In 197 AD, Zhang Xiu surrendered to Cao Cao, and Cao Cao was happy and began to get a little overwhelmed. In order to deter Zhang Xiu and his subordinates, a small Hongmen banquet was held. Cao Cao let Dianwei hold an axe and stand behind him, Cao Cao got up to toast everyone, and when he walked up to the man, Dianwei would look angrily.
As a result of the banquet, Zhang Xiu and his men did not dare to look up at Cao Cao. Cao Cao was quite satisfied with the results of this banquet, Cao Cao thought that this time Zhang Xiu's clothes were soft, the next few days, every day and Zhang Xiu opened a banquet, the days were leisurely and happy, one day, he suddenly came to be interested, felt that every day on a few big masters drinking, no meaning, asked the next question, did not expect to cause an uproar.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="39" > what is the problem? </h1>
"Romance of the Three Kingdoms" describes this history in more detail, it turns out that Cao Cao at that time wanted to listen to a small song, but also to treat himself well, compared to Liu Bei fought a lifetime of war, in his later years he dared to "fight a lifetime of war, can not be happy to dance, and then dance." Cao Cao started when he was in Wancheng, so why did Cao Cao have to take a look? Don't show it,
However, Cao Cao, who was overwhelmed by the victory, asked a question left and right, is there a "Ge Ji" in this city? Cao Cao's brother's son, Cao Anmin, understood Cao Cao's thoughts very well, so he whispered in Cao Cao's ear, "Last night, the little nephew saw that next to the pavilion, a woman had a national color posture, and I asked about it, it was Zhang Xiu's uncle Zhang Ji's wife. Do you want
Cao Cao listened, immediately rejoiced, because he liked to marry the princes the most in his life, this time he had the opportunity to marry Zhang Xiu, of course, it was the best, at that time, he took dozens of Jia Ding to see, where to see, Cao Cao immediately softened. Zhang Ji's wife, who was originally widowed,
Cao Cao was also very direct in getting Zou's approval, but he just said to her: "Seeing you today is the fate of you and me, are you willing to go back with me and enjoy the glory and wealth?"
It is said that since ancient beauty loves heroes, although Cao Cao is not tall, people are not very handsome, but the temperament is extraordinary, even the emissaries of the Xiongnu can see, Lady Zou did not reject Cao Cao, the two held hands together.
On this day, Zou Shi worriedly persuaded Cao Cao, saying: "I am here tonight, afraid that Zhang Xiu will be suspicious and afraid of being discussed by others. On the same day, Cao Cao moved to live outside the city, just let a few of his henchmen look at the big tent, stay with Zou every day, and throw other things away from the cloud of nine clouds.
This matter later reached Zhang Xiu's ears, and Zhang Xiu did not believe it at first, but later he heard that Zou Shi was presented in front of him and said, "I only accepted Zhang Xiu's surrender for you, or you Zhang Xiu would have been destroyed long ago!"
However, these somewhat boastful words were known to Zhang Xiu, and Zhang Xiu was immediately angry, "Cheating on me too much!" He began to take away Dianwei's double halberd with Hu Che'er, and when Cao Cao was happy and oblivious, he suddenly attacked Cao Cao.
Cao Cao had just finished drinking a little wine with Zou At this time, he had just fallen asleep, when he suddenly heard the sound of gongs and drums outside, he suddenly woke up, his heart was nervous, and he got up and was escorted by his own cronies to escape, or Cao Cao's headache was caused from this time.
This encounter cao cao was a heavy loss, although it escaped from Zhang Xiu's siege, but he lost his close confidant Dianwei, the eldest son Cao Angzi nephew Cao Anmin, and many of Cao Cao's elites, but almost let Zhang Xiu chase no way to escape, fortunately Cao Cao later stabilized his position,
But this lesson was too great, so that when he returned home later, Cao Cao's wife did not give Cao Cao a good look because of the death of her son and nephew, and Cao Cao was ashamed of it, and she never let go of this big mistake again.
This is the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, according to the history of the Three Kingdoms Chronicle of Cao Cao's experience, and Cao Cao was indeed planted in the gentle township of the Zou clan, almost letting himself be destroyed.
For the great mistakes made by Cao Cao in Wancheng, Lao Tzu in the Spring and Autumn Period, as early as the Tao Te Ching: "The five colors are blinding"
In daily life, the elderly will warn young people to "have a knife on the head of the color word". Usually people will be the wind in their ears, there are few who listen to it, just see some celebrities, such as "Li Yundi" because they can't control their desires, resulting in the abandonment of previous achievements and discredit, we will involuntarily think of this sentence.
The word "color" mentioned by the sons in the pre-Qin period is somewhat different from what we understand now, and now it mostly refers to hue. In the Spring and Autumn Period, Lao Tzu recorded in the "Tao Te Ching" a sentence "five colors are blinding", and its meaning of "color" refers to all things that have a certain temptation to people's hearts.
For example: Dai Ji let the King of Qi, drunk on singing and dancing, Qi Guo Guan Zhong let the people of chu indulge in catching deer, and gave up farming, as well as Qin Shi Huang, Emperor Wu of Han all wanted to seek immortal medicine, etc., Lao Tzu put the things in the material that can cause human greed, are simply summarized in the "color".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="38" > "five colors blind" so what is blind? </h1>
Because the Tao Te Ching is all-encompassing and profound, everyone's understanding of this sentence will be different, but the very shallow meaning is that color will make people blind, not that it leads to blindness, and this blindness represents a lack of reason, because of attachment to greed and material desires, when people are blinded, they will make some blind behavior, and eventually they will definitely bear the consequences.
However, with the development of the times, the category contained in "color" has been narrowed, and gradually it has been summarized into the wine-colored wealth, and at the same time, it refers more to those who are tired of fame and fortune, because they are intoxicated in the gentle countryside, and the ending is sad. For example, Tang Xuanzong's exclusive favor of Yang Guifei, which led to the transformation of the Tang Dynasty from prosperity to decline, is a good example.
The grasp of the degree of "wine color and wealth".
Feng Menglong of the Ming Dynasty had a deep understanding of this, so in the creation of "Warning the Everlasting Word", a lot of wine-colored wealth and folk tales were recorded, and these stories were also widely circulated among the people. In addition to Feng Menglong, Su Dongpo of the Song Dynasty also had a deep understanding of this, once he went to the temple to chat with the Buddha seal, the Buddha seal was not there, he saw the poem written on the wall of the temple:
"There are four walls of wine-colored wealth, everyone is hiding inside, who can jump out of the circle, not to live a hundred years and live a long life."
Su Dongpo looked at the poems, but the truth but felt that the Zen taste is too heavy, not enough fireworks, and Zen masters and ordinary people actually can not avoid these, as the saying goes, strong twisted melon is not sweet, take its way to avoid, it is better to apply reasonably, Su Dongpo believes that everything must grasp a "degree"? But how do you grasp this degree? He had his own understanding and wrote a poem:
"Drinking alcohol and not getting drunk is heroic, and lust is not the highest; ill-gotten wealth is not advisable, and there is no anger and self-destruction." The two poems are not superior or inferior, but the views are different, but on the whole, Su Dongpo believes that this degree of grasp and importance, while many people are addicted to these four words, especially the word "color", and this time the personable piano prince, why will people "impress" overnight? Why did he make such a mistake and end up burying his future and life?
The reasons for this are nothing more than the following three:
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="29" >: After achieving fame, you can't withstand temptation and the test of life</h1>
Many celebrities in history, such as Cao Cao and Tang Xuanzong mentioned above, were in the glory of life, because of their achievements, they could not withstand the test, and at the same time, they were blinded by success, could not control their hearts, and could not resist the temptation and life test. The end result is blind optimism, not seeing anything else, and getting a sad result!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" >2: There is no self-restraint in the mind</h1>
A person can succeed, self-restraint is very important, from ancient times to the present can restrain their own people, have achieved a lot of achievements, especially after success, how to achieve success and retirement, how to pay attention to their own words and deeds, how to restrain themselves, is crucial, but throughout the piano prince in the juvenile and un-famed, very hard, from a few years old to learn the piano, 20 years ago after becoming famous, began to focus on other fields, as a public figure, enjoy the glory at the same time, But he forgot the self-restraint, and eventually he became the negative teaching material of "children who learn piano will not become bad".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="33" > three: there is a fluke psychology to indulge themselves. </h1>
Frozen three feet is not a day's cold, in the past some people have questioned him, but these voices did not cause him to warn, and the sand into a tower of accumulation into a lot, a person's habits and behaviors, not a day or two to develop, but before may be lucky to dodge, but there are losses in virtue, Skynet recovery and omission, and finally led to such a result, can not blame anyone, can only complain that he is too conniving with himself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="35" > to revisit the importance of virtue and art</h1>
Lao Tzu in the Spring and Autumn Period has always emphasized that people must have virtue, and those who have no virtue will eventually be spurned, and this time his behavior also confirms Lao Tzu's words, and in one day he was despised by others and was quickly spurned. This incident also sounded the alarm for other artists who were eager to move, for one person, including artists: there must be virtue first, and then talent. Don't put the cart before the horse!
What do you think about that?