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I like a sentence said by Zeng Guofan:
"A gentleman does his duty, and does not care about the mandate of heaven, and the destiny of heaven is in the personnel."
In reality, the reason why many people fail is that they care too much about the so-called destiny, but they forget the most important thing: to do their personnel.
In fact, the smarter people are, the more they like to work hard to fight for what they want.
We can calculate an account, when you spend a sum of money to buy a beloved thing, are thinking left and right, wavering, have you ever thought that the value lost in the time it takes to think about it is greater.
Instead of exhausting your mental energy and time wavering in your choices, it is better to be fierce, direct, and bold.
Because things have two sides, blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, misfortunes and blessings depend on each other, whether it is good or bad, it is never a choice alone that can be completely decided.
Therefore, we should all become as independent as possible, especially independent of thought, so that through our own growth and efforts, we can gradually become a strong, sober and wise person.
Even if sometimes, the rational side will make people feel indifferent, but they must understand that paying attention to the bottom line and principles, maintaining independent thinking and constantly evolving mentality, in order to create their own pattern view, truly realize their own growth, and become a generalist.
Aquarius
Aquarius is a very extreme sign, even much more extreme than any other sign.
These people seem to be able to afford it, put it down, and have their own views and opinions on human feelings and sophistication.
At the same time, they also give a cool-headed, detached feeling, but in reality, these guys are very accustomed to hiding their thoughts and minds.
In some cases, Aquarius will even deliberately curb the feelings of normal people, and then call it a kind of self-discipline and self-control.
In fact, we acknowledge that Aquarius can achieve something through their potential and profession in many fields, but sometimes they will also allow themselves to bear some unnecessary psychological pressure in the process of self-control and bondage.
This impersonal approach to the world, on the one hand, gives them enough free, comfortable and quiet space to be alone, but on the other hand, it undoubtedly cuts off the so-called connection with the outside world.
Over time, these people will be alienated by others, and even easily give people a sense of arrogance and coldness.
This indifferent style can be said to be integrated into the bones, so that in the style of human sophistication, Aquarius is also easy to give people a very strange, difficult to predict feeling.
But for this situation, Aquarius seems to be born not to care much, do not pay attention to anything on weekdays, but feel that a person can do what they want, free to do themselves, is a reliable thing.
They feel truly safe in an environment where they can think freely and express themselves freely.
This is why most Aquarius need to first set a self in the inner world of the self, or create a small world when they integrate into the big family of society.
In this small world, they can let the mind rest, and they can also wander freely in it, just as human beings need air, to observe themselves, to know themselves, to achieve themselves.
Therefore, Aquarius will instinctively resist the restraints and instructions imposed on them by others, even if the other party is kind, but if they cannot be persuaded, they will not be able to do so.
More often, Aquarius would rather come up with their own opinions and ideas to make some choices than agree with others, although they will also feel justified.
They think that everyone can't recognize knowledge beyond their own cognitive range, so when they miss some opportunities, they don't like to regret it, but will tell themselves quite calmly that losing opportunities is a natural thing due to their own ability and pattern.
Therefore, this makes in the pursuit of life, Aquarius is more inclined to improve the personal level, enhance personal willpower, and open their own horizons, tap potential, and promote the pattern.
Only in this way can we live out our vitality, creativity, and harvest happiness in the journey of life full of ups and downs.