What kind of friends do you like to deal with?
Or who do you like to chat with?
The French philosopher Descartes once said: I think, so I am! How long have we not thought about it, most of the time is to rely on feelings, or emotions to do things, only to find out afterwards, there are many people and things in the past, the results of the processing are not very ideal, and did not move in the direction they hoped!
In life, we will encounter all kinds of people, all kinds of people, some people let us learn to grow, some people make us strong, and some people are destined to pass by, no need to be grumpy!
Once, a person drove to a foreign country on a business trip, afraid of being too bored during the journey, picked up a downwind passenger on the mobile phone, two people chatted and talked together, the process will not be too monotonous, can play a role in relieving fatigue!
It was a rainy day, afraid that he was in a hurry to wait for the car, called him in advance, and made an appointment to meet each other in a place where they could shelter from the rain and park, so that both sides could save time and benefit each other!
But when I arrived at the agreed place, I waited for 40 minutes before I saw him in person; since the meeting was successful, and I didn't want to say anything else, let's start our journey!
As soon as I got on the bus, I saw an umbrella with a lot of rain on the back seat; at that time, I also gave a friendly reminder: Friends, the umbrella has a lot of water, and you can put it on the mat!
Looking at his busy figure, slow and leisurely without any hurry, I did not want to say more words; at that time, I did not want to say too many words, one was afraid that the atmosphere was too awkward, and the other was that because of this small matter, affecting each other's mood, it was really not worth it!
But things have not stopped here, at this time the umbrella has not yet been normal "homecoming", this side began to have requirements!
Master: Use the charging cable, the mobile phone will soon run out of battery, and there will be an important phone in a while!
While the vehicle remains safe, hurry up and equip him!
I am recognized in the circle of friends for my good temper and good attitude, and I have not exchanged him for a "thank you", just let him go!
After about half an hour or so, he received a phone call, because the charging cable is not very long, he sat in the back row, the phone was somewhat inconvenient, saw him deliberately unplug the power, and picked up the phone!
Before the phone was finished, the car suddenly rang out, as if it was the feeling of the home power supply cross-connecting, the car charger directly smoked, and a bad smell spread throughout the car!
Quickly and quickly covered his ears, he immediately pulled over to the side, and finally found that it was because he answered the phone halfway, unplugged the power supply, and accidentally threw one end of the charging cable into the water (the water dripping from the umbrella)!
As soon as he saw this situation, he was directly stunned, expressionless, and sat there dumbfounded, not moving!
I immediately turned off the ignition, opened the car door, found a pair of thick gloves in the trunk, unplugged the on-board charging device, and also asked him about his condition, are you okay? Didn't hurt you?
Fortunately, everything is still within control, I don't have any problems with him, and the vehicle can run normally!
When I got to the destination, when he got out of the car and watched him leave, I once again opened the right side of the back door to check, and the strange embarrassment was another major discovery, the rear seats were all mud, even the front seats were completely unrecognizable, speckled everywhere, and there was still his domestic garbage (wiped waste paper, foot pads piled up on it)!
After driving for a long time, I found a car wash place and thoroughly cleaned my car!
Obviously, such a friend will not be liked by everyone, and there will be no deep communication with him; passing by and no longer interacting with each other may be the best choice for both sides!
On the basis of good friends, both sides are honest with each other, trust each other, and each other will not bring unnecessary danger and harm to one party!
Sincerely putting yourself in the shoes of others, making both parties comfortable with each other, enjoying each other, and making progress with each other is the standard that a good friend should have!