In such a lifetime, the suffering suffered when people are young is not suffering, but just a springboard. On the springboard, the most difficult thing is not the moment of jumping, but before jumping down, the struggle, hesitation, helplessness and loss in the heart, can not be poured out to others. We thought we couldn't jump, closed our eyes, plucked up the courage, but jumped over.
Australian motivational speaker Nick Hu Zhe, author of classic works such as "Life Has No Limit" and "No One Dares to Bully You", has given more than 1,500 personal motivational speeches in more than 60 countries on five continents. Each of his speeches was full of enthusiasm, and his humorous language and distinctive life experiences deeply attracted and touched hundreds of millions of listeners, helping many people out of the haze of life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" > parental love is the best panacea in the world</h1>
Nick Hu zhe was born with a severe congenital disability and was born with no sound limbs, only a small foot with two toes below the left hip. Doctors and nurses whispered that he was a "monster" when he was born, his father couldn't help but throw up when he saw him, and his mother was too scared to hold him.
His Christ-believing parents quickly adjusted their mood and decided to accept and love this gift from God. They warm Nick with love and teach him how to live better. Although he was severely disabled, his parents did not give up their education.
In order to make Nick adjust to life more quickly, his father threw him into the water when he was 18 months old and let him learn to swim. When he was 6 years old, his father began teaching him to type with two toe fingers. His mother took good care of him using her nursing knowledge and made him a plastic device so that he could learn to hold a pen and write.
They tailored a wheelchair for Nick and hired a coach to teach Nick how to swim. Parents would take Nick to play, and when someone looked at Nick with strange eyes, his mom would tell him "because you're cute" In Nick's childhood photos, almost every one of them is laughing.
It wasn't until he was eight years old that Nick Huzhe's parents sent him to a local elementary school, but his classmates stoned him and called him ugly, and these school bullying left Nick with indelible psychological scars. At the age of ten, the inferior and depressed Nick attempted suicide by drowning in a bathtub at home.
Since then, Nick's parents have been encouraging and warm, helping him overcome his physical and psychological difficulties. And when his classmates humiliated him again and challenged him, he bravely fought and gained friends with his bravery. His understanding of students with disabilities made him recognized by many students and became the president of the student council at that time.
Before every child comes into this world, I believe that the greatest wish of every parent is that the child can be healthy and happy. Regardless of appearance and physical condition, children are the most precious gifts god has given to their parents. The companionship of parents is the best medicine to cure everything, because in the process of companionship, children feel the love and trust from their parents, which gives them the strength to dare to face everything.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" > as long as you don't abandon your dreams, you can also witness miracles</h1>
When Nick was 13 years old, he saw in the newspaper the story of a disabled person who set himself a series of great goals and accomplished them, and he was inspired to decide to make helping others a life goal. In Nick's opinion, the writing and speaking he loves are jobs that can help others, so he develops what he loves into a career, and gets joy and fulfillment from it.
In 2003, Nick Hutcher graduated from university and earned a double bachelor's degree in accounting and financial planning through his own efforts. But he did not apply for a professional-related job, but looked for a platform for the company to give him a speech. He had been rejected 52 times, and many bosses were reluctant to even look at him.
But he never wanted to give up, but encouraged himself in his heart: Try again, maybe the next time it will succeed? At the age of 19, he got a chance to perform, and even though he was only paid $50, he was encouraged. But since his first speech, his speech footprint has spread to many countries and regions around the world.
His audience includes school students, teachers, business people, citizens, migrant workers and experts from all walks of life, etc., he tells his story in the world's major media television programs, he often shares the importance of vision and lofty ideals with the audience, and encourages people to look beyond the existing environment to look to the future.
Now Nick no longer has to go around begging for a chance to give him a speech, and his books are as popular all over the world as his speeches. In 2005, Nick was nominated as Australia's Young Man of the Year and in 2008 became President and Chief Executive Officer of the International NonProfit. Someone tailor-made for Nick Hu Zhe's film "Butterflies and the Circus" won the "Pillar Film Project" award in 2009.
Only by persevering to the end can we have the last laugh. Man can defeat himself or he can fulfill himself. Successful people are not necessarily those with the best conditions and the strongest ability, but they must be those with the strongest will and the most tenacious combat effectiveness. The things that don't completely break you will only make you stronger. As long as you keep trying, there is always hope to stand up!
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" > achieve a colorful life, which is the dedication to love and happiness</h1>
In 2012, Nick Hu zhe married a beautiful and kind bride in California, Usa, Miyahara Kane. Miyahara, a 22-year-old nurse with dual Japanese and American academic status, was a big fan of Nick and often sat offstage to watch Nick perform, and she gradually found herself falling in love with this confident and strong boy.
Before meeting Kane miyahara, Nick had said in his speech that he hoped God would give him a beautiful wife. The first time Nick saw Jia Miao was also at this performance, at the end of the speech, he looked up and saw a pair of beautiful eyes, and he immediately fell in love with this optimistic and kind woman.
Nick chased Miyahara for 4 months, and the two fell in love for half a year and then entered the palace of marriage. After marriage, they often attend various places, and whenever people see this special couple, they will gush trust in love. Nick's love affair with Kane Miyahara touched countless people, and they received blessings from people all over the world at the wedding.
At the wedding, Nick said, "Although I don't have my hands to hug my lover, at this moment, I can hug my wife with my most sincere love." Now Nick and Jia Miao have been married for 8 years, giving birth to 2 boys and a pair of twin daughters, and all four children are in good health.
When he was a child, the inferior and depressed Nick never thought that he could live a happy life, let alone marriage. However, Heaven gave him a complete life, allowing him to have a beautiful wife and four healthy children. Nick's love is a true proof that disabled people can also meet love and have a happy life, as long as they have the expectation of a better future in their hearts, physical disability cannot stop happiness from coming.
The saddest thing in life is not the loss of limbs, but the lack of hope and purpose for survival! People often complain about the ups and downs of life and the unfairness of fate, but if we only remember what we want to have or lack, and do not cherish what we have, it will not change the problem at all! What really changes our destiny is not our opportunities, but our attitudes.