After the broadcast of "The First Half of My Life", the scolding of Chen Junsheng has been continuous and controversial.
Some people said to Luo Zijun: I will raise you, let Luo Zijun resign, and then rest assured that he will take the child at home. Later, he rebelled and abandoned Luo Zijun, which is not scum?
But I think Chen Junsheng is not as scummy as you think.
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Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun had a beautiful love, and they looked forward to a better future and stepped into the palace of marriage.
With the promotion of Chen Junsheng's workplace, the income is getting higher and higher, and in order to better take care of the children, Chen Junsheng said I raise you, let Luo Zijun resign, teach his husband, and do a good job in his rear.
Luo Zijun, who once graduated from a famous school, firmly believed in their love and did not hesitate to resign and return home as a full-time wife.
Once a woman has been out of the workplace for too long, without her own social world, and her home has become the whole of life, her vision will be narrow, and her heart will not be open.
There is nothing to do and you will be thinking wildly all day long.
Chen Junsheng's career was doing well, and Luo Zijun was slowly afraid of losing him. She knew that once she lost Chen Junsheng, she would have nothing and would not be able to support herself.
Therefore, Luo Zijun always wanted to firmly grasp Chen Junsheng.
But many things are like sand in your hand, and the tighter you hold it, the less you hold it in the palm of your hand.
When she was trying on a new pair of shoes for five or six thousand yuan, she suddenly saw Chen Junsheng and a young girl choosing jewelry, so she hurriedly wore new shoes on one foot and her own shoes on the other, and ran over.
The first thing she ran over was to show her love in front of the little girl, which was nothing more than declaring sovereignty: Chen Junsheng is mine.
When the little girl greeted her warmly in her heart, she ignored it and only took Chen Junsheng's arm and said that she knew jewelry best.
At that moment, Chen Junsheng felt extremely embarrassed in front of his colleagues. How he hoped that Luo Zijun would be open-minded and generous to greet his colleagues.
I think this kind of embarrassing thing for Chen Junsheng should be more than once or twice.
Chen Junsheng's heart should be awkward.
Despite this, Chen Junsheng is still the man who cares for the family. He understood Luo Zijun's concern.
But did Luo Zijun try to understand Chen Junsheng's helplessness? Definitely not, understand, will not let Chen Junsheng embarrassed.
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The development of modern society is very fast, the competition in the workplace is fierce, and Chen Junsheng has gradually risen to the position of director by relying on his own efforts and diligence, which is not easy.
The fast-paced daily life and the pressure of work often exhaust Chen Junsheng.
Back at home, he hoped that Luo Zijun could understand him and let him relax. Instead of constantly interrogating him, it made him feel more upset about going home.
How many nights, he would rather work overtime than go home, would rather sit in the car and spend time, rather than go home to face Luo Zijun.
The most important thing between husband and wife is trust.
Without trust, there is suspicion between each other, and both people will feel tired.
Luo Zijun is not in the workplace, and her main task is to ensure that Chen Junsheng does not get wet outside, so she interrogates Chen Junsheng and does not feel tired.
And Chen Junsheng worked hard all day, only hoping that Luo Zijun could reassure him, let him relax, and give him care, instead of chattering and asking questions about the east and the west.
How many people in our lives face such a wife and are still calm?
It is also understandable that a person who is tired of working and wants to go home and rest well.
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A lonely person, would rather work overtime than go home, afraid that at this time a woman will stay with him and greet him warmly.
Ling Ling, a divorced woman with a child, a woman who wanted to give her son and herself a home, appeared in front of Chen Junsheng at this time.
Chen Junsheng worked overtime, Ling Ling also worked overtime; Chen Junsheng was uncomfortable, Ling Ling sent medicine in time; Chen Junsheng was in a bad mood, Ling Ling accompanied him to chat...
Is Ling Ling too understanding? Of course not. She was planning for her future.
A divorced woman with a plain appearance said nothing that did not make Luo Zijun nervous.
But she didn't know that at this time for Chen Junsheng, beauty was not the most important thing, what was important was the understanding and concern for him.
Ling Ling took advantage of this time to enter the void. Luo Zijun was not defenseless against her.
If it was a young and beautiful little girl, Luo Zijun would definitely be nervous, but Ling Ling, a divorced middle-aged woman with no posture, Luo Zijun felt that she was not her opponent at all.
She was confident that she was prettier than she was, and she was confident that she was more attractive than she was. But at this time, all Chen Junsheng wanted was understanding and gentleness towards him.
Luo Zijun was on guard, and she didn't expect that Ling Ling, who she sympathized with, had actually dug her corner.
It is not enough for a woman to be beautiful, and if you want to be happy in marriage, you must also be considerate and gentle and understand each other.
A marriage comes to an end, and many times it's not one's fault.
Marriage is like a career, it requires two people to work together carefully, pay efforts and painstaking efforts, this career can be long-lasting and prosperous!
May everyone who enters the marriage be able to run this business well and keep this cause!
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