After my father left, my stepmother raised me for 18 years

After my father left, my stepmother raised me for 18 years, and on the day I got married, my stepmother said, I don't deserve to attend your wedding.

It is said that being born without raising, breaking fingers can be reported, being born and raising, severed heads can be reported, not being born and raising, how to repay, this incident happened to me, this has to start from eighteen years ago

I remember when my mother just left, my father became very strange by nature, always drunk and quarreled with my grandmother, I always hid in the bedroom, secretly listening to their quarrels, I remember that on a final exam essay, I wrote an essay on missing my mother, the teacher called me alone, advised me to be brave and strong, at that time I was only 11 years old, and how to understand what is strong, soon after, my father remarried, married my stepmother, that is, my stepmother, people often say that my stepmother does not have a good one, I think she must be the same, When she first entered the door, I always avoided her, I don't know why, I showed special rejection of this woman who suddenly appeared, but after a period of running-in, I found that my stepmother was a taciturn person, but she had a good heart and eyes, and she was particularly gentle with me, because she made me feel the warmth of the family and feel the long-lost maternal love.

But Grandma's attitude towards her stepmother was always lukewarm, as if there was some disgust, especially on the day that the stepmother gave birth to her sister, Grandma stood at the door and said dismissively, it was another, losing money, a bunch of useless things.

I saw my stepmother shed tears sadly, my father sat in the dark room without saying a word, the birth of my sister Nini brought a lot of happiness to the family, as long as I finished school, after doing homework, I would hold my little sister to play with her, my stepmother saw me so close, very happy, but since the birth of my sister, the burden of the family was heavy, so my father could only go out to work, in that era when communication was still underdeveloped, my stepmother always held my sister and sat in the courtyard, and her eyes were full of thoughts about her father. Soon after the father went out to work, there was a bad news, the father lost his life in order to earn more money, which was undoubtedly a sunny thunderbolt that made the whole family fall into painful solidarity in an instant, the stepmother was the saddest, and the grandmother buried the injustice, saying that the stepmother was Kef's life, which brought disaster to the family.

I remember the day my father was buried, my stepmother cried and almost fainted, I understand that my stepmother really cares about her father, but her life is too bitter, and she lost her lover shortly after arriving at this home, such pain, but also after I grew up, I had a profound understanding, and it was also from the profound meaning of the word "feelings" that I completely understood the feelings and heartaches of my stepmother.

After the father left, the stepmother gave her sister to the grandmother to take care of, and she tried to find a way to work to earn money, yes, he also had to provide for the family to eat and drink, and the burden on her shoulders was too heavy.

When I went to high school, I always had no intention of learning, my stepmother kept enlightening me, let me abandon all burdens, no matter what, I had to go to college, looking at my stepmother's sincere and firm eyes, I regrouped my mood and put my mind on learning ⬆️, I knew that in order to provide for me to go to school, my stepmother ate too much hardship, but she never buried her grievances, but every weekend will accompany me and my sister, enjoy a rare time, a special eye so many years have passed, I have also graduated from college for six or seven years, and now I have found Ruyi Langjun, ready to get married, Just a month after I got married, a strange woman suddenly came to the house, she took my hand and said, Daughter, I am your mother, I haven't seen you for so many years, you don't want your mother

I don't know why, I haven't seen him for twenty years, I don't have four good feelings for him, I was wondering if I was too desperate, but Grandma was very enthusiastic about her attitude, and repeatedly advocated letting him marry my stepmother to my wedding.

No matter how I objected, Grandma stubbornly spoke for the woman, I also learned not long ago that the original miss mom gave Grandma a big red envelope, the two of them discussed to squeeze the stepmother aside, the more I thought about it, the more I felt excessive, my so-called mother did not manage me for so many years, and now I am ready to get married, she came, what is this logic, for this reason I fell out with my grandmother, the stepmother hid in the bedroom to secretly wipe tears, to see soon to get married, my sister and I are trying to persuade my stepmother, Let him be sure to attend my wedding, stepmother but for the sake of rare to say, or let your mother go, I do not deserve to attend your wedding After listening to this I was instantly more because, stepmother she raised me for eighteen years, worked hard for half a lifetime, and now finally waited until her daughter got married, speed and then let people replace her, I immediately told my stepmother, I only have one mother that is her, she must participate, as for others even if not even one does not go, it does not matter, because I have already taken my stepmother as a mother

I heard that I was so stubborn that my relatives complained about me, saying that I was not distant and distant, and even let a person who was not related to me attend my wedding in place of my biological mother, they said it well, I was really stubborn, because they were not me, I could not understand the feelings of a lonely little girl, and when I needed maternal love the most, where was my mother, when I was sad, my mother had wiped my tears for me, I said this is indeed a bit selfish, But I can no longer let a woman who has truly loved me for eighteen years be sad, life is not easy, stepmother is more difficult, the grace of parenting is greater than the sky, please cherish the person who pays for you without complaint or regret,