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Recently, some readers have written to me privately, saying that they are now forty or fifty years old, and it would be good if they could return to twenty years old! They will definitely work hard, not afraid of hardship, and strive to live a better life.
Unfortunately, there is no time machine in the world.
It just so happened that a friend had recently encountered work troubles and felt a lot of psychological pressure, and then I specifically found time to listen carefully and help analyze. It turned out that he had just joined a new company, the work content was very different from before, and he was very uncomfortable at first, and even had the idea of resigning. Because he was a newcomer, he was assigned by the leader to a job with a relatively heavy task. People in the office also like to entrust him with various tasks, and often need to work overtime, which is very hard. And at the beginning of the business is not familiar, the work is not in place, from time to time by the leadership of criticism. He felt very uncomfortable and stressed, and he had the idea of resigning.
After I listened, I was silent for a moment. Then analyze the specific situation of the work with him. In my opinion, the work is not as difficult as I think, because I have done the same job before. I first told him to adjust his mentality, and only by psychologically overcoming it and not being afraid of hardship could he overcome difficulties. Then I asked him to change the way he worked and ask his colleagues for advice. Work should be done according to priorities, and if it is really incomplete and urgent, it must be reported to the leader in advance. I also gave him many examples of how others have worked hard to succeed. He slowly figured it out, and he was determined not to be afraid of hard work and to do a big job!
In fact, many things are not as difficult as imagined, but we ourselves are timid first, afraid of not doing well, afraid of suffering, so we fail.
I used to have the idea of being afraid of suffering, but I told myself that if I flinched at this time, what would I do if I encountered greater difficulties in the future? What should I do when I get old? Is it to accept more beatings from society? When children have no money to study, when their families have been living in poverty, when they are sick and can only look at the ceiling of the hospital in despair because they have no money, will they regret the choice they made when they were young? At the age when he should have struggled, he chose to be comfortable.
Many times we can't choose where we are, but we can choose to struggle. If Heaven gives you a bad deck, you must also try your best to play flowers. If you want to change your destiny, you must be extremely hard. But the fate is in your own hands, don't regret it in old age because you are afraid of suffering.
As the saying goes: "If you eat bitterly, you will be a good person." "As long as the hard work is worth it, what can be learned, what can make us grow better, then this suffering is worth eating." #Emotion##职场 #
If you were to go back to twenty, would you be willing to suffer? Feel free to leave a message in the comment area