"Life is full of tastes, just do as you please."
If a person stays in the hustle and bustle for a long time, he will yearn for tranquility.
Weak water three thousand, I only take a scoop.
Don't let the world drown out the romance of life, do as you please, and let it all go.
Feel free and feel free
"The body is like a floating cloud, the heart is like stopping water, moving with the heart, no worries."
Life is short, there is nothing to waste, rather than resentment, it is better to let go.
Wang Wei, a poet of the Sheng Tang Dynasty, is known as the Poetry Buddha.
He entered the court to seek fame and fortune, but he was imprisoned because of the Anshi Rebellion.
In his twilight years, he has long looked down on the world.
Living in seclusion on Lumen Mountain, writing poems alone, or asking zen with high monks.
When everything was silent, he could hear the sound of spring water flowing and birds singing in the wind.
Wang Wei pinned his feelings on the landscape and wrote countless masterpieces:
"Sitting alone in the cage, playing the piano and whistling."
The people of the deep forest do not know that the bright moon has come to take pictures. ”
Life is ups and downs, the world is unpredictable, when you know that gains and losses are like the wind, idle from it.
The movie "Farewell to the Overlord" has a line:
"Man, you have to make yourself perfect."
We will always encounter unsatisfactory things, workplace frustration, emotional trivia, family changes, and grit our teeth alone.
If you have more worries, you will become a knot in your heart, tearing up all the time, waking up late at night, and the pain is indescribable.
Perfect yourself and let yourself go.
Tie the heart knot into a bow, bloom a flower in the tribulation, and the fragrance is fragrant.
For the rest of your life, whatever you want, everything is at ease.
Be spontaneous and please yourself
The British writer Woolf said:
"You don't have to be in a hurry, you don't have to shine, you don't have to be someone else, just be yourself."
From elementary school to high school, I always felt fat.
In the summer, I still wear long pants, afraid of being seen with my thick legs.
When I got to college and went shopping with my best friend, she chose a dress for me.
I said, "I don't dare wear it, my legs are too thick." ”
The friend was surprised: "Your legs are not thick at all, I am heavier than you, don't you still wear a skirt?" ”
It's unbelievable that I bought my first dress in college.
Once upon a time, I was inferior and timid, and never dared to "emerge", let alone have any personality.
After participating in various activities at the university and meeting many new people, I gradually became confident.
When you're in a good mood, occasionally put on lipstick, put on light makeup, and buy a bag to choose clothes.
When you're in a bad mood, go for a run on the playground, exercise, and go to the library to read and write.
No matter whether fat, thin, tall or short, everyone has the capital to love beauty.
Yishu once wrote:
"If you want something, don't wait for others to give alms, go out on your own and fight for it."
Time is rushing, now I like the skirt, wait until I am old and buy it but I can't wear it.
At this time, the scenery I want to see, and so on, but the mood is not as good as before.
Being yourself is the best way to live.
Please yourself, enrich your soul, and cultivate the pattern.
Follow the fate, do not think about the past
"Things do not seek surplus everywhere, and things can be cleared with fate."
Her best friend Mao Mao was dumped by her boyfriend of eight years, and she cried to death.
The reason for the breakup is very old-fashioned, the man said that the feelings are weak, do not want to enter the marriage, just be an ordinary friend.
During that time, Mao Mao took a month's vacation, could not eat, could not sleep, and the whole person seemed to be evacuated.
Later, it was the leader who called and woke her up.
"Life is not smooth sailing, which person has not overturned the boat in the gutter?"
You have paid for 8 years of youth, and now you even have to lose your career! Is it worth it for yourself to calculate the value? ”
Only then did he wake up, honestly return to work, and turn his sadness into a driving force to make money.
The past has already happened, so why miss it?
Continue to run forward and meet better people, so as not to live up to life.
If you see through it, you will find that life is actually very simple:
Those who come do not refuse, and those who go do not stay.
To change what can be changed, to let go of what cannot be changed.
"Zhuangzi" has clouds:
"If the heart is like a mirror, it will not be welcomed, and it should not be hidden."
The best practice is that the mind is like a clean mirror that illuminates everyone and everything clearly.
When you never linger, do not preset a position, you will not hurt your heart.
There is nothing in the world, and the mediocre disturb themselves.
Gathering and dispersing, settling down with fate, people live in the world, do not seek their own troubles.
"Deep affection is not longevity, strong is humiliating, humble gentleman, gentle as jade."
Man is like a piece of jasper, the more polished, the more lustrous.
In the long years, precipitate yourself, forgive yourself, and enrich yourself.
When you do as you please, everything is at ease;
When you are spontaneous, radiant;
When you go with the flow, everything is calm.
May we all be unashamed on the inside and kitsch on the outside, go farther away, and see brighter light.