People do not have a good body when they are old, and they are often helpless when they have more money.
Because money can neither replace family affection to greet you warmly, nor can it replace your hands and feet to help you dress and eat.
Aunt Wang in the market, 68 years old this year, has been in the business for decades, and every time she was seen before, she was a domineering posture, but now she suddenly faded, and she was still sick. She asked everyone: "Is there a good doctor to introduce me, I am not afraid to spend money." ”
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > private prosecutor: 68-year-old aunt Wang Fang</h1>
It stands to reason that my life was successful. The family has a house, a car, money and a shop, and his son works in a state-owned enterprise, and his stable income is not bad.
Because my family is not short of money, the choice of daughter-in-law was particularly casual. As long as you look like a jade and pearl and a blessed appearance, it is enough, and the small door is better, and you are not tired of getting along.
This daughter-in-law is the daughter of one of my clients. When her mother took her to my shop in person, she let me see it.
I felt that the girl looked good, so I asked my wife to come and take a look (my wife was in my teens, and her physical reasons have been recuperating at home). He has nothing to do except health maintenance, that is, to learn some face-to-face techniques.
The son is the oldest son of his wife when he was 48 years old, and now he is more eager than anyone else, hoping that his 29-year-old son will get married quickly, and he has good hope to hold his grandson.
The daughter-in-law is round-looking and looks good-looking, working at a pharmacy. The family was quite satisfied and soon set a wedding date.
Our expectation for our daughter-in-law is that she will have more children and spread the branches of the family. After marriage, let her not go to work and raise at home, how happy how to come!
When they got married, they were given two apartments, one for themselves and one for rent, hoping that their house would be wide.
The following year, the daughter-in-law gave birth to a granddaughter, and the family rejoiced and encouraged the daughter-in-law to continue to work hard and have another grandchild in the next year.
The daughter-in-law does not hum or ha, but has a stomach idea. Let our little favors not stop, people will bite a word, children and mothers suffer, do not give birth!
What if you don't have a birth? The granddaughters are four years old, and the wife is more than eighty years old, so I am afraid that I will not see it if I don't grasp it.
I took out a suite in the city center with a bank card of 200,000 yuan and made my daughter-in-law laugh. Having money can make ghosts grind. After the daughter-in-law returned from playing with her mother-in-law Hainan, she finally agreed to have another child.
The second child is still a granddaughter, the child grows fat and fat, with her mother, very cute. My heart is naturally happy and lost, and I always feel less than happy.
This spring, I suddenly had a numb hand and a crooked mouth, and the hospital diagnosed me with a mild cerebral infarction.
My granddaughter was still young, so I called my niece to serve me when I was hospitalized. After only a week, the niece was extremely impatient and made excuses to leave. In desperation, I called my niece to the hospital to take care of me.
I have always been unforgiving, and seeing them take care of me reluctantly, I can't help but want to count. Half a month has passed, and there is no love face, shouting who is not coming!
The niece even said, you give your son and daughter-in-law so much money for the house, why don't they come to serve you?
My son is going to work, my daughter-in-law is going to take the baby, where is the time!
It was as if we were all unemployed vagrants who didn't have to go to work. Although I earn less, I am also the pillar of the family! I don't have any benefits from you, don't look for me in the future. The niece did a broken job, two or three thousand pieces a piece, and it was not good! After saying that, he left and left me alone in the hospital.
I heard that cerebral infarction is easy to recur, and the sequelae are also very severe, and I want to be transferred to the hospital for continued treatment. The daughter-in-law ignored it and said that if you want to be discharged from the hospital, I will pick you up and take you home, and if you want to transfer to the hospital, you will find a nurse yourself.
If I have children and grandchildren, why should I find a nurse and make people laugh? When the medical insurance arrived, the hospital would not let me live, and I could only let my daughter-in-law drive me back and let me go to the house to slowly raise me.
A slight cerebral infarction does not affect movement, but affects my mood. I was afraid almost every day, in case one day I suddenly collapsed and couldn't get out of bed.
My going to the hospital became my number one concern.
I asked my son to accompany me to the hospital with the annual leave, and he said no, no, the annual leave is useful. Let my cousins serve you, won't you just give money?
I called my niece and told her five thousand dollars a month to serve me for a few months. The original win-win thing, but she refused.
Her niece did not come, and she opened a shop of her own.
The daughter-in-law is not unable to come, and the little granddaughter has already gone to kindergarten, and her grandmother has taken her with her. (I handed the shop to my daughter-in-law, who wouldn't do it.) Said tired, after a while said that her mother wanted, I did not give. My mother has been idle, waiting for me to close the door. ）
Half a year has passed, and I have not lived in the upper court because there is no one to accompany me.
In fact, I know a little about Aunt Wang's family.
Don't look at her money, usually to relatives and friends are very picky. At that time, her niece thought of leaning back against the tree to cool off, and specially came to her from thousands of miles away. As a result, she did not pull out a dime, saying that everyone has their own life, good or bad is up to herself, don't think about letting others pull a hand in vain.
Big Mama's niece is also full of grievances. As a pro-aunt, I borrowed her thirty thousand yuan to calculate interest with me, and I didn't say anything, and she also used ugly words to ridicule me. Just because I'm poor, I'm poor, I don't stick to you, can't you?
For Big Mama Wang Fang, when people are old, they must let go of their prejudices, relax their thinking, don't have a tendon, and they can't live with themselves!
Since the daughter-in-law is so Buddhist and not rare in money, why do you still hold the money so tightly!
Money is a good thing, you give it to your niece, your niece has ten thousand a month, then you must not rush to come and serve you. You are worried that the nurse will not be good for you, that is not nonsense, neither a dementia disease, nor a bedridden patient. Who will take your money and blatantly bully you!
Sons and daughters-in-law are the kind of minds that are small and rich, and they usually do not calculate your money. Because they understand that an eldest son can't run, according to your style, all of them are ultimately theirs, so there is no need to please.
People are old, widely tie good relations and cast wide nets, the East is not bright, the West is bright, don't hang a silk on a tree.
How big the heart is, how big the stage is. Big mom so much money, don't deduct it! Wouldn't it be nice to be nice to yourself?