Hamlet is a masterpiece by Shakespeare during the European Renaissance. The book describes a theatrical story in which the king of the Kingdom of Denmark was poisoned by his own brother and took over his wife, the younger brother-in-law, and forcibly married his sister-in-law. Hamlet is the king's son, he encountered his father's ghost in the middle of the night, and learned the truth of his father's death, so he prepared to take revenge, but never succeeded, but in a sword fight, he was framed by his uncle, and his mother was also killed by eating poison and wine.
On the one hand, this book reflects the turmoil in European society at that time, and on the other hand, it brings us to think: How did the tragedy of Hamlet come about? What can we learn from our future work?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" >, hesitant, delayed personality</h1>
When he knew the real cause of his father's death, there was a good time to avenge his father and kill his uncle, but he hesitated, wanting to wait for a chance later. As everyone knows, opportunities are fleeting.
He has always been full of endless thoughts in the matter of "revenge", and even his uncle has been killed a hundred times in his mind, but in fact he has not taken substantive action. Some are just self-pitying, looking forward and backward, always feeling that the time is not ripe enough.
However, in the process of waiting for everything to be ready, it is easy to change.
Can't help but think of a friend.
I have a friend who started doing a kind of cosmetics micro-business last year, and at first it was just a friend we are familiar with, but she felt great financial pressure because she had a second child. So determined to make this side business bigger, for a long time did not see her movement, just a few days ago, she posted her business license of the agency brand and the storefront of the mall in the circle of friends, which is called a grand style.
Admire her boldness in doing it when she thinks, just like she said, if one thing has an idea, three months and five months without action, then half of it will be yellow.
So what you want to do, do it when the investigation is almost over, once you decide to do it, you will overcome all difficulties, see the mountains and open the mountains, and cross the water.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="41" > second, things are not calm, lack of thinking, it is easy to be used by people</h1>
After learning the cause of his father's death, he was so angry that he even burned his sanity. He asked the servants to follow the process of his father's death. This undoubtedly quickly exposed his thoughts, and his uncle was determined to send him to England.
When he saw the woman he once loved, suddenly die and be buried, he completely forgot his intention to return, and he was emotionally impulsive, which directly ignited the fuse of his duel with Leotis.
Hamlet's uncle, with a deep heart, had already penetrated the heart of his nephew, knew that he was easily provoked and careless. That's why he designed a trap and let him jump in on his own, that is, to first arouse Leotis's hatred for Hamlet, making him like an erupting volcano. Then let others take advantage of Hamlet's competitive personality to duel With Leotis.
Hamlet, on the other hand, did not think about it at all, on the one hand, he killed Leotis's biological father, and indirectly killed his own sister. How could Leotis not have hatred for him in his heart? Although he did not kill Leotis's father on purpose, it was also a human life, and he thought too naively that he could apologize to Leotis.
On the other hand, he was sent to England and saw through his uncle's ruse to kill him. Now that he had returned, his uncle had fanned the flames and made him duel with Leotis, and he went. He didn't calmly think about it, how could this snake-hearted person expect him to win? How could he be involved in a duel as soon as he returned?
The reason for this is that he writes his emotions on his face and externalizes them in his actions, all of which are exploited by his uncle.
Everyone knows the importance of controlling emotions, but it just can't be done.
I have thought of a few points, you may wish to try:
1, bow your head and count 123 slowly in your heart. Give yourself three seconds of buffering.
2, usually exercise their blunt sensitivity, do not be too sensitive to some things.
3, after getting angry, think about what caused you to be angry, and how to deal with such things in the future to avoid anger.
4. If you see that the situation is not right, first temporarily evacuate the scene of the "quarrel".
5, prepare some good articles, let yourself be okay when you are not working, read more, learn more.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="69" > three, only blindly complaining, language giants, short people in action</h1>
He knew that his mother had been defiled by his uncle, and he could only hate, hate his mother, and speak of his mother very badly. He didn't ask his mother if she was voluntary or if she was under pressure. In Danish society at that time, women did not have much power.
And he just questioned his mother with anger and complained. As everyone knows, complaining will not solve the problem at all.
If he didn't complain, he would find out the truth and conspire with his mother, which might be another result.
Whenever he himself was on his own, he recounted his plans for revenge over and over again, in a language that was impassioned and contagious. But as soon as it fell into action, it was extinguished.
It gives people a feeling of suffocation that the rain has not yet fallen.
In fact, there are not a few such people in the workplace. They blindly complain about their low salaries, go around preaching that the company is not good, how good other people's companies are, and when he has the ability, he will not succumb to such a small company.
Then, the result is that for three years and five years, they are still standing still in place, without any change, still doing the original thing, or continuing to be a giant in language, still refusing to change themselves, improving themselves, not changing anything in action, of course, still staying in the original company, the original position.
When new people come in, watching everyone else get promoted, they start a new round of complaining, and then they still go their own way, and then, a lifetime goes by.
No matter what we do, we must be clear about what our goals are, and once we have established our goals, we will move forward bravely, and this process is naturally full of hardships. But just take the first step and it feels a lot better.
Come to this world once, try to control your emotions, and don't leave yourself with regrets. As difficult as it is, it's always easier to change yourself than to change someone else. A person's life is a process of constantly grinding himself, although the process is bitter, but the result will be satisfactory to you.
In reality, say less and do more. Put the energy you use to talk and do things, and the results will prove everything.
The ear of wheat bowed her head, proving that she was ripe and full.
Streamside Sancao: Read the classics, words and feelings, on the red dust road, may you and I walk together.