When people reach middle age and spend the rest of their lives, let us live as a beam of light

Today in the library casually turned to "involuntarily fall in love with the world", but also for the first time to know the author of Huang Tongtong.

Just learned a method of taking notes, I think it is very practical, I want to share it, so that friends who want to read and learn to learn it also learn, I think it is very helpful to improve writing articles.

Let's first look at what this note-taking method is.

Simply put, I.R.A is a three-step walk.

Each letter corresponds to a way R=Read read;

I=Interpretation Guided Promotion;

A=Appropriation is dismantled for its own use.

Here's how to do it.

The first part of "R" reads the original text, that is, when you read the book, you see certain sentences that resonate with you or after reading it you don't know where he is good, but you just think he is particularly good.

The second part, "I", then repeats what I just thought was written and wrote out my own understanding

The third part of "A" in the original text of the touch you, do not have to think that you have experienced something similar before touching you, so in this step you can write down some of the things you have experienced before, some situations or situations; and then write down these things for you later.

Let me take a snippet example of the book I saw today to illustrate it more specifically.

Read Huang Tong Tong's "Can't Help But Say Love Loves the World"

[My discovery] I have not yet understood. In fact, every adult is doomed to the rest of his life, and everyone is destined to experience suffering. Some are like this, some are like that. That's when you realize that life isn't as natural as it was when you were younger. You will truly understand, you will truly cherish everything around you, maybe this is not the best you have ever had, but you feel that it is enough.

[My interpretation] As a teenager, we can't imagine what we will look like ten or twenty years later. But we always felt that it must be beautiful, it was comforting, it was happy. At that time, we felt that the sky was far away, life was wonderful, and the ideal was very full. We found out many years later. None of us were smart enough to think of everything too simply. We have not been an exception to the "life" thing that makes our clothes messy and our hair is not neat. In the daily life drama, some people lose love, some people lose their relatives, some people lose their jobs, and some people fight to the death in the workplace. How many people are living in a terrible state, but we are still alive. Some people pretend to be very strong to live. Many years from now, we will also experience what many people have experienced. We will eventually find that in fact, everyone is an adult for the rest of their lives.

【Experience and insight】 Think about your own simplicity from leaving school, to the vision of going to society; from the suburbs of the northwest to the small town of Jiangnan, everything is so beautiful! However, life is not a wreath of dreams after all, and I have no sense to accept the loneliness of distant marriage, to accept the sadness of my parents' illness and inability to accompany me.

And when I sent away my mother's father and my mother-in-law's father, I suddenly had a lot of gray hair and grew a lot older. The feeling of helplessness, powerlessness, and helplessness that people feel in middle age is poured into the body at once, almost making people collapse. Looking back on every day that once made people unable to sleep is really like crossing the robbery again and again. Perhaps we can't predict the rest of our lives after the disaster, but we can use the first half of our lives as a mirror, and use the wisdom we stumbled into today to live the rest of our lives, living as a beam of light, illuminating ourselves and warming others.

People reach middle age, the rest of their lives, let reading and learning accompany you and me, and enjoy the beauty that should belong to us!