God created man: God first created the man Adam, and after discovering that Adam's life was tasteless, God took a rib from Adam and created a woman, Eve, and since then there have been men and women. Fortunately, at that time, there were no close relatives combining this kind of talk, otherwise It would have been enough for God to be busy for a while.
The relationship between men and women has become the flavoring agent in our lives, not that there is a saying called "men and women match, work is not tired", this reason I can not analyze, but it seems that it is really such a thing. Marriage is a process of living a life with a partner, you accompany him for a ride, he accompanies you for a while, the process is not wonderful, he said it is not counted, but he must be happy to know that the so-called face has made people live more and more hypocritically. Material and spiritual are always difficult to satisfy at the same time, and although greed gives people the motivation to progress, it has also become the ultimate "killer" of happiness.
In the process of life, the time spent with the other half occupies most of our lives, and the quality of our life with the other half determines our quality of life. We always weigh the trade-offs against the various needs that arise in the family, and this trade-off tends to wear down our sense of happiness.
People cannot be perfect, and even if you sometimes think they are perfect, it is only a temporary victory of tolerance over greed. Everyone has also estimated that they have seen many passages: those who have money have no time, those who have time have no money, they are insecure to spend their hearts, and they are not romantic if they are safe... These are the results of people's trade-offs in their lives.
Some people say that it is better to change others than to change themselves, to change others may not be happy on both sides, to change themselves may only be unilaterally unhappy, this seems to be a good choice, but we all know how easy it is to change ourselves. People always have unlimited greed, but they have a bottom line with a boundary, and when greed touches the so-called bottom line, it may be out of control.
We always habitually use our own logic to demand the other half, the long-term generation of this "resentment", we are due to the lack of communication, in fact, accurately speaking, the lack of an inclusive mentality, the escalation of the "self" argument, dominating our behavior and thoughts, we become more and more willful, the application of the Internet, accelerates the process of this extremeization, we slowly become speechless, each dominating their own "happy world".
Competitive pressure from society, coupled with those trivial things in life, makes us more and more impetuous, more and more picky, we always see the good of others, but ignore the excellence of the other half, we are more and more good at camouflaging ourselves in front of others, packaging ourselves as other people's specimens, and others become the specimens of our other half.
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