Wen | Cao Qingchun
Yesterday, when I met with a deceased friend, my friend asked, "Why haven't I seen you write an article and send a story recently?" ”
I said: "Recently, the economy is tight, I am fighting for survival every day, and I can't calm down to make up stories." ”
"Don't you have a stable job?" Why is there a shortage of money? ”
I smiled and replied to him with a current online segment: I'm just a, I only know how to go to work every day. Going to work in order to get off work, the salary is not enough for their own breakfast. The price of a famous car has nothing to do with me, because my wealth is too far away from it, which is my heartless and lungless humility. ”
The forty-year-old self does not know whether he is mediocre and timid about life now, or whether he feels that he has a heavy responsibility. The ambitions of the past have passed unconsciously with the years, and the occasional re-sighting of those honors and certificates can stimulate this once indomitable and restless heart.
Are men forty tired? Is it difficult? Can I give up? There is also a very sad passage: people over forty have "four fears", one is afraid of no money. In contemporary society, whether it is food, clothing, shelter, life, old age, illness or death, every moment and every moment and every moment of movement, we must use money to lead the way. Second, I am afraid that my parents will get sick. Regardless of whether parents have savings or not, caring for and accompanying them at the bedside is stressful enough. Three fears of child rebellion. Educating children is a science. Children have also grown up, and there is gradually a generation gap in communication with children. Sometimes calm and talk to the child, sometimes there will be a few quarrels. Every time there is a quarrel or a cold war, I am afraid that the child will not follow the right path. Discipline the child too strictly, and he can't be bothered. If the discipline is not strict and the child is afraid that he will not take the right path, if he really takes the evil road and takes a detour, it is also a manifestation of incompetence for a father, and it is also a great blow. Four fears of falling down. As a man who is the head of the family, whether you are an official or an ordinary person, whether you are a billionaire or a poor person, physical health is the root of everything, just imagine your body collapsed, fell, who should carry the burden of your family responsibilities? Is it up to the elderly parents to carry it? Is it up to the weak wife to carry it? Is it up to the young children to carry it? So maintain the body, run the family well, look forward to the parents are old, look backwards to see the children are still young, no matter how difficult it is not difficult for parents, no longer bitter can not be bitter children, men have no retreat to speak of, only insist on working harder.
I live in this small county, facing a busy life of three points and one line every day, I don't pay attention to house prices because I can't afford to buy them; I don't care about famous cars, because car maintenance has to be paid for by my monthly basic survival costs.
I have a new energy two-wheeled electric vehicle, and I can enjoy the scenery of the four seasons along the way every day. From the blossoming of flowers on the North Ring Road to the blossoming of flowers, from low bungalows to demolition ruins to the current tower cranes, I will proudly say to them: "I am watching your changes every day, although I can't have every inch of you, but you have created a landscape in my vision, so that I feel more guilty in this person's mood of not being fruitless until middle age." ”
Mediocre life is like boiling frogs in warm water, and it's hard to jump out of your comfort zone after all. The once invincible, ambitious, ambitious, ambitious, and ambitious have disappeared, and all that remains is a gradually decadent uncle. There are not many friends, not widely communicated, and even taking care of the family is so inadequate. The good life promised to the lover has come to naught, and the role model for the child has also been found to have been photographed on the beach. In addition to worrying about the elderly, filial piety seems to be just lip service. Every day, after all, they still live a life of "burning incense and tea to stew dog meat, big pants and slippers".
Forty is really not the age of "falling" or a period of retreat. Forty-year-old men are not less stressed, but should be more patient and have a more stable and mature mindset. Face your future life calmly, and have a positive heart.
Men are forty and not confused, and should understand that they must seize the time and go to work down-to-earth. Challenge your potential and use your energy to the last minute.
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