Teacher's Diary: The laughter of three men came from the toilet

Piglet began to quit diapers at the age of two, and within a week after taking off the diapers he was able to go to the toilet on his own at the prompting of an adult, and for a while he barely wet a pair of pants at the end of the day. I thought he had learned the ability to use the toilet, but I didn't expect...

He began to like to hold urine, nervous, unwilling to go to the bathroom to pee, like to sit on the floor or adult thighs rubbing chickens, when adults told him to go to the toilet, he would be a hundred unwilling, but soon after coming out of the toilet, he peed his pants...

I soon realized that piggy's period had arrived!

How can I help my child get through the period? First of all, adults need to look at children without prejudice, think that the child's behavior has degenerated into ignorance or deliberate, and do not regard the child's special behavior as shame. This is actually the stage of development in which the child comes to practice feeling, using, and controlling his own body. Allowing a child to be the master of his or her own body means allowing the child to feel, use, and control his or her own body. It can be said that the desire period is the lowest and most basic period of a person's life of self-dignity!

In addition, when children hold back and defecate and do not want to go to the toilet, what adults need to do is not to force, learn to wait, do not urge, because they are not unaware of the toilet. Secondly, whenever the child wets and soils the pants, the adult needs to calmly help the child change the pants, and also take this opportunity to let the child practice taking off the pants and handling the wet ground. As long as adults do not tire of this operation, soon the child will successfully pass the desire period and take the initiative to go to the toilet!

When Baba entered the kindergarten at the age of one year and eight months, he began to quit diapers, and at first after he drank water for a while, the teacher took him to pee, and he took off his pants and stood stupidly, and he couldn't pee out for half a day, as if he couldn't find the feeling of peeing. Soon after coming out of the game, he saw that he wet his pants, and at this time he would also be curious to observe his own urine. He did this several times in a row.

The teaching machine always appeared unexpectedly. One day the teacher assigned Piglet a task: let Babo observe and learn how he peed. Piglet seemed to have been entrusted with a heavy responsibility, so he let Baba go into the toilet with him. Time passed by second by second, and suddenly, from the toilet came the laughter of three men...

It turned out that the moment When Baba saw the piglet urine come out, the teacher deliberately shouted loudly in order to render the scene effect: Wow, it's amazing! It worked! Yeah yeah... And Mi Bao was also stunned, and kept clapping his hands and clapping ah ah ah hey hey laugh, piglet felt encouraged, he also laughed proudly! The laughter in the toilet, all the while surrounding the center, infected everyone!

From then on, whenever the piglet wanted to pee, he would say to Baba: Baba, come and watch! And Babo was also very interested and went into the toilet with piglets to observe and learn. He seemed to have found out where the "mental method" of peeing was, and slowly, he actually learned to pee out. At this time, he also showed satisfaction and pride. And the piglet is also out of the desire period faster because of such a task...

Sometimes, the child is the child's teacher, when the teacher is at a loss for the child's problem, may wish to give the right to solve the problem to the child, let the child lead the child, and truly complete a transformation of life!