Yesterday, this issue posted about middle school students about homosexuality "3 inconspicuous little things superimposed, accidental? Or is there a pusher behind it? After the (click to read) was sent, the reader reacted strongly, and several parents came to me and told me about their daughters, and here is a representative one:
Yesterday, another parent also gave me feedback on his daughter:
Many years ago, I saw two big words printed on the cover of a book in the Zhongguancun Book Building: "Yumei", I know that this is an indulgent aesthetic trend that was popular in Western Europe at the end of the 19th century, and it is mostly used to express gay men in China, because I have read the novel "Lan Yu" about homosexuality before, and "Lan Yu" was also made into a movie, and I did not go to my heart at that time, and I did not even pick it up and turn it over.
I never expected that from the time I saw the two words "Yumei" printed in the publicly issued books in the Zhongguancun Book Building to now, in just over a decade, the trend of homosexuality has spread into the world of primary and secondary school students.
I only have 7,000 fans on the headline number and only 13,000 powder on the WeChat public account, but two parents have reflected on my daughter to me, and several parents have reflected on their daughter's reading of The Beauty Novel, which shows that this phenomenon is not accidental:
At this point, the question arises: why do children become obsessed with beautiful novels? How should the state respond?
Careful observation will find that most of the children affected by the tanmei novel are young children, yesterday's story 3 said that "there is love between the same sex, the love between the opposite sex is for sex, so when they grow up, they will fall in love with girls" The little girl in the 5th grade is also eleven or twelve years old, and the little girl who reads the Tanmei novel and says that she is "unmarried" mentioned at the beginning of today's post is only 14 years old, and the parent mentioned that Many girls start reading beautiful novels in the first year of junior high school (12 years old), and the children of my granddaughter's class who made gay short videos to participate in online competitions mentioned in yesterday's article are also at this age.
A few years ago, when I studied Islam in South Asia, the Middle East and North Africa, I found that there are many gay men and young men in these places, and many sources mention the word "donkey lifting", which means having sex with donkeys, I have also repeatedly ridiculed "people and donkeys" as a terrier in articles, I have analyzed why the young people in South Asia, North Africa, and the Middle East will like to do these things with donkeys, sheep, camels and even chickens, and found that the reason is that they are in adolescence, islam strictly separates men and women. Many women even have to wear thick black robes, boys can't touch the opposite sex, and exuberant hormones have nowhere to be placed, so they can only vent on animals and the same sex.
In the same way, many meats in our country over the years have added hormones, especially the children's favorite foods such as chicken steak contain a lot of hormones, resulting in the early development of children's bodies, I checked, The average age of modern girls' menarche is 12.5 years old, before our country's post-6070 girls' menstruation is mostly fifteen or sixteen years old, some will even push back to seventeen or eighteen years old, children come to menstruation prematurely, which means that the sexual organs begin to develop, but at this time, children do not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.
On the one hand, children have the germ of sex, on the other hand, children have no ability to think critically, at this time, when children encounter beautiful texts describing homosexuality, it is easy to indulge in it, imagining themselves as the protagonists in the story, and over time, not homosexuality is also guided into homosexuality.
Boys are more ostentatious, this is the incident of male students confessing their love to boys on the campus of Hebei University last week, girls are more obscure, especially small girls, the heart may not be willing to say to others, resulting in often this tendency is not easy to be found, such as the two parents mentioned above, they are careful, have the ability to perceive the child's ideological trends, this is to know that a girl said that she wants to fall in love with girls, another girl chooses not to marry, this is what these two parents found, parents can not find it?
The problem has developed to the present point, and there is no point in complaining about who to blame, what we have to do is to think about how to prevent and govern.
Personal advice:
1: Targeting homosexuality
The most important word is "positive", suggesting that the state scientifically position homosexuality.
Regarding the positioning of homosexuality, yesterday my Weibo friend @Vaccines and Science's views are most worthy of high-level reference, copied over, and let everyone see:
Yesterday, a gay man posted that he had been discriminated against and felt unfair, and then@ Vaccines & Science replied:
#恋同症是病, no discrimination, no publicity # This netizen is more rational, feels that the same disease is discriminated against, very wronged.
Dr. Tao fully understands his feelings, but the problem of discrimination must be solved at the root.
From the perspective of Chinese culture, many people have a negative attitude towards homosexualism, and to put it more frankly, they will feel that homophilia is disgusting.
If homophiles insist that they are not patients, then this negative attitude of the public will transform into an open discrimination, and the more fierce you make trouble, the more openly discriminate against you.
If homophiles admit that they are patients, discrimination against patients is not the mainstream value in China, and whoever discriminates against homophiles will be criticized. Just like we are now advocating not to discriminate against people living with AIDS, not to discriminate against people living with hepatitis B.
So, I hope that the homophiles accept the fact that they are patients, which is not shameful. In the case of identifying as a patient, to fight back against the public's discrimination against themselves, I fully support it.
Eroticism is a disease that is generally considered incurable. However, Dr. Tao believes that this is a pessimistic conclusion drawn without treating homopathy as a disease, and may not be reliable. If eroticism admits that he is a patient and actively cooperates with treatment, there may be a turnaround. Of course, no cure is also acceptable.
Dr. Tao made it clear again: I firmly oppose discrimination against patients, homophilia is a disease, and I am also opposed to discrimination against homophilic groups or individuals.
At the national level, homosexuality is defined as a disease, so as to maximize the guidance of public opinion and children's three views.
2: Inventory publications
Led by the Ministry of Culture, all existing publications were inventoried, all novels about the United States were confiscated and destroyed, and the Ministry of Industry and Information Technology took the lead in ordering all websites to conduct self-examinations and delete all pages of novels about beauty, so as to stop the spread of this trend of thought from the source.
3: Training of primary and secondary school teachers
Led by the Ministry of Education, we train primary and secondary school teachers to help children establish the correct three views, tell children that homosexuality is a disease, and if any classmate in the class has this tendency, we should not discriminate against him, let alone encourage him, but help him.
4: Lead the guidance of public opinion
About 20 years ago, there was a widely circulated post on the Internet, titled "Seventeen-year-old bicycle does not carry love", about a 17-year-old girl who was obsessed with her freshly graduated, sunny and handsome physical education teacher, the teacher had a newly bought bicycle, and the girl repeatedly envisioned that she would one day be able to sit in the back seat of the bicycle, and the teacher took herself for a ride.
One day, such an opportunity finally came, in physical education class, the teacher let the girl go to the equipment warehouse by the playground to help check the number of equipment in the warehouse, the girl deliberately delayed until the end of school everyone left, and then, the teacher said that he took the girl home by the way, the girl sat behind the teacher's bicycle as she wished, along the way, the girl immersed in her own imagination, imagining that she could have it for a lifetime.
The teacher sent the girl downstairs to her house, and the girl watched the teacher leave before going upstairs, and the mother who was cooking found blood stains on the girl's buttocks. But it turned out that the teacher had already found the girl's pants wet with menarche, and she cared for a girl's self-esteem in her own way.
Such an article not only satisfies the children's hazy yearning for love, but also reflects the innocence and beauty of feelings in the juvenile world.
If you don't grow crops in the field, don't blame the weeds. I personally suggest that the state financial support some publications that write about the wishes of middle school students, and allocate funds to media such as "Boys and Girls" and "Adolescent Health", so that children have the right channels to vent their emotions and concerns.
5: Combating "cultural infiltration"
The country is too big, there are too many aspects involved, personal advice, in the Ministry of Education's website specially set aside a corner, for parents to feedback the situation, once a parent finds that their children are being affected by some bad ideas, immediately report to the Ministry of Education, by the Ministry of Education to carry out strict investigation and rectification.
Children are the future of a country, protecting our children from the influence of Western garbage ideas, cultivating a generation of sunny, healthy and positive teenagers, and allowing the ancestors to fight for thousands of years can be smoothly inherited, this is the responsibility of my generation!