Wen 丨 West Wing has feelings
Time is not long, may you be in my words, see you not too late!
Every man longs to be worshipped by the opposite sex, as if this way he can prove his strength and prove that he is attractive.
In the male mind, spoiling is more like a way of showing affection, and women can make men feel satisfied through pampering, make men become confident, and feel recognized by others.
In fact, spoiling is a very beautiful thing. Two people get along, and a woman can make men feel happy through the way of pampering, and at the same time, they can get the love and favor of men.
However, there are too many women who are difficult to coddle men. In their eyes, delicate women are contrived, and they dismiss it.
I have such a woman next to me, she is a high-achieving student I met at the book club, giving people the feeling of "not entering the life".
When we talk about women spoiling, she makes it clear that she doesn't coddle men and even thinks that coddling is a low-profile performance.
But in fact, her love life is not beautiful, her husband and her have been separated for a long time, and the two people are in a bad and inseparable state.
In Ximei's view, men and women should "show their own magic" and give play to their own advantages and characteristics when they get along. Legend has it that Eve was transformed by one of Adam's ribs, which also implies that women are a man's weak ribs.
So, spoiling is not as scary as many women think, and learning to be moderate can quickly get a man to indulge for you.
Don't look at the woman with colored glasses as a woman,but simply see it as a way of expressing love to your lover, which will make you willing to accept yourself from the bottom of your heart.
If you fall in love with a man, desire the other party to strongly perceive your heart, and desire the other party to be fascinated by you, then you must learn the following three ways of pampering:
The first: seduce his heart with your words
Mastering verbal coddles can make a man's heart quickly captured by you, so that you can master the ability to manipulate the other party.
For example, when you need a man to help you with some problems, you can spoil it like this:
"Honey, people are too stupid to do this well. Only you can solve this matter, and you really can't do it without you. ”
I think when a man hears that, he will feel very much like you are needed and adored by you.
In this way, he will be more than happy to do things for you, so as to maintain the image of the tall and mighty shore in your heart.
For example, when a man cooks you a delicious meal, a woman who will spoil will immediately rush to her lover's side and give him a compliment:
"Honey, your meal today is delicious." Being with you is really the most correct choice for me, the way you cook for me with your heart is really charming, and reward you with a kiss. ”
The man who hears these words will feel that his heart is beautiful. He will think that cooking for you can get your approval and is willing to continue to cook for you in the days to come.
All in all, use your childish words to bring him emotional satisfaction, make him feel that doing things for you can harvest happiness, make him willing to pay for you, and let his heart revolve around you all the time.
The second: physical contact makes his heart beat faster
When a woman speaks to a man in a delicate voice and inadvertently touches the man, it will make the man mesmerized.
You know, men also crave love, and they especially crave physical contact. So, if you want a man to be fascinated by you, then you have to learn to be so spoiled.
Imagine if a woman had been complaining about what he wasn't doing well after the man got home, it would have made him feel a double blow both mentally and physically.
A woman who likes to spoil will not do this, they are willing to let the man's tense nerves soothe through repeated hugs, hand-holding and other touches, so that he can rest well.
This does not mean that they do not have some small emotions in their hearts, but that they know how to express their dissatisfaction at the right time.
So, with a man, you can try to hold the man tightly from behind when he is tired, let the love pass between the two of you, and bring him infinite warmth and love.
You know, being spoiled like a little woman can bring men a great sense of satisfaction, make men be impressed by your tenderness, and make the passion between the two of you burst out.
The third kind: pretend to be silly, pretend to be cute and let you be spoiled
Men like women who have no heart and are simple, and such women will make them have a huge desire to protect, so that they unconsciously want to be cherished.
Therefore, if you want to charm men, learn to let children be like that, and let men see your little waywardness, it will bring you pampering.
For example, when you make some small mistakes, you can look at him with innocent eyes, pout your little mouth, and ask for forgiveness from your lover.
Try to coddle the other party like this: "People don't mean it, I don't know how to make such a small mistake, I am too careless, you forgive me." 」 How do you punish me for letting you choose? ”
And men don't really punish you, and when he hears you spoil him like this, he will choose to forget your mistakes and spoil you like his own little daughter.
Every man longs for his partner and is able to be moderately spoiled about himself. Because, when the lover pampers himself, it will make the man feel that he is valuable.
Conversely, if a woman is too aggressive, it will often hurt a man's self-esteem.
At this time, men are easy to find that sense of value from the outside world, and the love at this time is easily interfered with by other people.
Therefore, female compatriots must learn to give your lover some understanding and love, and use your coddling to melt men's hearts.