Wen | Wen'er
With the popularity of the movie "My Sister", many people feel empathy for the role of the sister played by Zhang Zifeng, whether to sacrifice personal future for sisters and brothers to rely on each other, has always been a test of human nature, and the answer seems to be only one, just like the choice of the movie ending, give up going to Beijing, choose "my world is only you" brother.
But is this the right choice really right? Will my sister regret it in the future?
Just yesterday, I received a letter from a netizen who bluntly said that he had been making way for his brother all his life. When his parents died, his sister was still studying nursing school, and his brother was sent to his grandmother's house to be raised, but he was sent back to his sister for two years, only because his sister worked and had money to support his brother.
This upbringing lasted for twenty years until my brother graduated from college.
During this period, the sister delayed her marriage, lost a better job, and the savings were spent on her younger brother, and even ben's age was still renting a house, becoming the hardest person in her peers. I thought that my brother would be blessed after graduating from college, but the reality was not satisfactory.
"You shouldn't have left me in the first place. Ruined your life and ruined mine. ”
When she heard this, her sister seemed to be poured with cold water, and her heart was cold. I don't know who talked too much, told him that there were rich couples who wanted to adopt their brother, which made the younger brother who was currently rejected by his girlfriend because he couldn't afford to buy a house instantly want to be crooked, and recalled the grievances suffered by fatherless and motherless in the past twenty years, and couldn't help but put the pot on his sister's head.
"I also want a life where food and clothing are worry-free, I also want to have a father and a mother and a favorite, I don't want to be ridiculed as an orphan, and I don't want to be called a white-eyed wolf when I complain." 」
The younger brother's words made the sister stunned, how could he have worked hard for twenty years, but in exchange for his brother's dissatisfaction? At that time, it was not the sister who was willing, but everyone was forcing the sister to raise a younger brother, and the means were much more varied than in "My Sister". It is true that the adoption of a rich family is true, but the other party is not infertile, but has a biological daughter, and if he wants to adopt a son, he may not leave the family property to his brother.
But all these reasons were useless, the sister ruined her life, and did not exchange the gratitude of her brother.
Some netizens believe that the younger brother was raised by his sister, and now he has become a white-eyed wolf and a problem with his sister's education, and his younger brother is innocent. All children are a blank sheet of paper, and parents have to take on educational responsibilities, and my sister is no exception.
But in order to pull her brother up, the sister has been overwhelmed by life, where is the time to care about whether the younger brother is ridiculed by his classmates, and whether his adolescence is mentally healthy? At that time, my sister was also an eighteen or nineteen-year-old girl. As for buying a house and a car, the sister herself is still renting a house, and the savings of these years have been used to support her brother, where can she afford to be responsible for her brother's marriage?
All kinds of difficulties have brought my sister back to the same choice twenty years ago, when relatives were telling her how important blood relations were, and now it seems that my brother would rather go with the rich couple.
Finally, if you were a sister, would you choose to keep your brother? Speak your mind.
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