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The women suddenly realized that the real world was not dreamy at all
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Undoubtedly, this is the Chinese dad.
In the parenting world, in almost every family, almost all copy and paste, this same type of dad.
As the old saying goes, Father's love is like a mountain!
Today's "mountain" is a real mountain.
Every dad, as soon as he stepped into the house, he was lying on the couch like a mountain, motionless!
What？
Don't scare me!
Is this the happiness we are chasing, the second half of our lives, day after day?
The women suddenly woke up, it turned out that the real world was not dreamy at all! Boring and cruel!
One world, one dad.
It seems that behind every mother, there is such a child's father, who never cares about the child, never does housework, a giant baby who drags the family's hind legs, and a person who drops the chain to the heart.
housework? child?
In the dictionary of their lives, it seems that these words have never been engraved.
Everyone thinks that love can be immortal, but life has not only the immediate and the poetry, the distance, the home, and such an idle product.
His name is Daddy.
So, clever woman, it's time to wake up.
In the difficult matter of raising children, the skills that must be obtained are: children, there is something to find your father. The universal sentence that must be learned is, child, there is something to find your father.
Homework won't be done? Find your dad.
Something in the house is broken? Find your dad.
Run out of money? Find your dad.
This question will not? Find your dad.
This is the so-called, reluctant children, can not set the father!
Dad doesn't have time?
How come!
Time with children is like water in a sponge, like toothpaste that you think you are going to throw away, squeezing it, there is always there.
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Invisible dads are social products, not unique to your family
The Chinese dad model is pretty much like this: never care about the children, never do housework.
One board at a glance, to and from work.
Don't be afraid of god-like opponents, just fear pig-like teammates. In every home, the mother rolled her eyes vigorously, and there was such a daddy pig teammate.
Every day after work, they will only watch TV, fight landlords, take off their shoes, throw their bags, come to Ge You, watch the ball or, the glory of the king.
On TV, endless spy dramas, anti-Japanese dramas, obviously sleepy to the point of not being able to do it, but also clutching the remote control and not sleeping - this is the last stubbornness of a middle-aged man.
The child is crying? Something to do with me.
Bumped into the teacher? Something to do with me.
Mom is angry, so what's about you?
On the other hand, mothers who have children have become birds without feet. Children have become the armor of mothers, but also a weakness.
In this world, only being a mother can't act, and you can't steal laziness. Children eat, dress, sleep, every piece, is a war of chickens flying dogs.
However, behind how many superhuman moms, there are as many absent dads.
Trouble dads look over, please don't push everything to your mother before saving the world, take care of your own children first, okay.
Invisible dads are social products, not unique to your family.
In this world, there is no far place that you have to go, there is no meeting that you do not open, and there is no feast that you cannot do.........
Heaven has sent you to be a father, and you can't just use it to name you.
Isn't it!
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What kind of marriage relationship, what kind of children will be raised.
There is now a popular saying that there is only one thing in this world that cannot be pretended, and that is love.
A loving home, raising a loving child. Indifferent home, raise indifferent children.
Parenting and educating children is not just a matter for mothers. Both parents must be golden partners, and the best CP is right. The child grows up only once, so the father must not be absent.
From this moment on, woman, please put away your big package, and always cultivate a sense of consciousness: there is nothing to say to the child, and something to find your father.
Treat the other half as your own hero, an admirer with your head held high, and let them participate in family education.
How nice!
In general, fathers are more social than the familyization of mothers' parenting.
The father is the child's declaration of independence, the child's brave textbook, and the child's guide to the world...
Undoubtedly, the family relationship in which parents participate together, the family relationship in which harmony is needed, is the premise for raising a child with a sound mind.
If Dad doesn't do well, Mom can teach him and get angry, but no one has the right to deprive Dad of the right to take the child.
Therefore, no matter how omnipotent the mother is, she must also learn a universal sentence and teach the child: There is something, you can go to your father.
WeChat public number: Lao Yue Yu'er said