"Daiyu Funeral Flower" has become a very wonderful fragment in "Dream of the Red Chamber", the character image is vivid, the scene is poignant, and the funeral flowers are tearful, whether it is a hint at the tragic fate of Baoyu Daiyu in the future or heralds the decline of the entire family, whether it is the helplessness of the short youth or the sigh of the easy death of life, it is moving.

The plot of "Daiyu Funeral Flowers" appears twice in the novel, and if you read the text carefully, you will find that it is about Daiyu funeral flowers, in fact, both times it is Dai Yu Baoyu burying flowers together. And Bao Yu also has the experience of burying flowers for the third time in the novel.
It is better to say that the funeral flower is the expression of Daiyu's emotions and the perception of her life experience, it is better to say that the funeral flower is the embodiment of Daiyu Baoyu's two hearts and souls, and the affection of confidant; it is said that the funeral flower is Daiyu's helplessness about the disappearance of spring and the sentimentality of falling flowers, rather than Baoyu's perception of youth's ease of passing away, which is similar to a deep return; saying that the funeral flower is Baoyu's infinite compassion for the lost life, rather than Baoyu's cherishing and reluctance to the present.
Baoyu is the one who really buried the flowers.
The first time to bury the flowers, in the twenty-third "West Chamber Remembers The Magic Words and Jokes, Peony Pavilion Yanqu Police Heart", Baoyu carried the forbidden book "West Chamber" to peek in the garden, accidentally encountered Dai Yu burying flowers in the depths of the peach forest, the two discussed how to bury the flowers, Bao Yu let the fallen flowers go with the water, and Dai Yu buried them with soil. Dai Yu also explained her reasons: "It is not good to be in the water. You see the water here is clean, just first-class out, some people's places are dirty and smelly, and the flowers are still ruined. I have a flower mound on that deformed corner, and now I have swept him away, put him in this silk bag, and buried it with the soil, but it will not be clean for a long time." It can be seen that Dai Yu's mind is meticulous, understanding that the Grand View Garden is a Garden of Eden, and once out of the garden, everything will be different. What she pursues is not only the purity of the present moment, but also the eternal purity. Bao Yu listened, not to refute, but to "be overjoyed", and said" "When I put down the book, help you clean up", he immediately stood in the same camp as Sister Lin.
This scene is very similar to another plot in the novel, that is, in the fortieth "Shi Taijun Two Feasts Grand View Garden, Golden Mandarin Duck Three Xuanya Card Order", Jia Mu took Liu Grandma to tour the Grand View Garden, and the group took a boat to lotus champs, passing through the lotus pond, Bao Yu published: "These broken lotus leaves are hateful, how come they don't let people come and pull them out." Dai Yu saw the same scene but said: "I don't like Li Yishan's poem the most, I only like his sentence 'Leave the lotus to listen to the sound of rain'." You don't have any remnants of the lotus anymore. The two have very different views, which shows the difference in their personality preferences: Baoyu likes to be lively and bustling, and Dai Yu appreciates poignant ruin. What is interesting is that when Bao Yu listened to Daiyu's words, instead of refuting or mocking, he immediately expressed his position: "Sure enough, in the future, we will not ask people to pull it out." ”
Perhaps, after the reader has just ridiculed Baoyu's rebelliousness like a child's childishness, he will be immediately moved by Baoyu's deep affection: whether it is treating the residual lotus or treating the falling flowers, Baoyu thinks that what Sister Lin says is right and good, and Sister Lin always has a different opinion, Sister Lin likes what I like, I have to praise and I have to support! Baoyu can be said to be the only "Lin Sister" to Daiyu who listens and has always had a deep affection.
Seeing Dai Yu's burial flowers, Bao Yu did not feel strange or surprised at all, but sincerely agreed. Why? Because Baoyu's "love of red" has a long history, his "love" includes respect, cherishing and protection, not just love. Like Daiyu, he cherished and loved the fallen flowers. When he saw the "falling red array", the peach blossom petals fell all over the book, wanted to shake off and worried about the footsteps trampling on the falling flowers, before shaking the petals of a pocket in the water. Isn't loving flowers so much the same as Daiyu? Isn't he and Daiyu having a spirit in their hearts? It can be seen that Eryu is already a confidant in spirit.
Not only Does Baoyu understand Daiyu, Dai Yu also understands Baoyu. When Baoyu was called away by the raiders, Dai Yu passed by Lixiangyuan and heard twelve girls practicing drama, and her heart was moved, and the poems and songs that came to mind just confirmed Baoyu's way of "burying flowers", letting the flowing water send flowers: "Like flowers and beautiful flowers, like water flowing years", "water flowing flowers are thankful for two no guesses", "Flowing water flowers in spring, heaven on earth", "Flowers falling and flowing water red, idle and sad". Every sentence is lamenting the love affair between flowing water and falling flowers, the change of emotions between people, deep and helpless, and lovesickness and entanglement.
This burial of flowers, there is no desolate and mournful atmosphere, with the reading of the West Wing in the blossoms of the flowers, one is "sentimental and sick", the other is "the appearance of the country and the city", with a sentimental pulse but not hair, it is simply a beautiful model, but Eryu's perception only stays at the level of the story of the beginning of the love sinus and the talented woman.
The plot of the second burial of flowers is heavy and colorful, and the twenty-seventh time "Di Cui Ting Yang Concubine Plays Colorful Butterflies, Burying Fragrant Tomb Flying Swallows Weeping Red", unfolds in stark contrast.
In the festival of mango planting, the sisters joyfully worship the god of flowers in the garden, and tie a colorful line on every tree and flower, "the embroidery belt flutters in the garden, and the flowers and branches are displayed." The girls dressed up as "peach shy willows, swallows jealous warblers", called friends and led companions, played together, and even Baochao, who has always been dignified and calm, even jumped and jumped to chase butterflies, full of youthful and lively atmosphere everywhere.
And Dai Yu was alone, burying the fallen flowers with a hoe in her hand, and reciting the funeral words with tears, full of desolate and sad feelings.
What about Baoyu? He has always liked to be lively and like everyone to get together, but he has no hesitation in participating in the activities of Daiyu's funeral flowers. This is a manifestation of his deep affection for Daiyu, no matter what the situation, he will not abandon Daiyu. Baoyu collected all kinds of fallen flowers, used his clothes to pocket, and sent them to Daiyu's flower tomb for burial. It can be seen that Baoyu loves flowers and cherishes flowers, not for Sister Lin to see, but consciously and voluntarily. A tacit understanding has been formed between the two jades, and the falling flowers will be buried in the flower mound.
When Baoyu listened to Daiyu recite the funeral flower at the bend of the hillside, his reaction further showed that he understood Daiyu, her sadness, and her loneliness. At first, he nodded his head and sighed, indicating his agreement; when he heard the sentences "Nong is laughing and laughing, he buried Nong knows who he is" and "Once the spring is red and old, the flowers fall and people die and don't know", Baoyu felt deeper and deeper, and he fell on the hillside and cried bitterly.
If Dai Yu recites the funeral flower words because of sad spring sorrow and sentimental flowers hurt herself, Bao Yu's perception breaks through the realm of hurting spring and cherishing spring, and rises to the level of feeling youth and even feeling life.
Bao Yu not only thought of Daiyu, but also thought of Bao Chao, XiangLing, Attacking People, etc., but also thought of himself; not only thought that everyone's flower appearance and moon appearance would disappear, but also thought that everyone's beautiful youth would disappear, but also thought of life, never to return; not only thought of people's lives will disappear, but also thought of the prosperous scene in front of them will also disappear! From falling flowers to youth, from youth to life, from the individual to the whole, from people to things, from scenery to emotion, none of them can escape the passage and consumption of time. "Therefore, one and two, two and three, repeatedly pushed and begged, I really don't know why I want to wait for stupid things at this time, I don't know anything, I escape from the great creation, and I can explain this sadness." (28th)
First of all, Baoyu read Dai Yu and understood Dai Yu's loneliness and sentimentality, so he was so sad that he couldn't help himself. As he himself said: "I don't have any brothers and sisters, although there are two, don't you know that they are separated from my mother?" I am as alone as you, but I am afraid that I will be like my heart" (twenty-eighth time). Put yourself and Daiyu in the same position and from the same perspective to think and look at it, and feel empathy.
Secondly, because of Baoyu's empathy and affectionate words, the two eliminated misunderstandings and contradictions, "Dai Yu listened to this, and unconsciously forgot about last night's events outside the cloud of nine clouds", the feelings were more harmonious, and they joked and amused each other, "Bao Yu listened, and he gritted his teeth and laughed."
Again, Baoyu also deepened his understanding from Daiyu, understanding that time is fleeting, all beautiful things have moments to disappear, and he can't save it and can't stop it. This feeling has always been precipitated in Baoyu's heart, unwilling to be opened and unwilling to look directly, he hopes that the flowers will always bloom, hope that the sisters will always accompany him, and hope that all beautiful things will last forever. Until the Grand View Garden was copied, Qingwen was chased away and died, Si Qi was expelled from suicide, Yuan Chun died violently, Yingchun was abused to death, Lin Sister died of illness, and Jia Fu was copied, Bao Yu finally carried out his feelings to the end and left home away from the world.
The third time he buried the flowers, it was Bao Yu alone. In the sixty-second time, Xiangling and Baoyu, Fangguan, and Ruiguan fought grass in the pile of flowers and grass, Xiangling said that he had picked "husband and wife Hui", and Baoyu said that he had picked "and Tilian". At the end of the game, people dispersed, only Baoyu did not leave immediately, "crouched on the ground, the Fang Cai husband and wife Hui and Ti Ling dug a pit with branches, first grabbed some falling flowers to lay the mat, put this Ling Hui on, and then buried some fallen flowers to cover up, fang pinch soil buried flat", Xiang Ling who saw this scene did not understand Bao Yu, "What is this called? Strange people say that you are used to sneaking and making people numb. You see, your hands are muddy and slippery, and you can't wash them away yet."
It can be seen that not everyone understands the behavior and inner feelings of the funeral flowers, and it is impossible to understand them unless they know the voice. Baoyu's burial this time is "husband and wife Hui" and "and Tilian", implying that in the future, Baoyu will bury his love and marriage with his own hands. Dai Yu died of illness, his love faded; marrying Bao Chao, he left home.
After Baoyu buried the flowers three times, it is the plot of Shouyi Hongqunfang's night feast, and this structural arrangement can be said to be layered and interlocking. At the birthday banquet, Baoyu and the women played a game of "flower draw", each woman drew a flower sign symbolizing her fate, Baochao drew "peony", Tanchun drew "apricot blossom", Li Feng drew "Old Plum", Xiangyun drew "Begonia", Musk Yue drew "Diplodo", Dai Yu drew "Hibiscus", and raiders drew "Peach Blossom", clearly telling the reader that the women in daguan Garden were as splendid as flowers, with the beauty and unique personality of different flowers.
And baoyu who is in it will see the incomparable splendor of the flowers when they bloom, and will also see the helplessness of the flowers falling; he will also witness the vitality of the bloom, and he will also witness the misery and desolation when it withers; he will bury the flowers that fall, and he will also bury the fangs in the Grand View Garden; he has felt the pain of the "Qunfang marrow (broken)", he has felt the desolation of the "Thousand Red Caves (crying)", and he has felt the helplessness of the "Wanyan Tong cup (sorrow)".
Baoyu is the real flower burial man.
Attached: Daiyu Funeral Flowers (Encyclopedia)