As the saying goes, "Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory", everyone's life will encounter many twists and turns, and the life of people born with disabilities is even more difficult. Medically, there is a very rare congenital surface dysplasia , seal limb deformity , which occurs in about one case in every 5 million babies , and Nick Hu Zhe, a man from Melbourne, Australia, is one of the unfortunate patients.
Nick Hu zhe was born without limbs, and some people once described him as a bust in a pixel class, and there were also fairy tale children who exclaimed at him: "You finally have a head!" "
The crippled warrior did not succumb to the shackles of fate, Nick Hu Zhe with his clever brain to cultivate a good eloquence, became a world-renowned motivational speaker, relying on the "mouth" counterattack, career success. From making $50 through five minutes of speeches to now worth over 100 million, he also formed a happy family with a beautiful Asian woman and gave birth to four healthy children.
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Nick Hu zhe is the eldest son in the family, and his parents have been looking forward to the birth of a healthy and beautiful baby boy. However, when he fell to the ground in the early morning of December 4, 1982, the unprepared couple and the medical staff present were stunned. Faced with this son, who had neither arms nor legs, the father even ran outside the delivery room to vomit, and the mother did not dare to hold him until he was four months old.
Nick Hu zhe's disability medicine name is "seal limbism", named after the baby's congenital limbs are underdeveloped and deformed like the short flippers of a seal. And his symptoms were undoubtedly the worst, there were no limbs at all, only a small "foot" with only two toes growing under the left hip. He laughed at himself for being a "chicken leg", because according to his sister's ridicule, the family's pet dog mistakenly thought it was a "chicken leg" that could be eaten.
In the 1960s, pregnant women in European countries and Japan took a drug called "reaction stop" containing phthalamine piperidone, which led to a disaster in which more than 16,000 "seal limb" babies were born, which was the "reaction stop event" that shocked the world. However, nearly two decades later, this problem drug has been banned for a long time, and it is really puzzling that Australia, far away in the southern hemisphere, has reproduced this tragedy.
Nick Hu zhe's mother, a former nurse, adhered to various medical taboos during her pregnancy. According to her recollection, even if she had a headache, she had not taken a painkiller, and she had also taken three B ultrasounds, and everyone thought that the fetus maintained a curled up posture, everything was normal, and she did not expect the truth to be so cruel.
Nick Hutcher's parents took him everywhere for medical treatment, but doctors across Australia were unable to give a reasonable medical explanation. As devout Christians, they had to console themselves that it was God's will and to give this son more love than ordinary parents.
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For a family that is not wealthy, raising a disabled child is no less difficult than requiring a scientist to make a continuous stream of inventions. In order to make Nick Hu zhe's growth a little easier, his parents raised various materials to design, make suitable living equipment, learning devices, and worked hard to make him learn to swim like a normal child, teaching him to type with two toes.
In order to care for his mental health, Nick Huzhe's parents even went so far as to compete with social laws. He never attended a special school for children with disabilities, but was the first disabled student in the local area to enter a regular primary school, which was actually the opportunity for his parents to fight for the change of education regulations in exchange for the opportunity to help him integrate into society normally.
Despite the repeated persuasion of the family who loved Nick Hu Zhe, he was only a little more special than ordinary children, but the many inconveniences of campus life, the constant pointing and pointing by onlookers, the exclusion and ridicule of naughty classmates... These heavy facts overwhelmed his childish mind.
Nick Hu Zhe confessed that he had suicidal thoughts when he was 8 years old, and tried to drown in the bathtub three times when he was 10 years old. In the end, he was reluctant to love his parents deeply and realized that "people are responsible for their own happiness."
When he was 13 years old, his mother gave him a newspaper clipping to let him understand: "God gave us this way to give hope to others", and gradually got rid of the shadow of depression and ushered in the growth of nirvana.
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After entering secondary school, Nick Hu Zhe became the first disabled student to run for the presidency of the student council, and won an overwhelming victory with his strength and charm, and was successfully elected. At the age of 16, he shared his growth path with 12 classmates for the first time, and his magnetic voice and clear and vivid expression touched everyone present, and he came up with the idea of becoming a motivational speaker.
At the age of 19, Nick Hu zhe called everywhere to promote his speech, and it was not until the 53rd call that he won a 5-minute speech opportunity and was paid $50. This successful attempt gave him the confidence to carry out the speech to the end.
As the writer Sanmao said, the confusion of the soul cannot be helped by others except self-crossing. Growing up, Nick Hu Zhe is no longer the desperate little boy he was, he has worked hard to become confident as his family expected, like a normal person, always using a relaxed, witty tone to ridicule his life, using humor to dissolve the surprised eyes of others, and even "hanging" to create many "impossible" records.
Nick Hu Zhe graduated from university at the age of 21 with a double bachelor's degree in accounting and financial planning, earned an independent living, and invested in entrepreneurship. He was also the first surfer to appear on the cover of Surfer magazine, telling the world what he preached: "A man without hands and feet can surf on the world's top beaches!" In addition, he is very good at riding horses, diving, playing football, skateboarding, etc.
In 2005, Nick Hu Zhe was nominated for "Australia's Youth of the Year". Less than 30 years old, he has traveled to dozens of countries around the world, given more than 1500 motivational speeches, infected and influenced millions of people, and founded the international non-profit organization "Life Without Limbs" to focus on the vulnerable and transmit the energy of love. He has also published a variety of DVDs of speeches and autobiographical books, promoting the concept of life fighting spirit such as "life has no limits".
Nick Hu Zhe achieved a life worth more than 100 million yuan by relying on the "mouth" that can speak, and he also enjoyed the joy of speaking and sharing, and at the same time, through the opportunity of speech, he broke the doubt of "never getting love" and met his beloved partner.
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Nick Hu zhe and his wife Miyahara Met in Dallas, USA, at a speech, he fell in love with the 22-year-old Japanese woman at first sight, but Miyahara only told him that he lived in Los Angeles. After the initial understanding of hesitation, trepidation and misunderstanding.
Nick Hu Zhe, who saw his heart, chased the beauty for six months, and after a year of friendship and engagement for six months, they walked through the ups and downs of falling in love hand, and finally got married on February 12, 2012.
On Valentine's Day, a year after the marriage, Nick Hu Zhe announced that his son Kiyoshi James Hu Zhe was born! Tens of thousands of fans around the world have sent sincere blessings on the Internet. Nick Hu Zhe, who has been promoted to a father, said happily that his wife and son are safe, and his son's limbs are sound and completely normal.
At the same time, he did not change his humorous nature, facing "sensitive issues" directly, saying that he was the same as ordinary people except for no limbs. In fact, the loving couple later had a healthy love crystallization.
In his speech, Nick Hu Zhe repeatedly mentioned that there are many established facts in life that cannot be resisted, people can only make multiple choice questions, accept, give up or find ways to live better, and it is crucial to believe in their own beliefs in their hearts. This is also the source of motivation for him to reach the peak of his life.
People's appearance is innate, but they believe that their beliefs are acquired. Nick Hu Zhe's misfortune is congenital disability, and his luck lies in growing up in a loving family, and the careful support of his parents has prevented him from being alone on the bumpy road of growth.
It is precisely the difficult and correct decision of Nick Huzhe's parents to let him study with normal children, ignore the serious physical defects that exist objectively, and also establish a good mentality of "believing that he can do it", so that he can open-mindedly integrate into society without hindrance with the words and deeds of "life is like everywhere, should be like Flying In the mud", so as to harvest a successful life in the secular sense.