"My Best Friend's Wedding" is an American romantic comedy film starring Julia Roberts, Cameron Diaz and other Hollywood A-list stars. The film's Premiere in June 1997 broke the record for the premiere of a romantic romance film and grossed $21 million at the box office. The film was also nominated for the 70th Academy Award for Best Score, three nominations at the Golden Globe Awards, a british academy of film and television arts award nominations, and an MTV film award.
In 2016, Teng Huatao supervised the remake of this drama, although it invited Shu Qi, Feng Shaofeng, Song Qian and other stars to help, it is still a super big bad film, and Douban scored 4.4 points.
So this article was written only for that movie 23 years ago. As for the eponymous work from 4 years ago, please forgive me for ignoring it.
When I first watched this show more than a decade ago, I was still a little girl in my 20s. At that time, I thought this drama was very hilarious and funny, and it was a light chick movie.
Recently revisited, I found that behind the hilarity of this drama is the deep loneliness and helplessness of the heroine. After going around, the person she thought was dating her tacitly was long gone from her world, leaving her alone and desolate.
At first I didn't know the meaning of the song, and then I listened to it, and then I was already a person in the song.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, how much love, in the name of friendship</h1>
Julianne and Michael are old friends. They had been dating for a month in their sophomore year, and because Julianne didn't like being restrained, she proposed to break up. But the two did not become estranged, but continued to get along as best friends.
After the breakup, the relationship between the two is closer, they are each other's only confidants, know all the things about each other, know each other's preferences, and have a lot of good memories together.
They were familiar with the fact that when they later met Michael's fiancée, Kimmi, the two of them had endless words, but they left Kimmi hanging aside, and they couldn't interject if they wanted to.
When they were 22 years old, Michael took a razor and slashed a knife in his and Julian's hands, making an alliance of blood: if jun did not marry Qingqing at the age of 28, then the two would marry.
Julianne always remembered the pact. Although she is also in a constant relationship, in the end they all feel that they are inferior to Michael.
Three weeks before she was 28 years old, Julian received a call from Michael, mysteriously telling her that there was an emergency. Julianne was having dinner with Gay Honey George, and at George's suggestion, Julian almost decided that Michael was proposing to her.
Excited, she called Michael back, expecting him to say the words she wanted to hear the most. Michael was indeed getting married, but it wasn't her!
Only then did she realize that she really loved Michael. She is determined to snatch Michael back by any means necessary.
People often ask, is there pure friendship between men and women?
The passage says that there is, the uglier the purer.
But psychologists tell us that the so-called "pure friendship" between the opposite sex will always be mixed with some "private feelings". In a scientific survey, 96 percent of subjects said they had ever felt attraction from friends of the opposite sex.
If you think you have a pure heterosexual friendship, either you are pretending to be stupid or the other party is pretending to be stupid.
Like Julianne and Michael, Michael breaks up passively, but he still loves Julianne. In order not to completely lose her, be her best friend and stay by her side in another way.
Does Julianne not know that Michael loves her? Of course, she knew that the other party had loved her for nine years, but she had been undecided, and it was a pity that she was not willing to lose it, so she was at ease to put him in the position of "best friend" so that she could see it when she turned her head.
Named Friend, it is actually a spare tire.
How much love, in the name of friendship, is wrongfully placed between the two people. Just wait for the day when someone conscience finds out, take the last step of the defect, let the friend become a boyfriend/girlfriend.
And Michael's impending marriage made Julianne suddenly wake up. If she didn't take that step again, she would lose Michael.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two, miss a moment, miss a lifetime</h1>
Julian flew to Michael's city. At the airport, old friends who have not been seen for a long time are intimately reunited. Only this time, behind Michael, stood another woman, his fiancée.
Jin Mi, rich second generation, blonde hair and blue eyes, slim and slender, smiling innocently, simple mind.
Julianne later admitted that if she didn't have to hate Kimmi, she must have liked her very much.
Kim Mi does not hide her love for Julianne, and also expresses her complicated feelings for her husband's heterosexual friends. She invites Julianne to be her bridesmaid, but lets her know: "I know you're Michael's ideal, but I'm his lover." ”
This almost provocative bluntness provoked Julian's desire to win, and she decided to start implementing the plan to rob people:
Deliberately showing her intimacy with Michael in front of Kimmi makes Kimmi realize that Michael has a world she will never enter.
Let Michael and Kimmi expose their shortcomings in front of each other, such as Kimmi's five-tone incompleteness, and she takes them to sing karaoke. But what she didn't expect was that when the microphone was handed to Kimmi with difficulty, she not only took over and sang it, but also ran out of tune to the sky to sing a whole song in order not to embarrass Michael.
Kimmy gave up her architecture degree for Michael, and Julian deliberately made her feel unworthy and encouraged her to persuade Michael to change careers. Because Julianne knew how much Michael loved his job.
But none of this worked, and Julianne had no choice but to call George for help. George plays her fiancé and shows her love in front of everyone. Unlike Kimmi, who was incoherently excited, Michael felt crazy jealousy.
But the momentum didn't last long, and soon Julianne, at George's suggestion, told Michael the truth. The two push their hearts on the cruise ship, and Michael reflects on their previous failures, because love is pressed in the heart and does not say it, but missed, is missed.
At this point, Julian decided to amplify the move. She tries to get Michael to misunderstand Kimmi's dislike of his profession, and the two have a big fight, and Michael decides to break the marriage contract.
I thought the winner was in hand, but michael went to the wedding scene the next day. He tells Julian that he will marry Kimmy as long as she doesn't hate her.
Desperate, Julianne desperately confesses to Michael and forcibly kisses him. Who knew that Jin Mi just came over, saw the two kissing people, and ran away crying.
Michael immediately chased after him. Who the red rose and white rose will choose is already clear.
As George asked Juliann: He chases her, you chase him, who is chasing you? No one!
Julianne finally realized that even though she had been Michael's favorite person, even though he had loved her for nine years, he was now in love with someone else. And she has completely lost Michael. They missed a moment and will miss a lifetime.
This can be a memory, but it was already confused at the time. Why is it that when people are about to lose a person, they find that they have long been inseparable from him.
Just like Hao Scarlett in "Gone with the Wind", she always thought that her favorite was Ashley, until Brad gave up on her, and then she suddenly woke up and loved him so much that she couldn't help herself.
Unfortunately, feelings, like time, are single-arrow things. Once gone, there will be no end in sight. No matter how much regret you regret it, you can't get back the feelings that have passed.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > three, no one will stay where you are forever waiting for you</h1>
Julian decided to help Michael get Kimmi back to atone for her sins. In the noisy bathroom on the court, she found Kimmi. In the face of Kimmi's angry scolding and the scorn of the onlookers, she confessed to Kimmi: "I lost, failed, Michael doesn't love me, the only person he wants to spend his life with is you." ”
Michael and Julianne end up on the same wedding scene, but he wears the groom's dress and she wears a bridesmaid dress. When Julianne appeared, Michael and she had momentary glances, and there was only relief and gratitude. Immediately turned to the bride's eyes, but it was so affectionate and determined.
After the farce, all the dust settled. Nothing has changed, nothing has changed. Julianne finally woke up from her illusory dream. In that dream, Michael had been waiting for her where they had first met, and whenever she looked back, he was there.
When he woke up from the dream, Michael gave her only a hug from a friend, and then took his bride with him and wandered the world.
Some say, don't overestimate your place in the hearts of any one person.
The biggest invariance in the world is change, the sky will be barren, the earth will grow old, how to expect that one person's heart to love another person will not grow old?
No matter how beautiful the white moonlight is, it becomes white rice when you get it. Didn't get it, and after a long time, it became white rice, but it dried and stuck to the heart wall, and it was a little difficult to cut down. Once you cut it off, it just doesn't hurt or itch.
Not to mention that the red dust is rolling, there are so many beautiful people, even if there is a heart hanging on a tree, there are always random flowers that gradually want to charm the eyes.
It doesn't take long to fall in love with another person, it's enough to have a mind turn.
Only in the novel is there Yang Guo, who has waited for the little dragon girl for 16 years. In real life, 16 months is a lifetime.
Therefore, when you can love, grasp the love, don't be pretentious, don't be pretentious, don't feel that the next one will be better than the sky, and when the thousand sails are over or the most beautiful, when you turn around, there is no one behind you.
No one will stay where you are forever. This is the truth and cruelty of real life.
I believe that Julianne, who has experienced Michael, will understand this thoroughly. When she meets the right person again, she will not let him go easily.