The fatal virtuous wife who served her husband on Huangquan Road and scrupulously observed the way of women (I)

As the saying goes, "Husband and wife are the same forest bird, the big disaster is coming to fly separately", Dr. Xiao A has been working in the clinic for more than five years, and has personally seen many examples of husbands abandoning their wives and wives tired of their husbands, and they have a deep understanding of this sentence.

Sometimes she even feels that the husband and wife are an interest group similar to a joint venture company, beauty, stature, education, personality, income, household registration, real estate, parental health, etc. can be converted into chips, weighed on the balance of marriage, and then divided into grades with some social consensus and clearly marked with prices. Both sides hold chips to invest in shares, risk sharing, and advantage sharing, in order to achieve the optimal allocation of benefits.

If one side's chips are seriously depreciated, when the value of the other party's chips is exhausted, the company turns from profit to loss, and there is no need to continue to exist.

Whether rich or poor, sick or healthy, husband and wife will never be separated, this vow is a false proposition that violates the economic logic of marriage.

In modern society, the divorce rate is surprisingly high, if marriage has become worthless, which woman still abides by the set of three from four virtues of feudal society, and what is engaged in from one end to the end, never separated?

Xiao A originally thought so, until she met Liu Meishi.

Liu Mei's original surname is Mei, named Mei Bingxin, is a 46-year-old middle-aged woman, the wife of Liu Dahu, a 17-bed patient. Liu Meishi is a nickname privately taken by colleague M, because the various deeds of this woman are amazing, and it can be called a model of feudal women's morality.

Liu Meishi and Liu Dahu are fellow villagers and live in a small city in the first and fourth tier of the province. After marriage, Liu Meishi gave birth to two daughters in a row, and in order to avoid the fine for overbirth, the eldest daughter declared her disability on the grounds of "intellectual disability".

When the second daughter was more than one year old, Liu Meishi conceived three children at the strong request of her mother-in-law, and after many twists and turns, she finally gave birth to a dragon son. In order to avoid the fine, the mother-in-law gave the second daughter to a local couple who could not give birth to a child for adoption.

The couple moved away and never returned.

Liu Meishi said that when he said this, he would always wipe his tears, saying that later he once took a train alone to visit his second daughter, and when he saw it, he did not dare to recognize each other, so he looked inside the school railing and watched the second daughter play with the jumping band with the female classmates, her face was red and fluttering, and she was happy, and she was relieved.

When the eldest daughter was in high school, Liu Mei's mother-in-law had stomach cancer. At that time, Liu Dahu was busy talking about business, and his mother-in-law was handled by Liu Meishi from surgery to radiotherapy and chemotherapy. Three years after the operation, the cancer recurred, and when he was dying, he was also Liu Meishi's end of the and urine, waiting in front of the bed, Liu Dahu was completely hands-off treasurer, and the bed was not accompanied for a day.

According to the reason, such a virtuous wife, Liu Dahu should cherish it, right?

The fact is that within a few years of the death of the mother-in-law, Liu Dahu found a little third, and Liu Meishi divorced, no matter how Liu Meishi cried, the other party disregarded the feelings and wanted to break up.

Liu Dahu's desperate appearance even Liu Mei's father-in-law could not look at it, and scolded his son for "not a thing, the person who lost the old Liu family."

Before the marriage was divorced, Liu Dahu was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer.

"Well, it's all about drinking." Liu Meishi said this, blaming himself and chagrin.

There are many social parties in the business field, Liu Dahu himself is a person who loves to drink, and he also likes to eat at home for a few cups, and after years and months, the stomach is not faulty.

Liu Dahu's mother died of stomach cancer, Liu Dahu has a family history, which is a high-risk group with stomach cancer, and should do a gastroscopy every year to find lesions early. It should be known that the cure rate of early gastric cancer is still very high, and the survival period can reach several decades, and even does not affect life expectancy.

However, the lack of medical knowledge made Liu Dahu not check the body in time and missed the golden time of surgery. By the time of admission, stomach cancer had already developed multiple metastases from the lungs, liver and retroperitoneal lymph nodes, and after four rounds of chemotherapy, the whole person was weakened as visible to the naked eye.

Liu Meishi said, Doctor, save my man, just for the sake of the child. After all, a child cannot live without a father.

Liu Meishi also said: Doctor, as long as it is a good medicine, we will recognize it at our own expense.

Liu Meishi also said: Doctor, my man can't eat, give him more nutrition, too thin.

Liu Meishi cried and said: Doctor, don't play chemotherapy, my man can't stand it, he is uncomfortable.

So the supportive treatment of the end of the tumor was fully launched, nasal feeding nutrient solution during the day, painkillers plus sleeping pills at night, blood transfusion when hemoglobin was low, plasma transfusion if there was abnormality in blood clotting, and a transfusion was three days.

Liu Meishi brought water to feed during the day, and slept by the bedside at night to wait, not too bitter or too tired, hard work and complaints. Liu Dahu was in a bad mood and spoke badly, so Liu Meishi bought fruit and sent it to the doctor's office to apologize and let us not see him in general.

After ten days of treatment, Xiao A was touched by Liu Meishi - what a good wife of twenty-four filial pieties!

But colleague M is always very cold to Liu Meishi. Xiao A asked her why, and colleague M could not make sense, shook his head and said: "Intuition, I always feel that this woman is weird and a little evil." ”

Little A does not care, only that feminists are angry with backward elements.

(All pictures are from the Internet)