Life is a dream in the worldview reading of all living beings. The view of Mr. Zhuangzi, the wise man of Huaxia, on death should be something that most Chinese people can understand or more or less identify with Taoist thought! That is life! It's dreamy and heavenly way. People are born and die, like all living beings, living to a certain age, if they die, it is an objective law, it is the way of heaven, people can live a lifetime according to this law, when they die, they should accept it calmly, or even be happy, no matter what kind of "intersection of sorrow and joy"! Life is like a dream, we may live in the dream of a butterfly! Before and after death, you can't know yourself, most of you have self-knowledge! It is better to be indifferent and maintain an open and accepting attitude.
When you are one day in the closed state of your entire mind and body, trapped in a desperate situation without any different voice, without any connections, without any help, without any hope, even if you are hoarse and exhausted, no one will come out to look at you, please keep calm, protect your nature, and ensure timely communication and contact with truth, goodness and beauty!
Oh man! What an unforgettable life at this time! It is only at this stage that you may be able to truly see the truths that can make you live and let you die, the so-called nature of human nature that has stripped you of courtesy, righteousness, and shame. Therefore, your future will never be again, and your judgment and reasoning will no longer be blinded by those moral appearances and hypocrisy!
It's only at this stage that you'll really reflect deeply on what's important to your life, so you'll know better than anyone else what you should grasp and what you should sacrifice.
This is also those who have really experienced the beating of fate, and rarely make mistakes in their own life path choices, just as the so-called "hardships and hardships, Yuru Yucheng" ah!
This "Shihe No-Self Resident" on the bank of the water in southern Henan often said to himself in the personal essay collection of "My Blue And White My Porcelain", the ever-changing attempt to read and analyze his own mind and body, and also with compassion wanted to tell people, good people! Never let sorrow flow into a river! Look up and be happy! In the time when people seek truth and goodness, life is always beautiful, and life is always hopeful.
Among the writers or literary works that I like, there are Mr. Wang Zengqi's articles, and through reading Mr. Wang's collections, those words that always record beautiful fragments show that he is a calm, generous, positive and kind person. His "Grass and Trees on Earth" is the representative of these exquisite fragments. The book writes about food, flowers, trees, insects, games, tea drinking, Birds walking in Beijing, jealousy in Shanxi, and stinky tofu in Changsha. Completely from the daily life, with a plain and simple style and a tone of eloquence, admiring and praising... Thus narrowing the distance between writers and readers, making people feel more intimate and warm, this transcendent utilitarian attitude to life, the construction of a natural and simple ideal realm, the construction of a deep cultural meaning of the sharing, recording and inheriting the eternal aesthetic value of Chinese humanities.
Just like the two fables that I have been familiar with and like since I was a child, "Ye Gong Hao Long" and "Ozai Baozhu" that will be quoted below, are full of simple, kind and wise feelings of life! When people see the bigger world, at this moment, this ugly year is such a beautiful day on the eighth day of March! This Shi He selfless layman prays for everyone' blessings, including me! When looking back at the journey of life, I hope that the flowers will shine month by month, and all that remains is beautiful and happy!
The fable of "Ye Gong Good Dragon" in the mainland region should be relatively high in the knowledge rate, perhaps, or every time the reader writes a narrative, or sighs and feels nostalgic, often "encounter seventy-two poisons every day, with tea to solve it", this entertaining and educational "Ye Gong Good Dragon" should be the same taste as "tea"! Now and now! This self-proclaimed layman said: "If you want to know the taste of the world, you must taste tea, and you don't know human feelings and only look at flowers!"
In this story of "Ye Gong Good Dragon", it tells that Ye Gong said that he especially liked dragons, how divine and auspicious the dragon was. Therefore, when helping Ye Gong decorate the house, the craftsmen carved dragon patterns for him everywhere. The clothes he wears are also carved with images of dragons. The news of Ye Gongxi Dragon reached the ears of the Heavenly True Dragon. The true dragon secretly rejoiced, I didn't expect that there were people in the world who liked me so much. One day he secretly visited Ye Gong, Ye Gong heard a noise, and saw a real dragon staring at himself with brass bell-like eyes, trembling with fright and fleeing.
The whole fable satirizes Ye Gong's blind worship of the dragon, just like some people, things, and things you know in real life, unrealistic, inconsistent hypocrisy and contrivance, full of time and space travel. In fact, what the fable wants to tell us most is: to be down-to-earth, to seek truth from facts, not to exaggerate, not to be ostentatious, and to control your emotions maturely and steadily. At the same time, it also tells us that when it is true, we also need to respond sincerely! I think so! If the dragon could change into any image that everyone would like to see! Then this fable has lost its meaning!
In fact, there are not so many ifs in this world, sometimes, what we lose in an instant is eternity, and some people, as soon as they miss, are a lifetime. Listening to sad songs, remembering people who should not think; watching happy plays, forgetting but not forgetting people. Later, you will find that the original needs the most, or the original intention and belief of life, when one day the self-body, to find one to rely on, often in the end is their own one, one of their own personal destruction, are no longer there! That's just like I used to be, get through it alone!
A lot of people say: I don't know what I want myself. In fact, the real meaning of this sentence is: I don't have the courage to face it and work hard enough to fight for what I want. Only when a person pays first can he gain something. Being born in the world is the process of giving up and getting, giving up and not giving up, gaining and not being able to, all in the human heart. Some things are too tiring to hold, and sometimes they can be put down, but in fact, I think it! Life is like this! Discover yourself, know the world, always look for the voice of the heart, to choose, to choose! And then what! Don't be afraid of sorrow and joy in life and death! Just like the fable storyline of "Tail Life Holding Pillar" that I read in the text below, the schematic diagram given to us, of course, just like this allusion is not familiar, right to be the word of the family!
The allusion to "The Pillar of The Tail Life" is a fable from "Zhuangzi". "The tail life and the woman are under the beam, the woman does not come, the water does not go, and the beam and pillar die." There was a man named Ozai who met a woman under the bridge. The woman made a promise, and the tail life did not go, at this time the water flooded up, the tail life did not go, holding the beam and pillar and drowning alive by the water.
This story comes from the "Thief" chapter in "Zhuangzi", the original theme of the whole article is to criticize, or misunderstand the ancient sages such as Yao, Shun, Yu, Tang, and Wu, oppose the form of etiquette norms advocated by Confucianism, satirize the worldly people's pursuit of glory and wealth, and advocate respecting the natural nature of people, going with nature, and not valuing fame and fortune.
In the "Thief" chapter, it is described that the "thief" is a "thief" who robs the rich and the poor against the authoritarian dictatorship; and the "tail life" is a trustworthy gentleman sought after by Confucianism. But through interpretation, Zhuangzi made it clear that the thief was a generous anti-dictatorship fighter, while the tail life and the like were hypocrites who demanded death in the same name.
In the homeland of the family and the whole world, we have the humanities of China, or the past, present and future time stage, the sages and masters have consistently taught everyone to "be human"!
Of course, to be a person, just be a righteous and kind person, I would rather others hurt me, I will not hurt people, but I do not want others to deceive me, because I do not deceive people; I do not want others to bear me, because I do not bear people; if you want to leave, leave, don't come back, come back and there is no place for you. Be a person, head on the sky, feet on the ground, do not be dishonest. Be a person, speak up, do it, don't brag.
He who does what he says is a gentleman, and he who rebels is a villain. Talk counts, entertains, does not believe, annoys people. People live a lifetime, character is precious, we must speak and count, do not let yourself become a liar of vows, do not let promises become a funny cover. Promises are not lightly promised, promises must be fulfilled. Words don't hurt people, they have to do it.
Don't lose faith in others, don't shirk responsibility. I'd rather someone else take you down than be unbelief. Only with good character can we harvest true feelings, and only by doing what we say can we get trust. Whether a person is worth talking to depends on whether words count. Poor, it doesn't matter, ugly, it doesn't matter, as long as you talk about integrity, keep your promises, as long as you can say it and do it, you are a reliable person. To be a person, you must speak and count. Borrow other people's money, be grateful and return it in time. The accounts owed to others should be repaid as soon as possible, and do not default. The things promised to people must be faithfully fulfilled and realized at an early date.
Although in real life, people often know that people without money are better than ghosts, soup without salt is not as good as water; a good heart is not as good as a good mouth. But people should learn to be patient! People are poor and can't say three words, discouraged words, private words, and able words; there is no money to take care of three things, to take the lead for others, to take responsibility for people, and to do other people's housework. At this point, efforts to improve oneself are the key. If you want your eloquence to become better and say what others like, then you must take more into account the feelings of others when you speak, learn to listen, and raise the bar with less people.
Why care if others treat you! Because in real life, some people help him seven points, and he thinks that you have not helped him ten points, but he will feel that you still owe him three points. That is to say! Helping people also depends on the object, and those who do not understand gratitude or are not satisfied, try to help as little as possible. This kind of person helps well, he thinks you are right, and if he doesn't help well, he will feel that you are not trying your best enough. Similarly, if you can't get help from others, you have to thank each other in time if you can't succeed enough, so that next time people are willing to help you again.
What a man who wants to start a family! You should know! When you grow up, not many people will care about whether you are happy or not, they all only look at whether you are out of the ordinary. Otherwise, how to say that a man's bosom is supported by grievances. How much a man has been wronged and can stand up, then his bosom is also how big.
If love has providence, such a man is worth making friends with and worth relying on for a lifetime.
People often say that the distance between people and people, too close will pierce people, too far will hurt people.
As the saying goes, "distance produces beauty", I think distance produces not only beauty, but also further distance. People get along with each other and give both sides a certain distance, not only to maintain the original relationship, but also to let each other develop a better relationship.
Those who are prone to hurting others and themselves are always vague about the edges of distance; men and women cannot get too close, and love that is too close can also become a negative burden. Learn to keep a certain distance and keep the relationship alive.
But what I want to tell you is that people who care too much about other people's opinions often live very tired!
If you care too much about what other people think, then your life will become a pair of pants; because whatever other people fart, you have to go on.
So, don't pay too much attention to what other people think. Don't just "I'm going to make headlines", do something inappropriate that can bring some fame and fortune.
This morning, I saw two chicken soup articles on the headline platform, transcribed them, and shared and encouraged them with the "Ye Gong" and "Tail Sheng" and my fake "Shi He No Self Residents" who are difficult to dismantle! The so-called knower who knows me means that I am worried, and the one who does not know me says what I want! He who learns from me is born, and he who is like me dies! Take a look at real life and realize the ideal of life! Quan when I, a vertigo sufferer, talked nonsense on the way to life!
"10 Social Truths to Understand After the Age of 30":
1, face is not worth money, the ability to make money is the most valuable.
2. The more people you have contacted, the fewer people who can help you in case of trouble.
3, rich people party, called party, is really a show off.
4) The fairest thing in the world is 24 hours a day.
5, mouth said a set, behind the back to do a set, the workplace is thriving.
6, really rich people are very low-key, sometimes feel vulgar.
7, in today's society money is the best touchstone to test the true and false friends.
8, do not like to trouble others, generally do not like others to trouble themselves.
9, determine your right to speak, is how many problems you solve. No one listens to the people at the bottom.
10, there is no need to care about what others say about you, because you can't control what others say.
"10 Social Truths That Will Be Slowly Understood Before the Age of 35":
1, anyone who sees a rich person, you don't talk to him about money, the more you talk about money, when he sees you, he is still a little trembling, the more you say money, the more energetic he is. You talk to him about knowledge, and the more you talk about knowledge, the more he is weak-minded.
2, in this era of indiscriminate affection, a "dear" is at best a hello, a sentence of "next time please you to dinner" at most a thank you, why be too serious.
3, everyone says another person, the truth is always a basket of baskets, the lamp of the eight, illuminate others, can not see themselves.
4, for life, acceptance is the best tenderness, whether it is to accept the appearance of a person, or to accept a person's disappearance.
5, some people, you help him seven points, he thinks you did not help him ten points, but owed him three points.
6, don't keep thinking that "there will be too late later", one day you will find that some people, some things, really will be too late.
7, how many relationships die on the inch, how many feelings die in insatiable greed.
8) You may be worthless in front of one person, but you are priceless in front of another. Remember your own value, this is the reason why people live.
9, don't be so sensitive, don't be so soft-hearted, too sensitive and too soft-hearted people, must be unhappy, other people's casual words, you have to think wildly all day.
10, there is no need to suppress your desires too much. For example, I studied for 2 hours and wanted to play a game to rest. If I forcibly suppress this emotion, then when I continue to study, my mood will be irritable. It is better to play a round, and after a refreshing hand, the efficiency of concentrating on learning will be higher.