Sun Yunxiao: Life is the best education for children

There is a growing awareness of the importance of homeschooling. As a parent, how to raise children scientifically? What are the attributes of homeschooling? Why don't my children listen?

During the two sessions, in the live broadcast program "Night Talks of the Two Sessions" of China Education News, Sun Yunxiao, chief expert of family education at the China Youth Research Center, talked about his views.

Sun Yunxiao believes that the essential attribute of family education is life education. Tao Xingzhi's view: life is education. A good life is a good education, and a bad life is a bad education.

There are two major elements of family life education.

The first is family relations.

The essence of the family is the family relationship, which is very important and determines the happiness of the family.

The second is family life.

Beijing Normal University once did a large-scale survey, and the question was: "What do you need most?" 》。 Among the answers of about 180,000 primary and secondary school students, the first place is to have a warm home. This shows the importance of family relationships and family life to the growth of children. In fact, mobile phone management, reading management, health management... It's all about life.

For example, there is a very important method in education, called food education, which is the basis of moral intelligence, physical fitness and labor.

My mother can make rice with good color and flavor, I have been from Shandong to Beijing for more than 40 years, and every time I return to Qingdao, I can eat the rice made by my mother, which is a delicacy that cannot be bought on the street, the taste of my mother.

How many parents can't cook now? Cooking meals that are hard to eat? Some parents do not cook anymore and order takeaway, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children.

Of course, there are also many parents who do a good job, and there is a radio host in Henan Province called Tao Zhen. She set up many groups and initiated daily breakfast punches for parents, where everyone shared the meals they made for their children. Tao Zhen insisted on 1,000 days, more than three years, her son especially loves to eat the meals made by his mother, and is also proud of his mother, and his body is also very good, this is a good life, this is a good education.

Children can cook even better, yangzhou has a boy named Miao Weihang, during the epidemic stayed at home, learned to cook dozens of dishes.

In fact, you will find that children who develop housework habits at home and have strong living ability are also very strong when they go out to deal with various affairs. There are many ways to get into trouble.

I feel more and more that family life education is the main direction of family education.

China Education Daily Rong media reporter Jia Wenyi Du Jinghong RenHe