Life is a gorgeous robe full of lice. ——Zhang Ailing
When we step into society, interpersonal communication is a problem we have to face, in order to better show ourselves, we have to add a lot of "human design" to ourselves, so that we look or bright, or achieve fame, in order to obtain great satisfaction of vanity.
However, when a lie is told for a long time, it will replace the original fact and make us subconsciously believe that we are really such people. The terrible thing is that such lies are often seen through by others at a glance, so they watch themselves perform like a clown.
The so-called "human design" appears less in the lives of ordinary people, it appears more in the circle of high society, because these people are more susceptible to the temptation of fame and profit, so they also attach more importance to these things, and for their practice, the famous leper Hong Huang has unabashedly expressed her scoff, she bluntly said that there is a lot of hypocrisy in high society, fashion circles, and public relations circles.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > Hong Huang</h1>
Hong Huang, born in 1961, she was born into a famous family, her maternal grandfather Zhang Shizhao was a famous scholar, her father Hong Junyan was a well-known economist at that time, serving as a professor at Peking University, and her mother Zhang Hanzhi was a famous diplomat.
Born in such a family, Hong Huang's starting point is much higher than others, and she has begun to receive the most advanced education while other children are still playing. She learned English from an early age, laid a very solid foundation, and when she was twelve years old, when Sino-US relations eased, as one of the first Chinese students to study in the United States, she completed the next education in the United States.
At that time, she was still just a child, so far away from home, it was inevitable that her family would worry about whether she could adapt and persevere, but Hong Huang's approach was unexpected by all of them, she was not only very adapted to this life, but also always maintained optimism and cheerfulness, made many good friends, and actively participated in many activities, and her ability in all aspects was improved.
In this way, after studying in the United States for several years, it was soon the day of her graduation, because her mother was a diplomat and she herself studied international politics in college, so her family hoped that she would be able to return to China to inherit her mother's business. But Hong Huang has been alone in foreign countries for so many years, and has already developed an independent personality and an independent way of thinking, she is not willing to live under the aura of her mother and family all the time, but wants to find what she really likes to do.
Based on this, she resolutely stepped into the society despite the opposition of her family, and at the age of 25, she became an employee of a foreign-funded enterprise, and her ability was outstanding, and she soon became the mainstay of the company, earning an annual salary of 70,000 US dollars in that era.
As a young man in her twenties, Hong Huang is undoubtedly successful in the eyes of everyone, proving to others that even if she is separated from the aura of the family, she is still capable of standing at the top of the pyramid of society. Perhaps because the success came too easily, Hong Soon grew tired of the unchallenging job, so she chose to quit in 1996 and decided to plunge into the fashion industry.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > the hypocrisy of high society</h1>
Hong Huang and a few friends started a magazine company, although this is a field that she has never set foot in, but Hong Huang is not afraid at all, because for her, the shackles are more terrible than the unknown, she is not willing to live a life of seeing the head, and she never lacks the courage to take risks.
She began to run her magazine company seriously, and made a name for herself in the fashion industry, and when Hong Huang really became a part of it, she finally found that there were too many hypocritical people and hypocritical things in this circle.
Hong Huang found that people in high society, fashion circles, and public relations circles all have a common characteristic, that is, hypocrisy. Everyone laughed and laughed during the meeting, greeting all the people they met or didn't know, as if everyone had become friends in the middle of the meeting, and when the party was over and they were gone, all of them revealed their true faces.
Hong Huang herself has experienced such a thing, it is no secret that the concept between her and Su Mang is not a secret, for Hong Huang, she always pursues freedom and freedom, thinking that this is what fashion should have, but Su Mang does not think so at all, the fashion brand she founded, there is no doubt that it must be consistent with the international fashion brand, in line with the international fashion brand, in line with the international frontier fashion trends.
Therefore, there is always a conflict between two people, both overt and covert, but they have to maintain a superficial balance, after all, everyone is in a circle, and the chances of meeting are only a lot more, there is no need to tear their faces.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > a transparent and sober flood</h1>
Although Hong Huang has been in high society since birth, she has always been sober and knows what she really wants.
She was always rebellious and outspoken, which made her an alternative in the high society full of falsehood and calculation, and made her one of the unapproachable in the eyes of everyone, but Hong Huang did not care, because she could not accept the hypocrisy of the people around her, did not want to see the light of their calculations hidden in their smiles, and did not want to have any in-depth contact with such people.
Of course, Hong Huang's ability to always maintain her free and rebellious personality has a lot to do with her identity, after all, she was born in a family with a strong background, and such a family can leave her a confidence at any time, allowing her to freely choose what she wants to do.
Hong Huang's approach also makes many people appreciate, because while she grasps such a confidence, she is not tempted by it and allows herself to become a part of the hypocrisy, but always firmly walks the path she chooses, always adhering to her personality.
As a person in high society, Hong Huang once said bluntly that there is a lot of hypocrisy in high society, the fashion circle, and the public relations community, just like she said to the media after the publication of her book "Miss Zhang": "I always feel that high society may be the most hypocritical group in any country."
Her words unveil a mysterious veil of high society for us, let us understand that not everyone is so bright and beautiful, and at the same time we also understand hong's transparency and sobriety, it is precisely because she does not want to let herself fall into the universal desires and ambitions of high society, she will always firmly believe in breaking through her own fame.