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As the saying goes: the eldest son should avoid the mother, and the female should avoid the father. Even if the relationship between parents and children is good and close when they are young, until the child grows to a certain age and has a gender understanding, parents should know how to avoid suspicion.
Some time ago, the video of Beckham kissing his daughter Xiaoqi because of the behavior was too intimate, which caused controversy among netizens. Some netizens believe that the mouth-to-mouth behavior of father and daughter is too much to accept; some netizens say that this is the performance of spoiling their daughters, which can be understood. But the following father's approach to his daughter made most netizens one-sidedly express: dare not imagine.
A 17-year-old girl in her sophomore year of high school said she was too scared to go home from her father's excessive physical contact. Dad often kissed her, licked her face with his tongue, touched her ass, and did not care about the occasion. Not only that, but Dad also asked to help her take a bath, but he wouldn't let her, and Dad rebuked her, saying that the child's body was his body.
This is a South Korean talk show, and the girl came to the scene for help because of her father's excessive physical contact. It is understood that not only did the girl suffer such excessive physical contact from her father, but the girl's two younger sisters were also often kissed and touched by their father. All three daughters said that they were very disgusted by their father's physical contact, and what was even more incomprehensible was that the mother of three children thought it was a very normal thing and did not take it seriously.
After helping my mother see it, I couldn't believe that this was something done by a normal father and a normal mother. What is even more infuriating is that this father does not think that he is wrong at all, and even feels that it is taken for granted. Netizens also expressed their own views on this, almost one-sided anger that the father was perverted.
The helper mother also feels that it is not too much to say that it is perverted, after all, parents and children are parent-child relationships. Moreover, if the father is too close to his daughter, it will have a great impact and harm on the daughter's psychology and body. For the healthy growth of children, help mothers call on parents, especially fathers, to pay attention to these forbidden areas in the process of getting along with their daughters.
1. Do not touch your daughter's sensitive areas
The father must not touch the important parts of the daughter, except for bathing and kissing her when she was a child. When the child reaches the age of 2-3, the father should pay attention to his own behavior and avoid touching these sensitive areas.
2. Do not touch your daughter's intimate clothing
Girls' underwear and underwear, fathers do not touch, do not think to help their daughter wash, especially after the daughter is older. These intimate clothes are the private property of girls, part of personal privacy, and even if they are fathers, they have no right to touch without permission. The mother can contact with the permission of the daughter, and can also help the daughter choose the right underwear.
3. Popularize sexual knowledge to your daughter as soon as possible
Parents should popularize sexual knowledge to their children as early as possible, and tell children which parts of the body can only be seen by themselves, others cannot see, which places can only be touched by themselves, and others cannot be touched. It is necessary to teach children to cherish themselves, protect themselves, and let children have a sense of self-protection from an early age, so that they will not be easily bullied in the future.
In the growth of children, parents should position their roles, what to do, what not to do, to know in their hearts, not to offside.
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