldn't help but wipe away her tears.
When the girl took care of her mother, she was really moved, and quickly comforted the old lady and said, "Don't say that, Gu Brother's mother is filial piety, ten million times stronger than our orphans and widows, I am nothing." ”
Mother Gu said, "He is a boy in the end, how can he be as careful as you, and there are some jobs, the son really can't do it, it has to be the girl's family!" I am already this age, maybe one day I will swallow my breath, but now, there is no grandchild, cut off the incense of our family, the heart is really not a taste! ”
Just at this point, Gu Sheng went home and came into the house. Mother Gu wiped her tears and said to Gu Sheng: "Thanks to the girl taking care of me, this kindness of others, you must not forget it, you must find an opportunity to repay others well!" ”
Gu Sheng gave Leng Meiren a deep fist and saluted, but the girl said: "You have kindness to my family, giving rice noodles allows our mother and daughter to live to live, I have not thanked you, you do not have to say anything to me, this is what I should have done." ”
Two poor families help each other, respect and love each other, but the girl is still a cold attitude, making people easily unapproachable.
Suddenly, one day, the girl went out, Gu Sheng saw it, and kept staring at the girl's figure. I saw that the girl suddenly turned her head and smiled back at Gu Sheng, which greatly surprised Gu Sheng. The cold beauty, who was as cold as frost, actually smiled at herself. Gu Sheng was overjoyed and quickly went forward to talk, and the girl did not refuse this time, taking Gu Sheng back home.
Gu Sheng was inching forward, further teasing the girl, the girl did not refuse, and after coming and going, the two naturally had a relationship. After finishing the matter, the girl warned Gu Sheng: "This kind of thing, I and you can't have two." Gu Sheng didn't take it seriously and went home.
The next day, Gu Sheng went to find someone's home again, wanted to ask the girl again, and the girl returned to a cold and frosty attitude, rejected Gu Sheng in one mouth, and resolutely refused to agree.
Leng Meiren'er rarely enthusiastic once, but this beautiful feeling, fleeting, only enthusiastic once and then completely disappeared, is it that Leng Mei'er's head was dizzy that day, and she regretted it after doing a couple?
But anyway, Gu Sheng and the girl next door finally made some substantial progress. Under the ancient feudal etiquette, let alone having a relationship, that is, a little bit of naked sleeves, a little skin touch, may become the legitimate reason for marriage. Then the marriage between Gu Sheng and Leng Meiren'er, that is, sooner or later.
But don't forget, there is also a third party here, that is, the unruly neighboring village boy, although this is not the plot of the Goryeo dog blood drama where two men love a woman at the same time, but after all, it is also a character who will create some trouble for the feelings of the two.
As for what kind of trouble he will create, please pay attention to @Hermit Dream and pay attention to our next story sharing of "The Lady of The Lady of Chat".