| Warmth is an indispensable atmosphere for the family Author: Ji Xianlin Recitation: Wang Hui

Author: Ji Xianlin Recitation: Wang Hui

In the vast world, all sentient beings, except for those who see through the red dust and become monks, everyone will have a home. When it comes to home, people can't help but feel a little warmth and a sense of happiness.

It is also impossible not to do so.

Whether it is a single employee or a dual employee, he works in a variety of places such as government agencies, schools, companies, factories, shops, etc. during the day.

Whether it is mental or physical labor, it will take great strength to cope with complicated situations, meet people with different personalities, and sometimes exhaust themselves. There is a saying: unsatisfactory things are often eight or nine.

Where will everything satisfy you? After work, like a tired bird returning to its nest, with a tired body and full of joy, I returned to my home. It's a real place to live.

Here, the main prayer is warmth. If there are parents, they ask the elderly for warmth, and the old and the young feel warm; those who have children, talk with their children, and the parents and children feel warm; the husband and wife say a few whispers, and both men and women feel warm.

When it is, the tiredness of the body and mind during the day, the occasional resentment in the heart, the occasional setback at work or in competition, a little nail in the handling of affairs or in interpersonal relations, and so on, will disappear, and in its place is the pleasure of melting.

In short, what I feel is a warmth that cannot be expressed in any language.

You can also wear casual nobility and fall into the shape. The mask that sometimes had to be worn outside during the day can be completely shaken off.

Sometimes I have to pretend in order to be able to adapt to the so-called politeness of dealing with advances and retreats, and I can throw you away, and give you a true face, round and unhindered, pure and true. Has the joy of the world been better than this? All this comes from a real home from within the family.

But is every family warm and at your fingertips? No, no, absolutely not. Although there are husband and wife relations, parent-child relations, and blood relations in the family, all of these relationships cannot guarantee that a warm atmosphere will inevitably appear.

As the saying goes: pots and pans collide.

Everyone's temper is different, hobbies are different, habits are different, beliefs are different, and people are living, moody and sad, sometimes there are sudden changes, emotional instability, especially in front of their relatives, it is easier to show it.

Sometimes a small matter of sesame green beans will also disagree, and it will not be handled legally, and it can also produce discord.

Every day, no one can guarantee that this will not happen.

So, what should we do?

From my personal point of view, it is extremely difficult to deal with such a family affair that is difficult for officials to judge, and it is quite difficult to say that it is not difficult.

As long as the words "true" and "forbearance" can be achieved, although they are not in the middle, they are not far away.

"True" people, true feelings also.

"Ninja", tolerance also.

I summarized it into a few words: mutual affection, mutual sincerity, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, true affection, no selfishness, family harmony, and boundless happiness. One may not understand why I have emphasized tolerance to such a high level.

You know, tolerance is one of the Chinese virtues.

Most of our sages taught us to tolerate. In folk proverbs, there are also many contents of tolerance, teaching people to tolerate.

Some statements, which seem negative, actually have positive significance, such as "enduring humiliation and bearing weight" Han Xin is a famous example. The Book of Tang records that Zhang Gongyi lived together, and Emperor Gaozong of Tang asked him about the way of the Mu clan, and Gongyi wrote more than a hundred "forbearance" characters and handed them to the emperor.

Since then, the surname Zhang Duo has appointed himself as "Hundred Ninja Family Voices".

The Buddhists also attach great importance to the essence of forbearance, and there are many stories of immortals who endure humiliation in the sutras. As the saying goes: "If you can't bear it, you will plot big things."

In the family, it is "a small and unbearable family".

Between husband and wife, parents, children, sometimes it is inevitable to have different opinions, if one party has a little temper, you let him, the storm can be calmed. When his mentality is balanced, he will admit his mistake.

At this time, if you are not calm, angry, light mouth, heavy hands, may eventually sue the court, pronounce divorce, is not a big sad! The same is true between parents and siblings.

As a result, a good family will fall apart. This will affect your temporary emotions at worst, and affect your future in life.

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