The ninth program of "The Man Who Does Housework 3", several guests in the observation room received a request for help from netizens, and some boys asked their girlfriends how to answer "love or not love me" to make her feel safe, and several male guests expressed their opinions on this issue.
Dong Youlin's answer is "don't ask me too often, otherwise my answer will become worthless", this answer at first glance will make people feel that it is a very reasonable classic answer, pointing out the root of the problem.
Before Dong Youlin, Huang Jingyu also gave a relatively good answer, Huang Jingyu is directly answering the question, thinking that this kind of question is very good, and even said that he may also chase the girl every day to ask, love or not, this interaction will make both people feel very happy.
Both answers were highly praised by Li Shi, and he couldn't help but ask if the two had received training together, and both answers were very good, which could be regarded as perfect answers.
Although Li Shi took the lead in giving praise, the women present did not agree with Dong Youlin's answer, song Yanfei's mother Xiaoxiao directly said that the girls would not be happy to hear Dong Youlin's answer, and Yang Kasa and Li Sidani on the side also agreed.
Xiaoxiao said that the girl did not want to hear any explanation from you, only wanted to hear that I love you, heard Xiaoxiao's mother's question, Dong Youlin immediately expressed doubts, immediately defended herself, said that she would convince the girl, explaining that her answer is not to let love diminish, Yang Kasa on the side can't help but spit out, your answer sounds like "no love".
After Yang Kasa gave a conclusion to Dong Youlin's answer, he immediately launched an emotional small class, people in the state of love are not so rational, and trying to convince each other with reason is not to enter the state of love. After passing through Yang Kasa's "emotional classroom", Dong Youlin immediately had an epiphany and was about to change the answer.
The same answer, male and female guests have a completely different answer, which is actually a very obvious difference in the thinking of men and women, from which we can also see the different states of men and women in the relationship, but also the root of the frequent quarrels between male and female friends.
The biggest difference between boys and girls in the emotional state is the problem of rationality and sensibility, relatively speaking, girls should be more emotional, boys should be rational, and both sides try to get closer to each other, but they all use their own way, and the distance is finally pulling farther and farther.
Girls think that boys are too rational is not enough to love themselves, and boys sometimes feel that girls' sensibility is unreasonable and will ignore them, and over time, the feelings will slowly fade, and love will gradually drift away.
It just so happens that the program puts this problem forward, but also avoids the difference in thinking between male and female friends because of gender and parting ways, when the girl is emotional, the boy must not try to reason with the girl like Dong Youlin, and the final result is that the reason is won, and the girlfriend is gone.
And girls actually have to reflect on it well, occasional sensibility is the flavor of love, but has always been emotional, easy to be soaked in the boy's rhetoric, thus losing themselves.
Dong Youlin's answer is essentially correct, but it is not the timing, when the girlfriend asks, you should not talk about reason, ask the moment should go to the girlfriend to be happy, give her an answer you want, and find other suitable times to communicate with her.