In the last issue of "Goodbye Lover", Guo Keyu gave the other party a sudden hug when Zhang He put on clothes for her, and Zhang He, a tall and strong man who has been working out for many years, was even pushed backwards by her several steps.
There are many beautiful pictures in this variety show that are comparable to film and television works, and this embrace is the beauty of the United States, which comes unexpectedly, and integrates the ten-year entanglement and doomed separation of the two people into the wind of the sunset.
More like a literary and artistic work than the picture is the relationship between Zhang He and Guo Keyu, and the first comment of Douban said that they are the male and female protagonists who abuse each other in the novel.
It's not the kind of abuse you live and die, it's cold and alienated, and you want to be the most familiar stranger in the world. The other two pairs of guests in the show are in the spirit of solving marriage problems, but Zhang He is only obsessed with one question, that is, whether Guo Keyu has ever loved him. Guo Keyu will not say that there is no love, only that there is no love between us, the subject is always two people, and her own attitude is vague.
The two men have been married for ten years, divorced for a year, and there has been little communication before the arrival of the show. Zhang He is particularly aggrieved about this decade, I don't know why Guo Keyu can't give him the answer he wants, for example, he asked Guo Keyu if he had eaten, Guo Keyu would tell him that I went to a restaurant today, the hostess's earrings are very good-looking, let's go together next time.
Zhang He's performance reminds people of love and can't say four words, although he and Guo Keyu were once the closest people and had a child, but he was still shielded by each other's high walls. And Guo Keyu is not really ruthless, she will unabashedly praise Zhanghe is very handsome, responsible, very good to her, the atmosphere will do some intimate actions, but every time she faces the ultimate problem, she will still say that there is no love.
Many people sniff the beautiful BE of Zhanghe and Guo Keyu, two people who are extremely similar in some ways but completely different are gradually drifting away in silence, for example, Guo Keyu does not say a lot because she thinks zhanghe will not like it, and ZhangHe looks up at the shadow queen Guo Keyu, more or less a little awkward.
Kk and Tong Chenjie are the complete opposite of the two of them, they are very communicative, and they have a set of communication skills for each other, but all the skills fail when they encounter the problem of having children.
Kk likes to drink, drinking with friends four days a week, and Tong Chenjie is also lined up behind the liquor bureau. Tong Chenjie deeply resented this, saying that the premise of wanting to have a child was that kk must change.
Tong Chenjie is very thoughtful, she said that one is not to let the child have such a family environment and an irresponsible father, the second is that she has always been the most mentally stable person in the family, kk is easy to collapse, if kk does not change, she is pregnant with emotional problems, then the family is all chaotic, the third is that she is not young, in the face of danger will be thoughtful. Unfortunately, kk did not understand Tong Chenjie's needs at all, and he felt that Tong Chenjie did not want to be angry and then passed the responsibility to himself.
Kk has a kind of self-consistency is always able to find an excuse to pay for himself, such as Tong Chenjie said he can't cook, he retorted that I will do it, I just don't do it on purpose, I let you (Tong Chenjie) do it to give you the feeling of being needed, unashamed, shocking Ni Ping. Tong Chenjie sighed and said that I need this feeling very much, but you don't feel that others should be good to you, it is your charity.
Can kk actually cook? No, what he called would be a step-by-step process for a recipe search online, and he thought it was all very simple.
Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong were the two most noisy people in the early stages, Lao Wang would never speak well, and Zhu Yaqiong said that he would pour cold water with a smile on his face. Saying that the degree of pouring cold water is light, he said that Zhu Yaqiong, who was born in a super girl, sings badly, it is very annoying to hug, it is very unnecessary to do a wedding, many things Zhu Yaqiong does are childish, he does not understand or approve, How Zhu Yaqiong cries and how to collapse He can say more fiercely. If the stab is enough to hurt people, Lao Wang will have to twist the knife again.
But even so, Zhu Yaqiong still has a crush, even if she knows that she has been consumed a lot by this relationship, she should leave. She is an extremely emotional person, no matter how many people are in any place, she will sing loudly when she wants to sing, sometimes a person runs far away so that people can't find it, very eager for love and response, which brings great trouble to the extremely rational Lao Wang.
Zhu Yaqiong seems to have the same obsession as Zhang He, but the way of expression is completely different, the more she does not get the affirmation, the more fiercely she must pursue an answer, and in the process, she will use everything to the extreme, and the more she does not get it, the more she wants it. And Lao Wang was also on the way to laying out the facts and reasoning, and he plunged into the tip of the bull's horn.
This thirteenth issue of this variety show I did not land in one issue to chase, good looks are good-looking, but particularly tired, like watching "Marriage Story" thirteen times, so that every time before opening it, I have to take a deep breath to be mentally prepared.
At the beginning of watching, it was inevitable that I would follow the line, thinking who did something wrong here and there and doing it wrong, kk Ning couldn't understand Tong Chenjie's appeal and looked reasonable, and when Lao Wang kept denying everything and looked down on anyone, my fire was very big, burning to the Heavenly Spirit Cover, and I was eager to give them a kick for each of them.
But looking at it again, I feel that many problems are difficult to explain, perhaps the result presents right and wrong, but the process is complex, people and feelings are complex. In the end, I found that when people solve marital problems, in addition to solving conflicts with another person, they are also solving their own problems.
Lao Wang, who can't speak the most and doesn't want to give people affirmations, actually loves to talk when he was a child, but his father doesn't let him say it, only let him take the first place, slowly he doesn't say no expression, there is no emotional communication between the family, only treat him as a prodigy to be trained, he feels that his mother does not like him, because when his will is contrary to his mother, he will be identified as disobedient. His childhood was spent in an environment of depression and bullying by his classmates, so he only did useful things and the right things, and his inability to understand that expressing feelings made him hurt Zhu Yaqiong deeply, but his slow acceptance of other people's feelings also made him sad.
Kk said that the reason he wants to have children is because he wants to have a connection with the world, he feels that he is not a native of Shanghai, his career is not very good, if one day his parents are gone and Tong Chenjie also divorced himself is not anyone, but if there is a child, there is also a child's father, this child can prove that he has brought something to the world.
Tong Chenjie said that she understood but did not accept this reason, and she did not believe at all that when a man has a child, he will have a sense of responsibility, and he can naturally become a good father, because her father is not like this, her biological father remarried when she was very young and had other children, and the feelings between their father and daughter are very indifferent.
There is also Guo Keyu, there is an interview mentioned her father, she said that her father is very talented in calligraphy and painting handicrafts, but the marriage relationship with her mother is not very harmonious, the spiritual world of the two people is very different, she does not fully understand her father, occasionally afraid. A few years ago, when her father died, he gave her a copy of Grimm's Fairy Tales, saying that it was left for his grandson, which was an out-of-print picture book that he had spent many years saving.
Guo Keyu said that she understood her father's points, but she was very angry from a secular point of view. At that moment, it may be like she told Zhang He that the earrings of the restaurant owner's lady are very beautiful, in fact, she is saying that I am willing to be with you, but what the other party hears is that you did not answer my question, it is two lines that cannot always be the same frequency.
So zhang he and Guo Keyube, although they are good, but I don't expect them to get back together at all, there is no need, just like Guo Keyu said, how to love, how to not love, it is not easy to say goodbye well.
Most emotional programs will always become mediation and judgment of right and wrong in the end, but a relationship will not be improved by the resolution of one or two things, not to mention that if the contradiction is so easy to solve, there is no need for external intervention, love and hate right and wrong are often intertwined. The biggest difference in "Goodbye Lover" is that it shows the complexity behind the relationship, the audience can see what can be understood and what can be felt, while several pairs of guests are divided into points and have found the most suitable position at the moment, and there are surprises and moving people in the process that are difficult to achieve in film and television works.