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People reach forty, into middle age, for men, once they reach this age, it is the age of success, even if the big instrument is late, it should have their own career.
Forty-year-old success is the most important and necessary, if people reach middle age and have a successful career and a harmonious family, they can start to enjoy life.
At this time, men, some parents are alive, some children are filial piety, and there are good wives around, I have to say that this is the beautiful life that most men pursue.
If you are forty years old and have nothing to do, life is difficult to maintain, at this time men are the most uncomfortable, children, parents have become invisible pressure, pressure people breathless.
The bitterness in the heart is not talked about, everything needs to be endured, and any difficulties can be carried by themselves. Because you are the pillar of the family, you can't fall down, and once you have a problem, the whole family will be in jeopardy.
-02-
Realistically, most men face a midlife crisis.
It should have been the golden age of filial piety for wives and children, but all kinds of problems swept in, and the world was difficult to complete, making people worry about gray hair.
Some people do not worry about eating and drinking, but the family relationship is not good, and although some people have good family relations, their economic situation is not optimistic, and they will quarrel for three days and two ends.
Everyone wants to have a harmonious family and no worries, but not all men can get such a peaceful and beautiful life.
When many people face problems in life, they will feel that their lives are bitter, and they feel that they have lived a sad life in this life, and what they want cannot be obtained, and what they get is what they do not want.
They even blame it on their lack of money, thinking that if they had money, their lives would have to be different.
-03-
In fact, some men just take money too seriously, you know, men are over forty years old, and the real sadness is not that they don't have money.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="20" > no connections</h1>
Some people may say: I honestly do my old business, what do I want so many connections to do?
This shows that your pattern is small, and a person's network is not only in the relationship of interests, but also in the human touch.
When a man reaches middle age, he must have several trusted friends and brothers who can stand up for you at key moments.
Some people are not good at sociability and do not understand people's feelings, but some connections must be there.
Good connections can make you more familiar with the laws of this society, familiar with the way of dealing with the world, can also broaden your horizons, and can also reach out and pull you in times of crisis.
You know, maybe one day you are at a low point in your life, and the last thing that can save you is not your family but your brother who is good around you.
When a person reaches the age of forty, it is a sadness to have no connections.
It shows that you have not yet integrated into this society, you are just working in your own circle, and you can't see the world outside your own circle.
People who are stuck in their own ways must not have achievements, and without a good network, you will have difficulty in this society.
At the same time, you should also recognize those who are ineffective social and abandon those who are inferior.
Make friends, be sure to make friends with people who deserve to be treated sincerely, not wasting time in ineffective socializing.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="63" > family discord</h1>
One of the successes of men – starting a family.
Like career, family is also crucial for a man, home is the most solid backing for men, but also the driving force for men to move forward, but also can provide a warm harbor for men.
Men can give everything for this family, but family discord brings the heaviest blow, and family discord is difficult to reconcile by oneself, because the problem is not only on one person.
Not quarrels mean that family relations are not good, daily friction is normal, and no one can escape, the focus is on the heart.
The so-called husband and wife are in the same heart, although they are noisy and noisy, in the face of great right and wrong, the two can talk well and sit down to discuss, which is a good family.
It seems that when men reach middle age, even if they are not married, it is better to be alone than to be at odds with their families.
Because now that you have a family, it is difficult to separate, and it will involve all aspects, children, parents, property, and so on.
It is a sadness for a man to become a discordant home, like a quagmire, once he falls into it, it is difficult to come out again, either to stand up and take the initiative to solve the problem, or to separate peacefully.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="64" > health is worrying</h1>
Just as the so-called body is the capital of the revolution, the family is harmonious again, the economy is rich again, the body is broken, and everything is gone.
Everyone understands the reason why a person is sick and the whole family takes medicine, especially when people reach the age of forty, they are in their prime, and at this time there is a physical problem, not only the family has no income, but also drags down the family.
If the family conditions are a little richer, it is better, and once the economic conditions are not good, it will make the already poor family even more overwhelmed.
Some people continue to work hard for wealth, regardless of health, simply in exchange for the body as capital.
I don't know that life will be difficult and painful after that.
You can ask those people lying in hospital beds, who are not remorseful, but some people can't see this pain, don't know the severity of the disease.
Usually, the family members advise you to smoke less and drink less, many people do not pay attention to it, always play haha, to the real illness, everything is too late.
I hope that all men cherish and respect their own bodies, but also to fear the pain, the usual restraint brings good happiness in the future, and when you are old, do not get sick, do not add chaos to their children is the greatest help to them.
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Remind people to middle-aged men, do not take money too seriously, although no money is absolutely impossible, but money must not be the most important thing in life, the most important thing should be relatives, partners, health.
Think about it carefully, as a man, working hard outside is also for this family, for those relatives who care about themselves.
If you ignore the maintenance of various relationships around you for the sake of money, and ignore the important alarms sent by your body, it is inevitable that the gains will not be worth the losses.
A man's forty years old can be said to be a watershed in life, a crucial age, even if there is no money, three or two friends should have, even if there is no network, the family should be harmonious, the body should also be healthy, these three things, each of which is more important than money.