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Tutoring children to do homework has become a headache for many families.
In the past two days, a ridiculous news has blown up the circle of friends:
Because the parents went to work and did not have time to accompany them, they let the grandparents accompany their first-grade sons to online classes.
But when I returned home, I found that because of the wrong station, my son took a morning high school chemistry class and took notes very carefully.
△ Children's chemistry online lesson notes
It is said that the grandparents found out that something was wrong and let the table change, but the child did not let it, because the mother said that this is how it was operated.
I just saw the story and thought it was funny, but after reading it, I couldn't laugh.
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On the child's learning path, how far do parents have to accompany them to be responsible?
The hardships of raising a baby, we parents, know better than anyone.
In order to create a better growth environment for children, in order to let children have a better future, we work hard.
Dragging the tired body back home at night, I still have to pick up the spirit to accompany the child.
Play games with your child, write homework with your child, and watch cartoons with your child.
The pain of writing homework with her child is enough to make the gentle mother instantly turn into an angry tigress.
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There is a very interesting statistic on the Internet:
Problems such as sulking, husband and wife quarrels, overwork, and parent-child tension caused by tutoring homework are very common, and more than 20% of parents will have depression tendencies and loss of appetite due to anxiety about their children's future, and even 22% of parents have high blood pressure, 14% of parents have heart discomfort and other serious adverse reactions.
It really responds to a sentence: if you don't tutor, you are sorry for your child, and if you don't tutor, you are sorry for yourself.
What happened in real life was that the father accompanied his son to write homework until the fifth grade, and then was hospitalized for a heart attack and made two stents.
I am really taking my life to accompany my child to do homework!
Cross-talk actor Yue Yunpeng was angry with his children to do homework, and finally a job advertisement appeared on the Internet.
Although it is a joke, it is enough to prove that accompanying children to write homework is really a problem for many parents.
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People say they want to kill the bear five days a week, three of them because of homework.
Tutoring homework is not the vocation of parents, but what parent does not want to have a son Jackie Chan?
But the reality is often contrary to what we think.
Tutoring children to do homework, parents, many times are weak.
Because there is no time for tutoring at work is on the one hand, and on the other hand, there is no ability to tutor.
If you underestimate the knowledge content of elementary and secondary schools, it may make you doubt life.
Coupled with the graduation for many years, many knowledge points have long been thrown out of the cloud of nine, not to mention tutoring children, do not let children tutor you thank God.
But what can be done? the scalp? Or let it go?
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In the adult world, there is never the word easy.
Left hand work, right hand family.
The left hand holds up the present, and the right hand holds up the future.
We need to lay a good foundation for our children's future, and their homework tutoring is an inevitable part.
Reliable homework tutoring can not only liberate parents' time and save money, but more importantly, it can make children's learning less detours.
Taking fewer detours is not the same as taking shortcuts, just letting children go further in the same amount of time.
What are the parents' experience in tutoring homework? You can leave a message below to share!!