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Lao Lin, a friend who studied medicine, really couldn't stand the pressure of life in a big city, and resigned and returned to his hometown of a small county. Asked why, he said that he was exhausted every day, earned more than he spent, and felt that he could never integrate into the city.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="2" > born in the countryside is an original sin</h1>
The land at the mouth of the village is a mass grave, and for this fading village, it is the only place that can be called popular.
If reincarnation is also a science, people like me belong to the kind of players who fail to pass, ancestors have been cutting food in the yellow soil for generations, leaving nothing valuable, and the only ancestral skill is farming. If there is anything else, it is the poor sour and earthy smell that cannot be shaken off.
Parents have never left the Loess Plateau in their lives, and the greatest enthusiasm they can express for the development of their children's education is to ride a bicycle for dozens of miles, go to the city middle school to exchange grain for food stamps, mixed with a handful of wool tickets and change and dip their saliva into your hands, saying: "Study hard, save food!" ”
There is nothing to remember in my hometown, but the most memorable thing is the fume-smoldering broken pot on the kitchen stove; the chicken pen that piles up old excrement all day behind the house; and the golden wheat field that can't be seen in the summer.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" > left home and became the only way out</h1>
For the post-80s, post-90s, and even post-00s, the biggest birth is to catch up with a good era that can go to the city to change their destiny.
There are at least two ways for young people to leave their hometowns, one is to study for school and the other is to work.
If someone in the family is admitted to a key university, it is definitely a green smoke on the ancestral grave, and it is necessary to celebrate three days with a feast! You will also have the opportunity to settle in a big city, find a decent job, sit in a spacious office building, if your life is better, meet the guidance of nobles, you will soar all the way to become a winner in life.
If the ancestral grave is not angry, then sorry, you can only do the most tired work, suffer the most depressed anger, if the fate is bitter, encounter the black heart brick kiln, the boss ran away and other broken things, then you can only think of yourself as unlucky, lose your father's coffin, do not say, the last may not be as good as the chicken behind the old house.
But cities are too attractive to young people. Stubble after stubble of young people, or carrying school bags, or carrying sacks, unswervingly embark on the road away from home.
It is hard to say how many of them will become the next Xu Jiayin, but at least from this moment on, they began to think of themselves as city people from the heart, willing to accept the transformation.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > city, and there is no imaginary warmth</h1>
The biggest illusion that the city gives is what it calls inclusion.
People in the city are very realistic, work to have academic qualifications, communication to see the circle, find an object to check the three generations of ancestors. If you don't have a degree or a family background, they'll give you a nice name: "Migrant workers in the city." The word used to be called "blind stream", then "migrant worker", then changed to "migrant worker", and now called "migrant worker in the city", the name change, seemingly reflects civilization, in fact, is to cover up the discrimination of the people in the city who are about to fall to the ground.
The second illusion that the city gives is that it looks beautiful.
There is a kind of work called "code farmer", living two points and one line, five plus two, white plus black, nine nine six, thick lenses can not cover the dark circles, hairline faded to the neck line. Although he has a high degree and a high income, he ends up being nothing more than a contractor in a suit and tie, sitting in a high-end office building and farming.
The third illusion that the city gives is what it calls happiness.
A friend who studied medicine, graduated from graduate school and really couldn't stand the pressure of life, resigned and returned to his hometown of a small county. Asked why, he said that he was exhausted every day, earned more than he spent, and felt that he could never integrate into the city.
For young people who are new to the city, the city may be busy traffic under the overpass; it is the neon lights that flash blind on the commercial street.
But for those who have been in the city for a long time, the city is nothing more than the congestion on the viaduct that never sees the end, and the noise that seems to be bustling but never finds a sense of security.
Even if your name has long been written into the city hukou, even if you have a few suites in the downtown area, even if you are 985 pairs of first-class masters, doctors, rolex, it is just a social animal, code word ape, and overtime dog mixed in the reinforced concrete ecosystem.
Cities bring not only prosperity, but also peace that can never be returned.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the so-called search for dreams, is not a wandering of the soul</h1>
People in the city are too tired to pursue life all day long but forget that life is as it is.
Some people struggle all their lives for one apartment, and some people rack their brains by any means just to have a city hukou.
When I went to a dinner party, eight out of ten people called themselves this department and that general manager, and the remaining two were still the driver of the director and the relatives of the boss.
Everyone has to pretend to be awesome in order to get more scarce resources in the circle of friends.
The Wang Baoban who boasts that he knows the boss's phone, adds the leader's WeChat, and claims to be able to balance everything may just sell calling cards; the Zhao boss who drives a BMW car and hangs a gold chain to talk to you about the project may not be able to afford to buy poor panties in order to repay the loan; the money Lolita who has been chatting online for half a year, you don't know whether it is a person or a dog.
Everyone has to pretend to be a successful person to show you, and eventually they all live as an ant in the reinforced concrete ecosystem. The so-called dream is just to live a happiness in the eyes of others.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > city, like a giant black hole, devouring not only the countryside but also the human heart</h1>
The city is like a pie, rolling everything into its own pocket.
Over the years, the population of the countryside has continued to flow into the city, leaving behind a hollow 386199 troops, like an old man in a wheelchair who is in a twilight and waiting for death.
It's not just popularity that's lost, it's also the local sounds.
When young people come to the city, the first thing they do when they get off the train is to change their accents and complete the first ceremony of connecting with the city. Even the second eldest bride who stayed behind at the mouth of the village would teach her grandson in mandarin, which was the taste of the land in her hometown: "Steamed bun is not called steamed bun, it is called steamed bun." ”
I don't know from what year, the small county town of the eighteenth line of the hometown also began to build a city, the village committee compound was renamed the suburban cultural square; the noodle shop with the smell of sheep at the intersection of the street built a seven-story high-rise building and established a tuyuan la night club; even the bald grave head was also smeared with cement and became a club for empty nest elderly people to dance square dance. Every evening, a group of left-behind old people dressed up in the time began to writhe with the high-pitched phoenix legend, I don't know, I really think MJ has gone to the countryside.
The hometown that slowly flowed through time, full of dirt and the smell of cooking smoke, died...
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the city can only retain the body, and the hometown is the place where the soul is placed</h1>
The greatest significance of the existence of Ma Yun and Ma Huateng is to give the world the illusion that everyone can get rich overnight. For the sake of so-called dreams, people define a wandering that pretends to be meaningful.
The community moved a demolition household, it is said that the family made up millions, and also divided into five suites. The old man was sullen all day, asking him why he was like this, and the old man pointed to the tall buildings being built in the distance and smiled bitterly: "I have lived there all my life, but when I am old, I have moved to a place that no one knows, and now, in addition to collecting rent, I really don't know what else I can do with life!" ”
When we can't wait to throw ourselves into the embrace of the city, try to change the rural tone, and pretend to enjoy the success in the eyes of others, we have completely become the vassals of the city. Looking back, I suddenly understood that what we really lacked was not a noisy and prosperous place, but a home where the soul could be placed.
On Mother's Day, the old mother called: "Go home and see, give you a big pot of acacia flower cake, put it for several days, no one eats." ”
Looking at the mother's white hair in the video, I suddenly burst into tears!
It turns out that in our hearts, we have never forgotten our hometown. What the city gave us was nothing more than a cold name on the hukou and a house for the body.
Suddenly, I understood that the undulating wheat waves in the fields of my hometown were the most down-to-earth life; it turned out that what came out of the chimney of the hometown pot was the real fireworks in the world!
However, that hometown has gradually drifted away, and what cannot really go back is our soul.