Friend asked: I am an honest person, and I always suffer losses in my work, so I want to learn some heart-tapping skills. But over the years, I have read the I Ching, the Tao Te Ching, and the Analects. I feel that my moral sentiments are noble, but I have nothing to do with conspiracy. Can you tell me how ghost bones attack the brain?
Yes, I'll give it a try. Today we are going to talk about the ghost valley's heart attack technique, right? In fact, to attack the heart is to break the lock of people's hearts. Language is the primary tool for psychological attack.
We all know that speaking is an art and a bridge between people. Therefore, the strengths and weaknesses of interpersonal relationships mainly depend on the ability to speak and communicate. Some people may express different attitudes, such as relatives. In fact, even in the presence of blood relatives, intimacy is measured by the number of exchanges. For example, you're always willing to chat with relatives you can talk to.
How to attack the heart? First, you have to find the lock hidden in the other person's heart.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > first, untie the knot</h1>
We call it a heart knot. Only by finding out where the knot is can you find the key that opens the door of your heart.
Therefore, finding the location of the heart lock is the most important, which is the same as decoding the code. Only after decoding can we know the truth. Oniguzi was also recognized for this,
How do I unlock? It's a technical job! However, Oniguchi only describes it in one sentence. There are nine words: follow his desires to see his will. Don't underestimate this sentence, it is actually the key to open the heart. These nine words actually have three meanings
1. Conform to the will of the people. Oniguchi says "follow it", "follow" is to conform to it, and "qi" is the other side. If you want to unlock the other person's heart, you must obey the other person so that you have a chance.
2. Insight into human desires. You and I are both mortals, with seven passions and six desires. Each of us is actually dominated by desires such as appetite, sexuality, and even curiosity. People are different because everyone's hobbies are different. For example, my special hobby is Oniguzi, so Oniguzi's thoughts are full of my three views, so Oniguzi is my connection point.
3. Know what you want. Seeing is the meaning of observation. The will is not the will, but thinking and thinking. Before you can chat, you have to understand what others are thinking. Although the human heart is invisible, it is understandable.
Therefore, it can be summarized as: observe the desires of the other party, and then insight into the intentions of the other party.
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Second, clever calculations</h1>
Man is a calculating animal, don't say you won't. Planning is a deep question, not a problem. For example, you will keep your distance from strangers and you will not be willing to communicate with others. Essentially, it is for self-preservation. In fact, this is also a conspiracy.
People seem to be in harmony with each other. In fact, most of them have locks in their hearts that they don't easily reveal to others. Especially in today's society, there is widespread mistrust between people. This makes there a lot of "duplicitous" lies in real life. They are obedient on the surface, but in reality they go their own way. On the surface, this is respectful, but in reality it is flattering.
Reality and cruelty make many young people dumb, afraid to speak casually, and even create social and psychological obstacles. They are disturbed not only at work, but also in love.
How to solve this problem? You need to find the key to open your heart.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > third, careful observation</h1>
How do I open the heart lock? Nature is to find the wonderful mechanism in the other person's mind. Humans are accustomed to hiding the truth in their hearts. This requires us to observe carefully, think patiently and rigorously, from the surface to the inside, layer by layer to find the root cause, and find the heart lock hidden in the heart.
What is the power of strategists? Actually, you can find a person's heart lock and then open the heart lock.
In the workplace, you can blame others for their poor ability and poor work attitude, but the term "infidelity" is obviously absolutely unusable.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > four, proper bowing</h1>
That's the way it is in the workplace. Very realistic. Some people are proud of it. They are energetic. If some people are frustrated, they will have to bow their heads. People had to bow their heads under the eaves. Soft surfaces, though, are temporary concessions with a purpose.
This is a kind of helplessness in the workplace. Sometimes it's hard to get along well with a leader.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > five, with the heart</h1>
Actually, there's not much to say. It's actually a psychological attack. He had a keen insight into the mind of the Ying Dang: the Ying Dang wanted to commit suicide, but the Ying Dang wanted to kill the Six Kingdoms. Therefore, he only needs to conform to the psychology of what he should be and use him.
It's like putting an elephant in the fridge, it takes three steps. The first step is to conform to the people's will, the second step is to understand the people's hearts, and the third step is to understand the people's hearts.
Finally, we have to solve a historical mystery: many people think that the apprentices of Oniguzi are not easy to die. In fact, this is wrong. Zhang Yi has been retiring in wei, and by the way, he has become the prime minister.