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Confucius said, "Men and women who eat and drink, the great desire of man is to survive." ”
Lin Qingxuan said, "Romance is to waste time eating slowly, wasting time drinking tea slowly, wasting time walking slowly, wasting time slowly getting old." ”
Love and food are inseparable from each other's interdependence.
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<h1>Food is the bridge of love</h1>
Appetite is the beginning of all desires.
Falling in love with cooking because you love someone will also fall in love with a person because you love food.
In "Like You", Jin Chengwu falls in love with Zhou Dongyu by food. The fate of the food is wonderful. It is said that eating makes the taste buds feel happy and produces love.
Chocolate Lover is a movie about food and love. The heroine Tina said, "The only secret to making a dish is to cook with love, and only love can make unforgettable food." ”
Tina uses food as a tool to convey emotions, infiltrating the thoughts of her lover into the food, so she makes a series of unforgettable foods.
Egg paste with just the right consistency; small breads that are steaming with golden light; quails with shiny rose petals....... The footage in the lens is full of light, as if you can smell the aroma of food across the screen.
Her lover Pedro eats vegetables and tastes love.
When you come home tired, sit down at the steaming, colorful table, take the wine, taste the food, the drowsiness subsides, the heart becomes soft, and in the blink of an eye, the teeth are bright and the smile is like a flower.
Kang Weiye in "Coming and Going" has an extramarital affair with Lin Zhu and abandons his wife. When renovating the new house for Miss Lin, Lin Zhu said, I will never enter the kitchen, and when I enter the kitchen, people will soon be old and yellow, either you do it or we will go out to eat. Kang Weiye immediately missed his wife and the previous home. There are fireworks, so it is called home.
If you love someone, you are willing to bother and make a saucer for him/her, and transfer love from the stomach to the heart.
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<h1>Food is a testament to family affection</h1>
Now the ability to cook has become one of the conditions for choosing a mate, not only the basic requirements of men for women, but also the threshold set by women for men.
Because everyone remembers what home looks like, it's related to food, it's related to the kitchen. The taste of the kitchen is the taste of the mother, the taste of home, and the temperature of the kitchen is the temperature of affection.
American war correspondent Matt McCullis wrote in a passage in his Sweet Sorrows: "At that moment, I knew there was a way to get my mom back: go into the kitchen and make something according to her recipe. Her little ribs, her chocolate shortbread, her strawberry ice cream — they're going to be the gateway to a past I've almost forgotten..."
Laura Esquiver, author of Chocolate Lover, said: "The first time of my life was spent by the fire in the kitchen of my grandmother's and my mother's house. ”
When I was young, I opened my eyes and smelled the aroma of food in the air, and naturally I thought of the food burned well, and the hungry intestines began to rumble, and people also rutted away from the warm bed and ran to another warm place.
I once saw such a story: my son worked in the field and did not come home for many years. One year, Chinese New Year's Eve son said that he wanted to come back for the New Year, and the mother was overjoyed, and on the Chinese New Year's Eve, she wrapped the three fresh stuffed dumplings that her son liked to eat early on the same day and anxiously began to wait.
While waiting, my mother looked at the dumplings and suddenly felt a little nervous, so she went to cook two and tasted them first, only to find that there was no salt. The stunned mother went to the neighbor's house to borrow a syringe, mixed the salt water, and injected the dumplings one by one.
When the son returned, eating the dumplings cooked by his mother and exclaiming "delicious", the mother triumphantly raised the syringe in her hand and told her son about her triumphant move. My son cried as he listened. After working hard outside for so many years, I have eaten a lot of dumplings, but who cares about her son's taste as much as a mother and comes up with such a high trick.
Food made with love is the glue of mother-child affection and the summoning order for children to return home.
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<h1>Food is the link to friendship</h1>
In modern society, people are very close and far away. A meal, a glass of wine, can easily break the ice, so food is given a social attribute.
There is a saying: Is there anything that a meal cannot solve? That's two meals.
It is fully illustrated that the relationship between the characters will change due to food.
The various characters in the Korean drama "Let's Eat Together", whether they are old-fashioned civil servants, stingy landlords, or lonely single women, smelly little clerks, enthusiastic old ladies, in the human touch and homely taste created by food, unload their hearts, open their hearts, and become friends.
When I was studying, I often went out with my dead party in the middle of the night to forage for food. I don't know if it was because of friendship to share food, or because of sharing food to deepen friendship, anyway, we are still dead.
Girlfriends have to get together once in a while, and then it is to eat, talk, eat, and eat, and the sweet and sour in life become the condiment of the table.
Like to eat together, partly because of gluttony, but also because of table communication, push cups to change the cup, the distance is moderate, natural and comfortable.
Whether it is an old friend or a new friend, the words exchanged between the table and the swinging and sipping are homely and warm; the eyes that are docked between the toasts and the jaws are sincere and powerful.
Such an atmosphere can easily make each other let down their guard and dissolve the stranger. Without any skill, it is easy to establish a relationship with each other and enter each other's lives like a spring wind and rain.
Even without speaking, a group of people tasting the same food together, the sense of empathy, is very beautiful.
Old friends let go of each other's thoughts, and new friends linked to each other. Food becomes the language of relationships.
Food has culture, and the table has a clean face.
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<h1>Food is the joy of life</h1>
Life and food are inseparable, food exists in every moment of life, and delicious contains the joy of life.
Ichiko of Little Forest has a keen interest in making all kinds of delicious food by hand. Baked sweet potatoes, dried persimmons, dried turnips, all food is made from the spot, simple and simple and full of the joy of life.
"Although the weather is cold and headache-inducing, some foods can only be made when it's cold," she said. Cold is also an important seasoning."
A delicacy is a mood, a temperament, a temperature, but also an attitude to life.
Cooking is a complex project. Purchase and wash, cut into pieces of graft, stir-fry spoon upside down, when the taste gradually overflows, with a beautiful utensils on the table, it is done.
Of course, you can also not be so complicated, the age of science and technology, open the Network, food has everything, click at will, two or three days your favorite food will be packaged to your hand.
This way of obtaining food seems to be much more convenient, but industrial food is not only inferior to handmade food. The whole process of handmade cooking can realize the meaning of life.
Turn a bunch of ingredients into a delicacy, and instantly have the arrogance of King's Landing kitchen and a unified table.
Food is also an important part of travel. Sometimes we even go far because of a delicacy.
If you go to Hangzhou, be sure to try the lettuce sea bass stew, so you will hear the allusion about the "thoughts of the sea bass". Zhang Han of the Jin Dynasty did not want to be involved in the rebellion of the Eight Kings of the Jin Dynasty, and under the pretext of the autumn wind, he missed the "lettuce and perch" in his hometown, and abandoned the official to return to his hometown.
"Si Wu Jiang Song" (Zhang Han):
The autumn wind rises and the leaves fly, and the Wujiang water is fat.
Three thousand miles of home has not returned, and it is difficult to hate and look up to heaven and sorrow. ”
Food can be wrapped in the stomach and can also add fun.
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<h1>It is inseparable from the lips and teeth of food and love</h1>
Food is a very important part of our lives, from the need to survive to the interpersonal interactions, carrying all the meaning of lovers, families, friends, and lives.
Diet covers every corner of Chinese life:
Happy, set up a banquet, its music and harmony, lively scene, such as the entrance banquet, the 100-day banquet;
Separation, calling friends and friends, clinging to each other, venting emotions, such as scattered meals, farewell banquets;
Sadness, gathering girlfriends, painful drooling, relieving stress, such as lost love, unemployment...
When we chew on food, we also taste life.
Cooking food is similar to managing emotions, and it requires care and warmth.
Food full of love, soothing the hungry stomach, warming the lonely.
In the world, only good food and love can not be disappointed.
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【Author】 Qin Jian, a third-level psychological counselor, a host of youth health education, a senior lecturer in girl protection, known as Teacher Fan Fan. Hobbies: Using a pen to make oars, rowing the boat of life; using words to testify, recording the drama of life. Focus on growth, care for life.