We can imagine a person sitting in a conference room with his hands clasped together and saying, "I've always been open-minded and sincerely hope to solve a problem." There is no doubt that those present here will consciously or unconsciously observe the inconsistency of her words and deeds.
Because the spread palms indicate frankness and sincerity, while the clenched fists are just the opposite. Trying to get the results she wants by deceiving others like her is likely to end up being counterproductive and causing hostility and attacks from others. When a person is under pressure and feels the need to take defensive measures, the two hands and ten fingers are crossed and clasped together
(See Figure 3.8) Ten fingers cross tight
Grip usually indicates that a person is trying to suppress their strong emotions (often referred to as anger).
Clenched fists are also sometimes used to emphasize upcoming speeches, which is more common in passionate speeches. Some people will raise their clenched fists and wave them in the air, indicating or expressing a strong emotion, such as strong opposition. Some people put clenched fists under their armpits or tuck them in their pockets to hide their emotions as shown in Figure 3.9
If a person holds their hands together (see Figure 3.10
In other words, the hands are tightly clasped together, indicating that the person is very anxious. This movement is always accompanied by a clenched fist when a person is asked to answer some serious words. She usually adopts this posture when asking questions or explaining her behavior, which indicates that she is worried and nervous.
If your conversation is holding or twisting your hands together, you should try to relax them. After that, you'll notice that her attitude has softened. so
Only then will you be able to fully control the situation. The spire-like posture is to close the tips of both fingers and make contact with each other, forming a "church spire" gesture (see Figure 3.11).
This gesture is an expression of confidence and is sometimes seen as pretense, arrogance or pride. The gesture is often defined as a person "in power", implying that the person has the upper hand.
If the corners of someone's mouth rise slightly (smiling) while making this gesture, then you should understand that the person is just a fluke to achieve the goal.
Most of the time, people pose their hands in the shape of a spire unconsciously. However, there are also people who deliberately emphasize their strong sense of security and absolute self-confidence through this gesture.
For example, a suggestion was made that a business person could make this gesture after giving a final offer during the negotiation process. As suggested, a man, after making an offer, sat back in a chair and smiled and swung his hand into the shape of a minaret. At this time, his customers frequently looked at him, and after a long time, they firmly said: "Deal! "So, in negotiations, the gesture seems to have a magic power that can easily conquer others."
If you want to determine the true meaning of the individual's touch signal, you must understand that most of the information is related to body language, and you should carefully observe the entire state of the other person's performance to better understand the meaning of the touch.
Pointing your finger at someone else is an increasing gesture, usually used to brush up on a point of view or emphasize something seriously, and through observation, you can still smoothly flow your thoughts and points when you carve and avoid using this gesture.
Why avoid rabbits? The simple answer is 1 This is a gesture that arouses people's resistance. If you add an increased voice, this gesture is likely to lead to a heated debate.
In fact, in heated discussions, the action of pointing a finger at others is extremely common, but if people can control or restrain their own tone and intonation, then this gesture often does not cause others to have most resistance.
Politicians or priests pointing "condemning" fingers at the audience usually do not provoke resistance from the audience, because the audience will not think that the gesture is directed at themselves. However, in a one-on-one situation, this gesture is undoubtedly aimed at someone, so it will cause some problems.
Touching an object or someone is a sign of a person's pride or ownership. In addition, it can express interest, concern, love, understanding, compassion, confidence, or comfort. Basically North can be said that love relationships are largely based on physical touch.