At Li Ting's memorial service in 2012, relatives and friends wept bitterly, and all of them lamented the loss of their young lives. Among them, the saddest is undoubtedly the ex-husband Zhang Zijian. What he didn't expect was that he hadn't seen each other for nine years, but goodbye was yin and yang.
Looking at Li Ting's posthumous photo, the man couldn't help but feel remorseful in his heart: "If I had learned the news of Li Ting's cancer earlier, maybe I wouldn't have divorced, and everything that happened later wouldn't have happened." Unfortunately, without ifs, time will not repeat.
In 2003, after Li Ting was diagnosed with breast cancer, she felt for the first time that fate was so merciless. It was hard to have a career turnaround, but I didn't expect it to be so short-lived.
Careers can make a comeback, but life doesn't start again. Under the huge blow, Li Ting also stumbled a few steps, at this moment, in her heart, the most worried thing in her heart was not the body, but the husband and young daughter knew what to do about this matter.
She could imagine how desperate her family would look when they heard that she had cancer. As a mother and wife, she couldn't treat them so cruelly, and in the end, she chose to hide it.
What I didn't expect was that this white lie would become the last straw that crushed Li Ting.
After returning home, Li Ting calmly told her husband Zhang Zijian: she had done a small examination, and her body was not in serious trouble, but she was too tired from filming recently.
And Zhang Zijian did not perceive his wife's discomfort, but advised his wife: "Rest well at home, if you are too tired from filming, you can slow down, and I will come to make money."
Li Ting looked at Zhang Zijian, who was concerned about himself, and thought to herself: Her original choice was correct.
A year later, Zhang Zijian walked into the audience's sight with the help of Detective Di Renjie. People have paid attention to this powerful actor, looking forward to him to star in more excellent works, but at the juncture of his career, the news of Zhang Zijian's divorce from his wife rushed to the hot search.
Many netizens expressed surprise: how can the love between the two talents and women in the entertainment industry that has gone from school uniform to marriage suddenly divorce? At that time, Zhang Zijian's reply was that the husband and wife had no contradictions and had separated.
During the time when Li Ting fought cancer alone, her family was completely unaware. It was not until she died of ineffective rescue that Zhang Zijian and his daughter, who were far away, came back to visit.
At the funeral, Zhang Zijian saw this scene and finally understood why his wife divorced at that time. It turned out that she had always borne it alone, but at that time, she credulously believed the rumors of others and decisively divorced her wife, "After all, it was my fault."
After Li Ting's family cried at the funeral, someone proposed how the inheritance would be divided. Li Ting's younger brother said that he had not yet married his daughter-in-law, and he obviously needed the money the most.
And although Li Ting's parents said in their mouths: This is your sister's hard-earned money, and you can't take it. But I still asked if the inheritance of the person next to me could be assigned to my son's name?
On the side, after Zhang Zijian heard Li Ting's parents' answers, he couldn't help but feel cold: his daughter had died, but all they had in mind was money.
For the sake of his daughter, Zhang Zijian still stood up. Said: The only one who is eligible for the inheritance is the daughter, and this money is also the last thought of the child's mother.
In the end, Li Ting's mother also had to give up the competition, and the inheritance rights were smoothly transferred to Li Ting's daughter.
Although Li Ting has passed away, there are still many questions that plague us. Some netizens pointed out: "In nine years, the family can be completely unaware, but zhang Zijian really does not know? Or is it clearly knowing but pretending to be indifferent."
After all, Zhang Zijian has always been a deeply affectionate person in the entertainment industry. Not to mention that the relationship with his wife has gone through sixteen years. They also have a loving daughter.
Under such circumstances, Zhang Zijian will definitely not divorce. Perhaps, you will say: "It is Li Ting who chooses divorce in order not to drag down her family, and everything is the reason for Li Ting."
But I think that Li Ting, who was able to rank with Jiang Wenli as an excellent actor, not only relied on her looks, but also relied on her brain. If she is just a simple white lotus, how can she stand out among a group of young actresses and win her husband a hit?
There is also a problem that has been ignored by everyone, Li Ting died in 2012, when the rescue of advanced breast cancer was ineffective. Therefore, when the two divorced in 2004, Li Ting's condition was not so serious.
At that time, she could tell her husband calmly, after all, he was the only one she relied on. However, the result is that the two people who are in love are divorced.
I think That Zhang Zijian knew his wife's condition, and his sixteen-year relationship could not escape the torment of illness. And according to the outside world, Li Ting had asked for help from her husband Zhang Zijian before her death, but she was ignored, and Xu Ting, who was deeply tormented by illness, not only scolded Zhang Zijian: "At least a husband and wife, how can it be so ruthless."
In the nine years that Li Ting fought cancer alone, she worked hard to make money by filming in order not to drag down her family. Almost all year round crazy filming, but also at the end of his life to shoot the last drama "Our French Years".
I can't imagine what exactly persecuted the young girl. A person endures the torment of illness and fights alone in the entertainment industry.
Is it his own strong, unspoken disposition, or the cold-bloodedness from his original family?
When you think about it, it is the original family that plays the decisive factor. A person's personality is often inseparable from the family.
If Li Ting was born in a happy family, she was pampered and nurtured from an early age and loved by her parents. Or maybe her parents know that righteousness can teach Li Ting a lot of truth, and Li Ting's suffering will not fall into a situation where her family is completely unaware until she dies.
She could have spoken out and solved her troubles together, rather than suffering them in silence and lying alone in the hospital ward.
But unfortunately, Li Ting couldn't do it. The day she learned of her illness was to think of her family, not herself, thinking about the huge medical expenses her family could not afford, and chose to rely on herself and make money by filming herself.
She even became a ruthless mother in the eyes of her daughter, escaping from her mother's identity for nine years. All of this is telling Li Ting's pain, and she has also been able to say everything calmly when she can't persevere, but in the end, she still lost to reality.
Li Ting's story is undoubtedly sad, and what she sees in her is a person who is trying to live and is strong and does not want to be knocked down. And her back also reflects thousands of patients who are tormented by illness but dare not ask for help.
They are not for themselves, but they do not want to be a burden in the eyes of their families. But under such solitude, life is ruthlessly taken.
Perhaps, in the face of disease, we cannot do anything. "However, if these groups are given a word of encouragement and a rescue, perhaps their final encounter will not be lying in the morgue of the hospital."
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