Liang Qiushi said: "Forty years to start living, not too late, the problem is how to interpret the word 'life'. ”
Thirty and standing, forty without confusion. Forty years of life, there are old people on the top, there are small ones on the bottom, and all the suffering has just begun. Some people start to go downhill from the age of forty, and some people go brighter and brighter.
As a man, you should be bold and dare to do it, and when you say it, you should be the "top pillar" of the family, you should not be at the age when you should struggle, but you are a shrunken-headed turtle. Men should have the appearance of men, let the beginning of the beginning, let the end of the end, you have to believe in yourself, take a step is the road.
Men have to remember that the real life starts at the age of forty. You are no longer the wayward lad, nor are you the age of "one person is full, the whole family is not hungry". Even if you have a white hair, but you still have to rejuvenate the vitality of youth, you can not bring complaints into the family, you can not complain about others at home every day, complain about society, you have to guide a positive energy, especially in front of children, you have to be a good "father" this role. Of course, in front of your parents, you must also play the role of "son" and set an example of filial piety.
In fact, when people reach middle age, it is a process, forty years old has survived, fifty years old is much better, children are older, and families are slowly getting richer. If you hesitate, then forty years old is the end of life, and from then on you are also a person who breaks the jar.
In fact, forty-year-old people, saying that young is already a little embarrassed to open their mouths, saying that old, is not old, this is an embarrassing age, but some people, but this age, has never been there. Some people are entangled in illness and have fallen into many crises in their lives.
In fact, forty-year-old people, the mentality will slowly mature, experienced a lot of things, suffered a lot, seen the world is hot, used to being sneered at, no matter at any time, there is a kind of unfazed mentality. Respond to changes with invariance, respond to words with silence, face troubles with calmness, and treat noise with silence.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > men to remember, from the age of forty, to learn to let go, the more you let go, the more you get. </h1>
Reader Xiao Wei has feelings in his heart that he can't let go, and he looks for people everywhere to talk to, hoping that someone will understand him. I asked him, "How old are you this year?" Why can't I put it down? He said: "I am forty-three years old, and I am still thinking about her that I met many years ago." Xiao Wei's heart, she works in a company in Shanghai, and Xiao Wei is a netizen, and the two people have to chat about WeChat every day. Xiaowei also went to Shanghai to meet her. But two people with families, no matter how much they love each other, are just a dream, and there will be no good results after all. If Xiao Wei can't look down on his feelings, an extramarital love will ruin two families. I advised Xiaowei to quickly put down unrealistic love, learn to cherish the family, force myself not to think about her for a long time, and delete all contact information.
Men have to believe that things are man-made! You can let go of whatever you want. The ancients said, "Ask what the world's situation is, and the Orthodox Church promises life and death." "The most difficult thing in the world to let go is love, so you start by letting go of the love of the past, allowing yourself to get relief from the whirlpool of feelings." When you can let go of love, you will feel that people's lives are light and breezy.
When a person reaches forty, he lets go of love, desire, hatred, everything in the past, and his troubles disappear. When a man can do it without worries and do anything, he is more motivated. Easy to play, the more you go, the faster you go. People who know how to let go are responsible for the family and the future. Those who are unwilling to let go of the past are actually too selfish and too light.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > men to remember that from the age of forty, they must learn self-discipline, and the more self-disciplined, the luckier they are. </h1>
Forty-year-old men are mostly in debt, and even if they are not in debt, the financial pressure is also very large. Raising a family is not an easy task, and it is often like a mountain pressing down on your heart. There are also ideals in life, but also some confusion, because of economic pressure, the ideals of the past have been lost, such people are not a minority.
When people reach forty, life is not their own decision, and they always have to "take into account the overall situation" and "take care of the overall situation." Therefore, men should learn self-discipline, fragment time, and make a plan that suits them. There are small goals a day, and every year is better than a year, and we must also make a long-term plan to "sharpen a sword in ten years".
A person, the more disciplined, the more successful. When you lock in your life goals and then pursue them tirelessly, you will find yourself getting closer and closer to your goals, and the joy of success is in your heart. Stick to it, and then stick to it, life will change from "quantitative change" to the stage of "qualitative change".
No one succeeds casually, and you are no exception. Don't envy the good things that fall from the pie in the sky, don't wait for others to come to your relief, don't think about the dream of getting rich overnight, you do your current job steadily, maybe the god of luck will patronize you.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > men should remember that from the age of forty, they must learn to suffer, survive, and the willow is dark. </h1>
"Surviving is a door, but surviving is just a hurdle." When a man reaches the age of forty, his career must be endured, and he will become a person who has a good life; love must survive, survive the itch of seven years, and the pain of ten years to understand the true meaning of love; troubles must be endured, and when they are most annoying, they have become relaxed; the mood should be boiled, they always please others before, and then learn to care for themselves and be nice to themselves.
For middle-aged people, "boiling" is a normal state of life. On the road to growth, we have to go through the "cold window hard reading, ten years of cold window", when we are young, we have to experience "ignorance", and in middle age, we have to experience "no way to borrow money, to find people to complain, no opportunity to start a business, to promote no connections, to go out and be looked down upon...", all kinds of suffering, when they are forty years old, they have begun, more than in any period.
Ma Yun said: "Never be luckier than others, I never thought that I was luckier than others, I may have more perseverance than them, in the most difficult times, they can't survive, I can stay up for one second, two seconds." ”
When you can't stay up, say to yourself, "Hold on for a second, two seconds, and it's fine." Success is often not persevering, and I can't give up. "A person, a psychological breakdown, is the worst period, so you can lose everything, but you can't lose a good mood.
A wise man said, "The beginning is also the end; the end is also the beginning." ”
Men, men to forty, everything is just beginning, don't think it's going to be fine. Life is bright, the road is tortuous, if you are really tired, just be alone for a while, think about your future, you have to believe - the good drama is behind.
The forty-year-old man, standing at a new starting point, ended naivety, began to mature; ended youth, began middle age; ended "accumulation", began to do subtraction; ended confusion, began to be clear; ended fearlessness, began to be in awe...
Forty-year-old men, standing at a new starting point, looking for, going around, finding the exit of life, going firmly, even if the road ahead is far, don't know the difficulty.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
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