<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" >1, small family, which is more important</h1>
After marriage, the vast majority of women will face a problem, that is, is the small family important or the mother's family important?
Some people say that since they are married, they naturally focus on the small family. But some people say that although the small family is important, the parents who raised themselves cannot be forgotten, and they are equally important.
In fact, there is no comparison between the two, the key is to see the attitude of the parties. Our parents have raised us for more than twenty years, and such a kindness must not be forgotten.
But after getting married, we should also correct our attitude. In marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is greater than all relationships. Women can honor their parents and subsidize them, but they cannot sacrifice the interests of their small families.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" >2, three sets of demolition houses, the wife asked to give the brother-in-law a set</h1>
Affection, originally beautiful. When there is a difficulty, help each other to get through the difficulties. But some family affection, under the greed of some people, has slowly become worthless.
When she first got married, Su Xiang's family was not well-off, and her parents-in-law strongly opposed it, but her wife did not abandon her and insisted on marrying Su Xiang, who had nothing. To this end, Su Xiang was particularly touched and made up his mind to let his wife live a life of superiority.
Five years after marriage, through his own efforts, Su Xiang really did it. Not only did he let his wife live a life of having a house and a car, but he also obeyed his wife and even helped his wife adopt her parents-in-law.
Perhaps it is Su Xiang's generous hand and obedience, which makes his wife more and more intense. In the beginning, the wife only paid two thousand living expenses per month to honor her parents. But after a long time, all the expenses of the parents-in-law, even the living expenses of the brother-in-law, the wife also covered it all.
If the business is as prosperous as ever, Su Xiang does not mind raising three more people, just to help his wife to fulfill his filial piety. But his business slowly deteriorated, and the turnover of funds was very difficult. After half a year of losses, Su Xiang closed his shop.
The family's economy suddenly became stretched, but the wife still kept subsidizing the mother's family. Even later, Su Xiang's parents' old house was demolished and divided into three houses, Su Xiang originally wanted to take advantage of this to make a comeback, but his wife did not let go.
The wife asked Su Xiang to take out a house for her brother to marry, saying that originally she honored her parents five thousand a month, because Su Xiang's business collapsed, and now she can only honor three thousand a month, and her parents have a great opinion. If her brother gets married and she doesn't help her, her parents will break off relations with her.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" >3, divorce without dividing the house, and then propose remarriage, and the husband has remarried</h1>
Su Xiang was unwilling, so his wife proposed divorce and moved back to her mother's house. Thinking back to how much his wife had subsidized her in-laws for so many years, Su Xiang did not want to whisper to ask for forgiveness. The two men went through the divorce procedures in a gamble.
Three months later, seeing that his son had no mother to pity, Su Xiang went to his in-laws' parents' house many times to ask his ex-wife to remarry. However, the ex-wife never changed her original requirements, did not remarry without dividing the house, and even threatened Su Xiang and did not give the house, she would remarry with someone. Su Xiang hit the wall many times, and in the face of his ex-wife's fearless attitude, he also slowly cooled down.
When his parents saw that he was depressed, they asked people everywhere to introduce blind dates. Su Xiang, who originally did not want to go on a blind date, could not bear his parents to plead with a handful of tears and a handful of snot, so he had to deal with it casually. Who knows, the two sides looked at each other right. In particular, the woman, after several contacts, said that she wanted to marry him.
Su Xiang was still waiting for his ex-wife to remarry, but he had encountered many walls, and he was also heartbroken. With the help of both parents, he married the girl he was dating. The woman learned that Su Xiang's family was demolished and divided into three suites, and she also married 200,000 yuan in one go.
And Su Xiang remarried on the front foot, the ex-wife came to the back foot to propose remarriage, saying that she wanted to come and go, or Su Xiang was the best, if Su Xiang gave one of the demolition houses to her brother, she would remarry.
Su Xiang looked at his ex-wife in front of him and pleaded, with mixed feelings. His feelings for his ex-wife are very deep, but no matter how deep the feelings, under the constant tossing and turning of the ex-wife, they have slowly disappeared.
He calmly told his ex-wife that I had remarried, and the other party had married 200,000. You still have to find someone else to help your brother buy a marriage house, I can't afford to climb high. The ex-wife suddenly burst into tears and begged Su Xiang to change her mind. But Su Xiang turned to leave, and did not relent again.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="22" >4, marriages that compromise excessively will collapse sooner or later</h1>
In marriage, the relationship between husband and wife should be equal, not who climbs high and who is not worthy of whom. Only with an equal husband and wife relationship can the husband and wife have an equal dialogue, and each other will cherish the hard-won marriage even more.
But in most marriages, either the husband compromises or the wife compromises. Without compromise marriage, sooner or later it will collapse. But marriages that compromise excessively will also collapse.
Not everyone is still waiting for you after being hurt by you. In marriage, the more humble one person is, the more despised the other party is.
Today's Topic:
Are you willing to compromise on your parents' demolition house to raise your brother-in-law?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!