My first meeting with the little fat family

Since the establishment of a relationship with Xiao Fei on The National Day of October, our dates have also been limited to sometimes weekend self-driving trips around Chengdu, and occasional daily dating dinners. At that time, he was silent and deep, and I knew very well that I had not really entered his heart, and I had no intention of entering and understanding him, I was in a trance in my own world, and I did not care whether the other party liked me much. Perhaps, two people who are estranged from each other's stories, at that moment, only need a companion, can not be too clear about their past, do not need to make any explanation for the past, and do not give each other any pressure, such a sparse interaction, just right.

But soon, Xiao Fei arranged for me to meet with his son, I took the initiative to arrange to eat hot pot, that is, a hot pot restaurant that is waiting in line anytime and anywhere, in the waiting area, I met for the first time a tall, thin, more taciturn high school student with a gloomy face than his father, I had no strange feeling, we did not please each other, quietly queuing. Halfway through, he said that he was hungry, how long would he have to wait in line. I got up and went into the next door to the dirk to buy him a pair of chicken wings, which he gladly accepted and nibbled on. Later I heard him say that I was the only woman among his dad's many girlfriends who bought him something in time to fill his stomach.

Then, on a holiday, he arranged a meeting with his parents' family. I followed him back to his hometown, because I had no experience meeting the other parents, I didn't know what to prepare, and he didn't ask for anything. But the day before the trip, I still asked the people I wanted to see, including his parents, brothers and sisters, nieces, nephews, nieces, and I carefully prepared a gift for each person so as not to be rude. When I opened the gifts in front of Xiao Fei, I still saw the smile in the corner of his eyes, and many years later, I learned that he valued everyone in his original family and loved them fervently. As for how this attention and love were betrayed, this is the story of eight years later. The first time I walked into the neighborhood of his hometown, I saw the house number and smiled slightly, it was my birthday. It was the older elevator-free unit building in the middle of the city, opening the door and going in, huddled with a room of people, shouting and opening the meal, the impression was that his family's food tasted weaker, I did not eat much, so that for many years their family thought that I did not eat enough, and later learned that I did not eat enough only compared to his family. Xiao Fei is nearly 180 tall, his parents and his brothers and sisters are tall and fleshy, and the juniors are also fat, all of which come from their good appetite. Years later, when I failed to control my son's diet, I always blamed his paternal genes.

Later, when the gifts were distributed, the family was lively and the time that followed, I have no memory, no footage of his parents looking through the previous photos of me in the TV series, no brothers and sisters telling about his brother's past, no one asking me where I came from, what I did, my family situation, and no one received any return gifts from his parents and family. It felt like a bunch of people were staring at a lively scene and then everyone dispersed, and they also received an entrance ceremony by the way. At that time, I didn't have any emotions, in line with my professional spirit, and I only cared about what I should do, and as for the feedback after what I did, it may take a little time.

My meeting with Xiao Fei's family began and ended in this atmosphere that was not salty and not light.