Many men like to show off their abilities in front of women, they show off their cars, house tickets, and their connections. But in fact, the more men are displayed, the more they will annoy girls. Maybe your display will impress some girls, but these girls don't necessarily really love you, but like your money.
1, the appearance of men will make women feel oppressed
In love, what a woman cares most about is whether a man really loves her, cares about her, can understand her, and whether she can be a strong backing in her life.
In the process of getting along with women, if men have a strong desire to perform, they are always showing themselves, which is easy to make women have a sense of oppression, which will make women feel that men are high, like living in clouds. Invisibly, even if a woman feels that your conditions are very good, she will not be willing to be with you, after all, no one wants to be with someone who feels uncomfortable.
2) Men showing themselves will make women lose interest in you
A man's ability and strength is a man's "hole card"! If you come out early, then the woman will see you clearly and understand you, and she will not only see your flamboyant personality, but also see your full strength. Then, you have no attraction to dig into in front of the girl, and the girl will not have much interest in you.
Men show off without leaving a trace, and girls will think you are very reliable. Men and women get along together, men do some reservations, and then slowly express their strength in a gentle way, in front of women inadvertently show the bottom card, then women will feel that you are very capable, so that they will be interested in you, want to understand you deeply, so that men will have a sense of mystery in front of women.
In front of women, to show off without leaving a trace, men must master two skills:
1, when women want to understand, men show up again
Men do not take the initiative to show off their abilities and strengths, only when the girl is interested in a certain aspect of things, you are showing your ability, that will play a multiplier effect.
2, less talk, do more
To show off without leaving a trace is to talk less, rarely to show their cards, no matter how impulsive they are in their hearts, if they want to say their abilities and strengths, they must bear not to say it. Then, present it in front of the girl with your own practical actions.
Every man has the instinctive impulse to show his love, but in front of women, never show himself. Many women hate men for showing themselves up, which makes women feel that you, the man, are not calm enough. What's more serious is that you show the hole cards, and women will lose interest in you if they see you thoroughly and understand them clearly.
Men must do it without leaving a trace to show off, maintain a sense of mystery, girls are interested in you, here, to master two skills:
First, when the girl wants to know you, you will show it again, and at this time, the girl will admire you.
The second is to say less and do more, use their own practical actions to show their ability and strength, and do not always use their mouths to say.