Teenagers love to chase the waves, and the end of the world was once the dream. Some people say that the most precious quality of a teenager is the word "uninhibited", the courage of the newborn calf who is not afraid of the tiger, and the spirit of believing in the future and daring to fight. In Jiangsu Satellite TV's "iFLYTEK AI Learning Machine • Super Brain Youth League", the most touching thing is the fearless "youth force".
In last Friday's program, in the face of victory and defeat, there was Zhu Keru's "Learning Hegemonic Versailles", Luo Wenzhang and Song Yuxuan's "Small and Broad", and Wang Yueran's "Mental Collapse"... After the program was broadcast, how to guide children to establish a correct concept of victory and defeat, and how to educate children about setbacks, became a hot topic among the audience.
To let go of gains and losses is to be at ease
We always say that people need to have a "gain or lose heart" because it can inject inexhaustible motivation for you to reach the other side of your dreams. But at the same time, if you have too much of a heart to lose, you will suffer from gain and loss, but it will push you farther and farther.
Last week, the first project of "Super Brain Boy Group" "Dominate! In the "Star Lighthouse" challenge, Luo Wenzhang, Wang Maohua and Song Yuxuan of the "Little Brain Melon" team finally won, and they were all the younger of the two sides.
After the end of the game, the comments of "Super Brain Captain" Wei Kunlin hit the nail on the head. "The older we get, the more we have the will to win or lose, it will affect our own state. And why did Luo Wenzhang answer correctly every time? Because he is a little teenager, the little teenager does not have so many victories and losses, and he can play all his potential. In Wei Kunlin's view, the ability of teenagers cannot be judged solely based on the victory or defeat of a game, but if they want to make achievements in the future, they must first learn to let go of winning and losing.
Letting go of gains and losses is "winning without being arrogant or defeated." Zhu Keru temporarily topped the standings after the first episode of the show, and everyone thought that he was a "big god" level existence, but he took a bite of "I am a dish". He clearly knows that the victory of a project does not mean anything, and that winning or losing is sometimes a fraction of a millimeter.
To let go of gains and losses is to "do as you please, I am leisurely." Luo Wenzhang, the "problematic teenager" in the eyes of others, can always maintain amazing concentration and burst out of huge energy in the game. But even so, on such a remarkable stage as "Super Brain Boy", he will still take a nap against the pillow, as if the fierce battle situation does not seem to have much impact on him.
To let go of gains and losses is to "not be vain and self-effacing, nor to complain about yourself." Song Yuxuan initially chose Zhou Qianxiang, and the words were outside the words to find "soft persimmons" to pinch. After being awakened by Wei Kunlin's words, he took the initiative to "show weakness" that he was "dismounting", and wanted to use the TianJi horse racing strategy to win with one blow. This cuteness and innocence, real circle fans.
"Since ancient heroes came out of youth, not afraid of years and not afraid of losing!" "Put aside the shackles of the world and run forward, you must have a bright future." The audience praised it.
Don't seek perfection, just do your best
In the program, Wang Yueran from the beijing eighth middle school junior class also became the focus of the audience's hot discussion. In the "Dominate it! In the challenge of "Star Sea", she represented the team for the first time, originally full of ambition, but unexpectedly encountered "Waterloo".
During the competition, when drawing the first two path maps, Wang Yueran was slightly slower, but he was still able to maintain a normal rhythm of doing the questions. While drawing the third path, she failed to reach the end despite repeated attempts at multiple instructions. Watching the time pass by minute by minute, Wang Yueran's mentality underwent a subtle change. Eyes closed, hands trembling, and even buried his head on the answer board at one point... In the words of the audience, Wang Yueran at this time has completely "collapsed". After the game, Wang Yueran, who failed to complete the answer, was left in tears.
This scene made the audience in front of the TV set feel painful. But Chen Ming's words also make people have to pay attention to children's frustration education. "Now there is a saying about many teenagers, especially these very powerful 'cow babies', that they grew up with 'three highs'. The first is high expectations, the second is high self-esteem, and the third is high standards and high requirements. Chen Ming said: "This 'three high' children, once they encounter the opportunity of setbacks, once they encounter the moment of tears, they are also the children who are most likely to collapse with one blow." Sometimes, perfection is a pursuit. But at a certain stage, perfection is a kind of shackle. ”
In the previous program, Yi Nengjing also stated that parents should not require their children to be perfect in every dimension, because "we can't do it ourselves." Therefore, instead of doing everything possible to pursue perfection, it is better to let children know how to do their best and only seek perfection.
Come on, boy! May you not remember the past, live up to the present, and fear the future! Every Friday night at 21:10, Jiangsu Satellite TV "iFLYTEK AI Learning Machine • Super Brain Youth League", please continue to pay attention.
Source: Jiangsu Satellite TV