Hello everyone, after reading my previous unforgettable experience, it is estimated that everyone has a lot of things in the past with him (her) in the brain, some funny things, some experiences, or some sad things! But what was his or her relationship with you now? Is it a stranger, a confidant, or a regular friend?
Everyone has one or more emotional lines in a long life. On every relationship line, a significant number of people will have a deep imprint (unless you are the one who plays with feelings). A friend once chatted with me and said: After every relationship, it is for the person who will marry me in the future! This sentence sounds less responsible, but think carefully about the words. If the person you're with right now can't marry you, there must be some reason that affects both parties that ultimately leads to not being able to be together.
So for the word "former degree", I believe everyone knows that it represents the previous male (female) friend, of course, it has been broken up, there are reasons for breaking up due to personality incompatibility, small things, betrayal and change of heart or weakened feelings, etc. Is there no longer any existence of this person in the heart? The answer is not necessarily, because according to the small editor in the survey and analysis of some people, 80% of the people's hearts have the existence of the previous degree. And 30% of these 80% of people are friends with Qiandu, 24% are confidants, and 26% are strangers!
For 30% of the people who break up and still maintain a friendship relationship, most of them are because two people have mutual friends, or work in a common place, or see each other again and are friends (ordinary friends). In fact, many couples find out that the person they like is not the person they really want in their hearts, but the peaceful breakup, which is what we often say about breaking up because of understanding. Over time, two people have changed from the previous relationship of lovers to friends (you may send a circle of friends to like, or comment on the work, etc.), meet each other is a common greeting to each other, basically no longer care about each other so much, because each has its own life, each has its own circle of friends.
24% of the relationship between confidants, this part, I believe that they (she) have experienced a lot of things and know each other, or some are still in love with each other, do not ask for returns silently behind his back to support him, to explain her. Although they broke up, they still felt in their hearts that the other party was a worthy person to talk about and trustworthy. Whether the other party is in love or married, they are all on the side to send blessings to him (her). Or the other party is out of love, I believe that the first time will also find this confidant to complain. In fact, why can't people who know each other well walk together? Providence makes man! But I personally think that among these 24% of people, there should still be someone who can finally walk together again, because the person who knows and loves you the most has always been next to you, but I have not noticed (friends, pay more attention to the confidant around you, or he (she) is the person who silently pays for you, how cherished).
26% of strangers, break up is a breakup, there is no need to have anything to do with each other, like a stranger. Why can you go from a couple to a stranger? I personally think that there are the following views: First, I have done things that hurt each other, resulting in an irreparable situation, and the two sides are dead and dead. Second, in terms of mentality, breaking up is breaking up, nothing worth nostalgia, completely forget. Third, play with feelings, when love is a game. Fourth, betrayal and so on. In fact, no matter how long the two sides have been together, as long as they leave an indelible imprint in their hearts, it is indeed very painful, and since it is painful, why should they go to see this person who hurt you!
In fact, the previous degree is only some of the experiences in our lives, with these experiences, we will know how to love each other when new love comes, how to cherish each other. As my friend said: After every relationship, it is for the person who marries me in the future! The people are big, the experience is also more, after one thing, long and wise! I hope that friends who read my article think more about the right and wrong experienced before and before, treat and cherish the current he (she), like please pay attention to praise, thank you (the above is purely a small editor's personal opinion)