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Tang Ruoxin learns original works, and those who violate them will be investigated
The more powerful a person is, the more he understands, the real growth is never a moment, but to know how to seek the overall situation, so if we want to become a powerful person, please learn to lay out the overall layout This is the key, but also the key to our ability to stand out.
People who learn to seek the overall situation will often go further, and those who learn to seek the overall situation will also allow themselves to have a long-term career.
Life itself is a big system, so people who seek the overall situation are the real masters of life strategy, and they are also the key to our real success.
So how to become a strategist in life, we need to make systematic planning for our lives early.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" >01 plan your own sense of meaning and value in life </h1>
What motivates a person's continued efforts in life is our sense of belonging to the meaning of our own lives. The philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche has long said that if you know what you live for, you can often endure any life.
So if we want to make our lives more meaningful and valuable, we must first learn to plan our own sense of meaning and value in life.
For the meaning and value of life more from the belonging of our inner hearts, if you grasp this point, you may think, when you feel that your life is very happy and meaningful, if you can see your life happiness is meaningful, often we may find our own sense of belonging to the meaning of life.
Cartoonist Cai Zhizhong said that he had found his own meaning and sense of belonging when he was very young, so he aspired to become a cartoonist early.
For us ordinary people, we need to respect ourselves, find our own sense of belonging from the areas we love and are good at, and also reveal our own life destiny and portrayal early.
Letting our souls have a sense of belonging can make us reduce the consumption of ourselves, let us spend more time on the realization of the value of our own lives, and also let us understand what the purpose of our lives is, which is the meaning and value of seeking the overall situation.
First find your own sense of belonging in life, you can slowly stand out, and let you know that the best sense of belonging in life is to find the meaning and value of your own life and become the creator of your own life.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" >02 know how to do a good job of self-management and guidance </h1>
The planning of life is actually the blueprint of the self's life, if we want to become a person who seeks the overall situation, you also need to do a good job of self-management and guidance.
In fact, the reason why the growth of life is more complicated than everyone thinks is because many people are weak in self-management, which leads to the overall situation of the self being out of control.
If we want to become the masters of our own lives, the most important thing is to learn self-management. Li Ka-shing once said that a person's failure is essentially a failure of self-management, because he cannot fully achieve self-discipline.
And the really powerful people will definitely do a good job of self-management, this kind of self-management is a kind of life goals and desires have long been engraved in their own minds, and the first thing they wake up every day may be to do important things in their own lives.
Doing a good job of self-management is essentially to resist the constraints and control of the surrounding environment. Physics has a law of entropy increase, which tells us that the essence of life is a consumption, and to reduce the heat energy, we need to know how to do work on our own initiative.
This kind of active work, to put it bluntly, is not to let your instincts prevail, but to let the rational and rational mind occupy the space for self-growth.
Human instinct has many flaws, and reason and reason will lead us to continuous growth. For example, in the face of difficulties, the human brain is often habitually avoidant, and if we understand the nature of growth, we will actively face it.
So the essence of self-management is to go online to the weakness of the self and promote self-growth and strength in a better way.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" >03 may wish to be more patient with yourself </h1>
If you're a strategist in life, be patient with yourself. In fact, the growth of life is largely caused by our inner impatience or inner anxiety.
Your anxiety will make you impatient, and it will make you lack enough enthusiasm and motivation for this matter. Being more patient with yourself is a sign of loving yourself.
Because only by loving yourself, you will accept the repetition of growth instead of doubting yourself. Good growth is to understand that the process of growth is often slow, he needs a long period of experience, only after experiencing this period of training, we can completely come out.
Being patient with ourselves is also an important part of our life strategy. If you grasp this point, you may understand that patience is not a chicken soup, but that growing up is a slow process in itself.
Good strategists don't make sure they act all the time, and it's important to learn to keep their own pace of growth. Whenever and wherever we are, we must understand that it is not our personal efforts that are enough, and sometimes you must learn to be patient and wait for the most appropriate time to come.
This is what we often say about waiting for the wind to come, learning to be your own life strategist, often know how to plan your own life very well, this kind of planning is a good position to demarcate yourself, know how to wait for the best time for yourself, but also know how to maintain continuous growth, waiting for your own opportunities.
In fact, the growth of life has always been a synergistic effect with the situation, do our own efforts, and then believe that God will not fail those who work hard, with patience and self-growth waiting for their own best opportunities, this is the key to our success.
Every powerful person will accumulate their own advantages in their own field and wait for their own opportunities, such as Buffett's refined value investment theory that has been gradually recognized after more than twenty years of practice.
So we should never be afraid that we can't succeed, but do the right thing, not impetuous, not anxious, weak water three thousand, learn to do their own perseverance is the most important thing in life.
Today's topic: how do you think you plan your life, welcome to discuss and communicate.