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Nowadays, for urban children living in unit buildings, because everyone is accustomed to closing the door after they go home, there is not much communication between them, so the feelings between neighbors are not so deep, and even a little strange and cold.
But in the countryside, because every household is accustomed to opening the door, neighbors are also very familiar, so the children love to run at the east and the west, from this point of view, the childhood of rural children is much more lively than that of urban children.
But not long ago, in order to let the children feel a lively childhood, several neighbors in a community in Henan came up with a very "wonderful" idea, which also successfully pushed several parents on the hot search.
In order for children to visit the door to play, the parents of the four families on a ladder opened the door, and netizens called childhood back after watching it
Not long ago, a video of several children playing triggered a crowd of netizens and heated discussions.
It is understood that these children are neighbors on the same floor of the same community, and the highlight of the video is not the children's play itself, but their parents have collectively opened their doors in order to make their children play more painfully.
In this way, the ladder of four households has become a large space without barriers, and the children of the four families can play at will.
One of the parents said that before this, several neighbors did not know each other, but because each family has children, so everyone is slowly familiar with each other in getting along, several children often play together, and sometimes parents make delicious things and are very happy to share them with other children.
After the video was exposed, it immediately triggered a heated discussion among netizens, and some people thought that this method is very worth advocating, which can not only cultivate the feelings between neighbors, but also give children a lively and interesting childhood that is not lonely.
"Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and now the neighborhood relations in the city are too cold, and several parents can open their doors to let their children play and deserve praise, hoping that the friendship between children and adults can last forever."
"Looking at this, I immediately remembered the childhood compound time, when the children in a yard were all playing together and were very happy, unlike today's children, who lived for a few years and may not even know who the neighbors are."
"Childhood is back, I envy such a neighborhood relationship, it is rare for adults to be able to deal with each other, and children have childhood playmates and small hair."
Although this way of opening the door for children to play has received many likes from netizens, many netizens have also questioned it.
In the eyes of this part of the netizens, the practice of these four families looks new and interesting and harmonious, but it is not considered for other neighbors at all, a group of children jumping and jumping, noisy and noisy, which is bound to affect the neighbors on other floors to rest.
"My first reaction when I saw this was what to do downstairs?" Those who have not experienced being disturbed do not know how terrible it is to run upstairs, so many children, all year round, whose heart can bear it? ”
"Parents are happy, children are happy, but the neighbors upstairs and downstairs are unlucky, the rural compound runs with you, but the building must have the standard etiquette of living in the building, and parents should teach their children to pay attention to the influence of upstairs and downstairs, rather than letting them go crazy."
"My downstairs neighbors want to be like this, I will find a property complaint, to play can go downstairs to the children's play area to play, at home to run and jump will definitely affect others to rest, especially if there are elderly people and babies at home."
Parents open their doors for their children to visit and play, is it lucky to have such a neighbor?
It is undeniable that for parents, it is a very fortunate thing to be able to find like-minded neighbors on the same floor, especially when children have become intimate playmates because of the friendship of adults, which is indeed a rare fate.
But as parents, in addition to considering our own and children's feelings, we should also take into account the ideas of other neighbors and learn to put ourselves in each other's shoes to consider problems:
Suppose I had a snoozing baby in my house, would I resent the behavior upstairs? Suppose there are elderly people in my family who sleep lightly, can't stand the noisy living environment? ......
So while the idea of parents creating a hilarious childhood for their children is novel and rare, it may not be a blessing for neighbors on other floors.
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Children's childhood is short, and as parents, each of us wants to be able to enrich this precious time.
But before taking action, we also need to consider many aspects, and we can't base our happiness on the pain of others, which is also the principle of life that parents need to teach their children in parenting.
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