Men are dry and rigid, and women are matched with Kun's shun. The empress dowager is called the female middle Yao Shun, and the martyr is called the female husband. Yue Shuxiu (曰闺秀), 曰淑媛, both known as virtuous women; 曰阃 [kǔn] Fan, 曰懿德, and Mei Jiaren. The woman gives in the name of cooking and eating; the woman returns to Ningning and returns home to the province. What is the three subordinates, from the father to the husband and from the son; what is the four virtues, the woman of virtue and the woman of the woman's work.
Today I start the "Women's Volume" of "Kindergarten Qionglin" and walk up.
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Men are dry and rigid, and women are matched with Kun's shun. Dry is yang, yin is kun, yin and yang and family room xing. When feudal society was a patriarchal society, the male lord was outside and the female owner was inside, but today due to economic development and the refinement of the social division of labor, women can also be competent for most of the work, not necessarily the main inside. But no matter when it is inseparable from family harmony, yin and yang harmony.
The empress dowager is called the female middle Yao Shun, and the martyr is called the female husband: the empress of the virtuous virtue assists in ruling the country, which can be called the yao shun of the female. A woman who is heavy on righteousness and light on life has the arrogance of eyebrows and can be called the husband of a woman.
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Yue Shuxiu, Yue Shuyuan, are all called virtuous women; Yue Fan, Yue Yi de, and mei jiaren.
Boudoir: We often say that a certain woman is "everyone boudoir", often used to compare with "small family jasper". Boudoir refers to a talented and virtuous woman in the family, from the "World Speaking New Language Xianyuan" "Lady Wang's expression is scattered, so she has a forest atmosphere; Gu Housewife Qingxin Yuying, is the show of the boudoir." "Madame Wang is the Xie Daoyun that we repeatedly mention in the text, saying that zhang Xuan's sister in Huijian County is also talented and married as a Gu housewife. Zhang Xuan often praised his sister as a Taoist yun. One Zini visited two homes. People asked, "Who is superior or inferior to Xie and Zhang?" Zini said this to make an evaluation.
Shuyuan: A beautiful woman from a superior birth. Shu, Shan; Yuan: Beauty. The premise of being able to be called a bridesmaid and a lady is that she is born noble, must be a famous and prestigious family, and can only be called a talent and appearance. In the Gao Yan sequel of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Zhou Qiong once mentioned in a letter to Jia Zheng asking for a marriage for The Spring, "Shuyuan Su Yang Fangyi." "
阃范: Refers to women's moral code. Yide: refers specifically to the virtues of women;
The reason why the "famous lady" storm that made a lot of noise some time ago is that on the one hand, it is too fake, and it is hard to pretend to be "rich"; on the other hand, the understanding of the famous woman is too shallow, so that the packaging can reach the level of Mrs. Kuo is good, and the famous lady is too difficult, only the point of origin determines that it must only be used for a very small number of people. So in a sense, there are no real celebrities anymore.
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The woman's main feeding is the name of cooking and eating; the woman's return to Ning, going home to the province is said: the woman's middle feeding is to say that the woman presides over the cooking and eating of the family, and can see the virtuous ability of internal help; Guining refers to the married woman's mother's family to visit her parents.
Here in particular, "Guining" is mentioned, which is not used much now. It is a custom handed down in ancient times, and can also be called being a guest, returning home or returning to the door of the three dynasties, which means that the newlywed couple answers that on the third day of marriage, they will go to the woman's home with the gift to save relatives and visit. At this time, the woman's family must also prepare a banquet (usually at noon, called a Guining banquet or a son-in-law), after the end of the Guining, the matchmaker's work is considered to be over, and the man must give gifts to the matchmaker to express his gratitude. Although the modern word Guining is mostly the meaning of "a married woman returns to her mother's home to visit her parents", in the study of the book of poetry, the woman of the protagonist in "Ge Qin" is not necessarily married, but may also be the body to be married. Therefore, the term Guining has two different interpretations of "going home to comfort parents" or "marrying to reassure parents".
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What is the three subordinates, from the father to the husband and from the son; what is the four virtues, the women's virtues and women's words, women's work and women's appearance: This is the specific content of the "three from the four virtues", now it is classified as the old idea of feudal society, reduced to a mess, the content of the four virtues in it is still a reference, the women's morality should be gentle, the women's appearance should be neat, the women's speech should be cautious, the women's skills should be diligent, a woman with neat makeup, decent and generous, gentle and delicate women also represents the woman's self-confidence and upbringing, I believe that the probability of such a woman's success in life is much greater.
There are many people on the Internet who ridicule the status of husband and wife, including the male version of "three from four virtues": three from: the girlfriend should follow when she goes out, the girlfriend must obey the order, and the girlfriend should blindly follow the mistake. Four virtues: Girlfriend makeup should wait, girlfriend should spend money to be willing, girlfriend should endure anger, girlfriend birthday should remember.
There is also Baidu Encyclopedia: the new three subordinates refer to from the world, from love, and from oneself; the new four virtues refer to Wende Wude, Yan Xian Shude, Character and Learning, and Self-Cultivation.
From the world: the development of the whole situation should be viewed from a macro perspective. Under globalization, competition among countries has become more intense. China's rise plays an important role in the international arena. Although Hong Kong is an international city, its relationship with China is inseparable.
From love: Love should be used to resolve conflicts in family, work, and social life.
From themselves: People have self-knowledge, avoid their own shortcomings, and promote their own strengths, in order to accurately locate their own life coordinates.
Wen De WuDe: Social competition is great, although it is not as proficient as piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but it is necessary to be knowledgeable and cultivate expertise.
Yan Xian Shude: Think of everything from the perspective of others, speak wisely, and use women's gentle words to touch people's hearts.
Character and morality: good character increases popularity, taste adds charm; continuous learning, the pursuit of progress, in order to become more and more beautiful.
Self-cultivation: discover and make good use of women's delicate and gentle characteristics, show self-confidence in the face of work, show elegance in the face of life, and show virtue in the face of family.