On November 29, 2002, Sun Li filmed "Jade Guanyin" in Kunming.
By chance, through the program "Hope in the Mountains", I saw Xiang Haiqing's hard work to study.
A ragged teenager is squatting in the dirtiest corner of a restaurant brushing dishes.
Because of their poor family, teenagers come to restaurants almost every day to seek chores - and the reward is to make the teenagers full.
Because Sun Li was also born in a poor family, and he was a single-parent family.
After the divorce, he lived with his mother for nearly seven years without a fixed home.
Empathy for Xiang Haiqing's situation,
So Sun Li asked her mother to contact Xiang Haiqing through the hotline in the program.
And began to fund his studies.
But in the college entrance examination in 2004, Xiang Haiqing was named Sun Shan,
At that time, he wanted to give up, but Sun Li and his mother were firmly opposed.
Sun Li's mother and daughter felt that going to college was almost the only way out for poor children, so they strongly encouraged Xiang Haiqing to re-read, so that he did not have to worry about the cost of re-study, they would be fully responsible.
Finally, in 2005, Xiang Haiqing successfully entered Shanghai Fisheries University.
Sun Li is happier than he was admitted to college,
Because of the needs of the university, Sun Li's mother and daughter bought a mobile phone for Xiang Haiqing.
And undertook the cost of learning and miscellaneous things for Xiang Haiqing's life,
He also pays special attention to his life.
Mother Sun knew that the child's mother was not in good health, and she went to Shanghai to buy medicine and then sent it to Xiang Haiqing's mother.
Back and forth to get along with each other, after a few years of time,
Sun Li's mother and daughter once confessed that the two of them did not just see him as a simple funding object.
Instead, he treated him as a family member, and Sun Li treated him as his own younger brother.
But after the teenager went to college, his conscience changed a little.
He began to demand more and more.
After the school granted him 6,000 yuan, he did not mention a word. And he got the money and immediately changed to a new mobile phone.
Continue to cry poor to Sun Li.
Sun Li said in an interview that what impressed her most was on December 7, 2005.
Xiang Haiqing called and asked her for 500 yuan,
After 10 days, the request for 500 yuan was made again.
At that time, the price was about one or two cents of an egg.
After going to college, the poor boy became a vampire.
And suck harder and harder every time,
Each time it became more and more reasonable.
Sun Li finally knew about this,
She also believes that Xiang Haiqing has gone to college,
There should be independent consciousness and opinion,
Unable to rely on the forces of society as before, funding stopped.
As a result, after the donation stopped for a period of time,
Xiang Haiqing threw away his original commitment to "keep donor secrets",
Wrote a long article of more than 6,000 words to push to reporters, describing Xiang Haiqing's own difficulties,
And expressed his "gratitude" to Sun Li,
He also thought that helping himself was an easy task for Sun Li.
And said that he was surprised by the sudden cessation of donations,
Softly aiming his head at Sun Li,
In disguise, he made an accusation against Sun Li.
In the final analysis, it is just an attempt to use the power of morality and public opinion to exert pressure and force Sun Li to obey.
This incident once brought Sun Li to the cusp of the storm. In addition, the reporter involved is particularly good at adding oil and vinegar, depicting Sun Li as extremely ugly and Xiang Haiqing extremely pitiful.
But any normal person can understand that if a person sponsors poor students to go to college without compensation, what bad things can he do to this student?
More subtlely, Xiang Haiqing was 23 years old at the time, while Sun Li was only one year older than him at the time.
Xiang Haiqing was not grateful, but he used poverty as an excuse to bite back.
Afterwards, Han Han hugged Sun Li on the social platform:
"Ordinary people are not allowed to keep even a large dog in the city, so why can Sun Li raise wolves in Shanghai?"
Your kindness, unripe white-eyed wolves.
The greatest evil of human nature is not gratitude, but vengeance.
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"Before I gave five hundred, why should I only give one hundred now?"
In the past 10 years, Shang Binghui has been a grassroots public welfare person who has rescued hundreds of people in need alone.
For the poor and sick, he did everything in his power to raise money for treatment; the wanderer, for ten years, he provided food and lodging, and gave assistance.
Although on the way to doing good, he encountered the incomprehension and questioning of others, Shang Binghui rarely paid attention to these comments and adhered to the original intention of helping others.
But one day, Shang Binghui received a call from the police station, and the police person was Huang Dabo, who had helped him for 3 years.
Did Shang Binghui usually treat Uncle Huang badly?
Since discovering Uncle Huang three years ago, he has brought him oil, rice and meat every week to maintain his diet, and provided him with a 500 yuan pocket money every month.
And this year, Shang Binghui lost more than 100,000 yuan, and he was very tight on hand. On the eve of the New Year, he invited the wanderers to dinner and sent a hundred yuan red envelope to each person.
The wanderer Huang Dabo was not happy: "You used to give five hundred and five hundred land, are you famous and look down on me?" ”
Therefore, Huang Laobo called the police in order to ask Shang Binghui for money.
In order to calm the matter, Shang Binghui gave Huang Laobo another 200 yuan.
This kind of grace will take revenge, Huang Lao Bo is not the first time to do:
When Shang Binghui was hospitalized for a leg injury, Huang Dabo could not contact him and went to Shang Binghui's waste station to argue and scold.
Whenever Shang Binghui helped others, the old man was not happy.
Once when Shang Binghui wanted to help a sixty-year-old man, Huang Dabo said, "That person is so much younger than me, you still go to help him."
Sometimes, the phrase "there must be something hateful about the poor" is not without reason.
Doumi raises grace, bear rice to raise revenge.
Even if you pour out your heart and lungs to him every day, even if you encounter difficulties, as long as one help does not meet their expectations, resentment will take root in your heart.
Kindness, always filling the gap of dissatisfaction with desire.
Carnegie said, "Gratitude is a very cultured product, you cannot get it from ordinary people, and it is human nature to forget or not to give thanks." ”
Most of the givers don't ask for anything in return.
But if you accept the kindness of others, please keep a gratitude in your heart.
Gratitude is the highest level of kindness of a person.
Finally, may every good person be safe for the rest of his life, may every kindness be treated well, and may every kindness of ours not be betrayed.