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Life is like a mirror. You sigh at it, it reflects a gloomy cloud; you smile at it often, and it returns to you in the sunshine.
Send you 5 mirrors to help you see through life.
Microscopy: Grasp the details
The attitude to details determines your own life.
What makes people tired is not the distant mountains, but a grain of sand in the shoes. Ouyang Xiu said, "Evil often accumulates in the slightest, and Zhi Yong is trapped in drowning. ”
Details seem to be a problem that we often overlook, people often say "almost enough", but we don't know that our attitude to details invisibly determines the height of life.
Greatness comes from attention to detail. The of a thousand miles collapses in the ant nest, the details determine success or failure, and the attitude determines the height.
But there are generally not too many vigorous events in life, and most people's lives are accompanied by a thin stream of chicken and garlic. Paying attention to details is not just a chicken feather, life should be thick and thin, and it is also necessary not to worry about details at the same time. Both eyes are focused on trivialities, small things, but will be burdened by details.
As the premier of a big country, Zhou Enlai paid great attention to details when dealing with others, and attached great importance to doing a good job in the work of various countries and people from all walks of life.
There is a language in Somalia without a written language, the official use of Italian, but the local people only understand Somali. During zhou Enlai's visit to Somalia, at a mass rally in Mogadishu, Zhou Enlai spoke, translated first into English, then into Italian, and then into the local Somali language. Later, after his visit to China, Nixon said: "Premier Zhou pays close attention to each tree, but he also pays attention to the forest." ”
Nothing in this world can be achieved overnight. All big things start with simple and small things.
Big gifts do not spare small sections, and the details determine success or failure. Quantitative changes will eventually cause qualitative changes. Do things in detail, and naturally you will get things done.
Magnifier: Zooms in on the pattern
"Those who seek big things, the first priority is the pattern." Knowledge is the mainstay, supplemented by talent. "Pattern is the internal layout of mental elements such as a person's vision, mind, behavior, and insight.
The heavens are great and can accommodate the vast sea of stars; the earth is so great that it can nourish all living beings; the sea is so great that it can accommodate hundreds of rivers and rivers; and if people have an atmosphere, the heavens and the earth and the sea are all between the hearts and minds.
In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is said: "Let one step be high in the world, and regression is the basis for progress; treating people with a generous point is a blessing, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest." "An atmospheric person, with a broad mind, can always and everywhere to understand others, develop a big pattern, and accumulate great blessings."
Broad-minded, open-minded and generous, it is better to let people get three points than hurt and be angry, not to be preoccupied, so as to develop a big pattern, save blessings and blessings for themselves, and the road of life is getting wider and wider.
Telescope: Open your eyes
Mencius has a saying: "Confucius ascended the Eastern Mountains and Xiao Lu, and climbed mounted Mount Tai and xiao Tianxia." "After Confucius ascended dongshan, he felt that the country of Lu had become smaller; after climbing Mount Tai, he felt that the whole world had become smaller.
Only when people stand higher can they see farther. Once the vision is limited, it is like a frog at the bottom of the well, sitting in the well and watching the sky.
Life needs a pair of telescopes. Only by lifting the fog of the world can we see the truth of life.
Whether it is to be a person or to do things, the level of vision determines the height of life, and if you want to go far, you must see far.
When you look far ahead and broaden your horizons, you can see both a tree and a forest, there will be more opportunities in life, and your world and state of mind will become more and more extensive.
Flat Mirror: Recognize yourself
The stars in the sky can be counted, but the soot on his face is invisible. In life, taking the wrong path and doing the wrong thing is not terrible, the real terrible thing is the habit of escaping, the habit of complaining, not knowing how to reflect, not knowing how to introspect.
Tang Taizong Li Shimin once said: "With copper as a mirror, you can wear a crown; with history as a mirror, you can know the rise and fall; with people as a mirror, you can see the gains and losses." "Life needs a flat mirror to always examine your own gains and losses.
People are not afraid of not having experienced thousands of mountains and rivers, they are afraid of understanding too late. Man's greatest problem is not the inability to recognize people's hearts, but the difficulty of recognizing themselves.
As Browning said, "A man who can reflect on himself is certainly not a vulgar person." "People who know how to introspect themselves are more considerate of others and improve themselves."
Dare to admit your mistakes, do not indulge in applause and pride, and do not stop at setbacks and adversity. There is no point in doing anything, but asking for oneself, and a life without self-examination has no meaning.
May you and I always introspect ourselves, be diligent and self-motivated, and strive to become a better version of ourselves along the way.
HAHA MIRROR: Let go of your mindset
Samuel said, "The world is like a mirror: frowning at it, it also frowns at you; laughing at it, it also smiles at you." ”
People with a good mentality, in front of them is a haha mirror. All troubles are unreal, all joys are magnified to the extreme.
Life is not easy, why bother yourself? Instead of envying the happiness of others, jealous of the success of others.
It is better to calm down the mind, it is rare to be confused.
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