A few days ago, the disappearance of Xiao Zheng, a 31-year-old Chengdu woman, in Serbia continued to attract attention.
On September 10, Zheng's father, who lives in Chengdu's Pidu District, issued a search notice saying that his daughter Xiao Zheng set off from her home on October 18, 2020 to travel alone to Serbia, during which she was stranded in Serbia due to the epidemic and could not return to China. On August 20, 2021, Xiao Zheng lost contact with his family and others.
On the evening of September 27, Red Star News reporters received the latest news from Xiao Zheng's parents, who had met his daughter in Sarajevo, Bosnia and Herzegovina on September 18. After nearly a year, seeing his daughter again in a foreign country, Xiao Zheng's father had mixed feelings and said that he could not accept it, "I saw that she was wearing a shawl, and she was not dressed like in the past, her eyes were fluttering, her lower limbs were shaking, and she couldn't even understand the words." ”
Zheng's father told Red Star News that at present, his daughter is only awake for one or two hours a day, most of the time her speech is blurred, and she often stays alone in the hotel room.
In the past year, what has Xiao Zheng experienced? What is her current situation? When will the father and daughter be able to return home? On the evening of September 27, a Red Star News reporter contacted Mr. Zheng, the father of Xiao Zheng, who was far away in Bosnia and Herzegovina. He told about Xiao Zheng's recent situation and the dilemma of not being able to take his daughter back to China for the time being. Ms. Xu, the mother of Xiao Zheng who stayed in China, was impatient and expressed her worries and expectations: "The daughter's condition is worrying, and her husband is also taking illness abroad to find a daughter..."
↑ Bosnia and Herzegovina, a recent photo of Xiao Zheng taken by the father
See you in Bosnia and Herzegovina
The daughter changed a lot, and the father could not accept it for a while
- "She knows the basic situation at home, but when she says anything else, she doesn't understand it."
"Dad, how did you get here?" On the morning of September 18, Mr. Xu, who came to Bosnia and Herzegovina from Chengdu for two or three places, finally met his daughter Xiao Zheng. At this time, although Xiao Zheng was full of rejection of strangers, he was still a little surprised to see his father's arrival.
After a year, he finally said goodbye, although Zheng's father had a thousand words, but when he really saw his daughter, he found that the change was too great, and he was speechless for a while, "I saw that she was wearing a shawl and distributed, and she did not dress up like in the past." His eyes fluttered, his lower limbs were shaking all the time, and he couldn't even understand the words. ”
In the eyes of his parents, Xiao Zheng has always been an excellent child, graduated from Sichuan University with a bachelor's degree, and was recommended to a Polish university as an exchange student during his graduate school years. The daughter is not what she used to be, and Father Zheng is difficult to accept.
On a September morning in Bosnia and Herzegovina, when the temperature was only a few degrees, the two met in a square near the park where local Chinese call Xiao Zheng often appeared.
When they met, they were accompanied by two enthusiastic local Chinese. Xiao Zheng asked his father why he came, and Father Zheng wanted to speak, but found that his voice was trembling, and the tears couldn't help but fall down.
"She recognized me, called out to her father, and knew the basic situation in the family, but when she said anything else, she couldn't understand it." Zheng's father told Red Star News that he was sure that there was a big problem with his daughter's mental condition.
He said that at present, his daughter is only awake for one or two hours a day, most of the time her speech is blurred, and she often stays alone in a hotel room. When he went out to look for the embassy to discuss the plan to return home, his daughter locked herself in the room alone.
↑ Xiao Zheng recently took a photo courtesy of the interviewee
Daughter excellent
Communication before the loss of contact is normal Home is plastered with awards
- "When she goes to study abroad or travel abroad, she makes her own decisions."
Before the disappearance, did Xiao Zheng show abnormalities? In this regard, in the impression of Xiao Zheng's mother, Ms. Xu, before August 20, the mother and daughter often made video calls, and the daughter would say her recent situation on the phone and could also communicate with her parents. Last night, Ms. Xu told the Red Star News reporter that she clearly felt that her daughter may have been "reporting good news but not worry", because of the impact of the epidemic, the long-term trapped abroad has affected her daughter's mood.
As for the elusive dynamics on XiaoZheng's social software, XiaoZheng's parents said they were unclear, and they did not know why their daughter posted an admission invitation from a Russian university on the social platform. It is not clear why the daughter always sends some obscure language, nor why the daughter wears a cotton jacket when others wear short sleeves.
"My daughter is very good, she is an undergraduate student graduated from Sichuan University, when she was a graduate student, she was recommended to be an exchange student abroad, the wall of her home is plastered with her awards, how can it be..." If the kite breaks the line, Ms. Xu can not catch any definite clues, for her daughter's abnormal behavior abroad, she can only be anxious, and then guess the reason out of thin air.
↑ The missing girl was previously discovered by netizens
Zheng's father said that after the news of her daughter's disappearance came out, many of her classmates at Sichuan University knew about it, and many people were also helping to forward the search news.
In the impression of the family, Xiao Zheng's personal communication ability is no problem, but her personality is very strong. "When she goes abroad to study or travel abroad, she makes her own decisions." Just like the decision to travel to Serbia last summer, Xiao Zheng ignored his parents' objections and finally left.
The latest situation is a mystery
What happened after the loss of contact can not be asked about the loss of personal belongings
——" My daughter's mental condition is very poor, I want to take her to the doctor, but there is no way"
At 11:00 p.m. Beijing time on September 27, it was around 4 p.m. local time in Bosnia and Herzegovina. Mr. Zheng said that on the first day of arriving in Bosnia and Herzegovina, he pulled his daughter to a local hotel and could not let her continue to live on the street. In the hotel, the father and daughter each have a room, and they often sit quietly across the wall.
Mr. Zheng ran to his daughter many times to ask what happened? What made her what she is now? But he didn't ask anything, and in the end he didn't dare to ask his daughter again.
Mr. Zheng told Red Star News that the family was very opposed to her daughter traveling to Serbia, but Xiao Zheng was a very thoughtful girl, and her family could not help her. And after Xiao Zheng left, everyone didn't know if she was alone.
Mr. Zheng only knows that his daughter Xiao Zheng is indeed traveling to Serbia, because he heard that there is no visa. In mid-August this year, because of the loss of her daughter's mobile phone, ID card and other objects, she cut off contact with her family.
Return to China is indefinite
Completing documents to go through the process Forced medical treatment is also illegal in the local area
"The embassy has been actively promoting the family to reunite the family in the country as soon as possible, but for some reasons it has not been possible"
"My daughter's mental condition is very poor, I want to take her to the doctor, but there is no way." Father Zheng introduced to the Red Star News reporter that Bosnia and Herzegovina is different from the country, if he forcibly takes Xiao Zheng to the doctor, it is not legal, and he must pass a series of examinations before going to the hospital. Judging from his daughter's current mental state, these processes are beyond his reach.
Mr. Zheng said that he did not dare to ask his daughter more, for fear of provoking her to leave again.
Her husband went to Bosnia and Herzegovina for almost 10 days, and Ms. Zheng's mother, Ms. Xu, who was far away in Chengdu, was anxious. On the one hand, she heard about her daughter's current situation from her husband, and the whole person became in a trance. "I didn't tell my colleagues before that I had been silently suffering from this." Last night, Ms. Xu told Red Star News that now, she feels that she can't hold on.
On the other hand, the husband's trip was to bring illness to find a daughter, and when he reached middle age, he not only had heart problems, but also had high blood lipids, "In Bosnia and Herzegovina, he ate bread every day." Ms. Xu was even more sad when she learned that her husband had diarrhea for several consecutive days. The problem now is that the father and daughter have not yet been able to return home. Ms. Xu even became pessimistic, can the family be reunited again?
Ms. Xu also expressed her expectations through Red Star News, one is that she hopes that the local government can "do special affairs and let her daughter return to China as soon as possible to get medical treatment as soon as possible." Secondly, "through the assistance and coordination of the embassy and consulate, my daughter was treated as soon as possible in the relevant medical institutions in Bosnia and Herzegovina, and returned to China for continued treatment when the opportunity was ripe."
↑ Previously, the official microblog of the Consular Protection Center of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs released a message saying that the girl had been found
According to Mr. Cheng, although the embassy has been actively promoting the family to reunite in the country as soon as possible, it is still unable to realize this wish for some reasons.
First of all, since all of Xiao Zheng's belongings to prove his identity have been lost, according to the requirements of the local government, he must make up for them to enter the next step. But according to Xiao Zheng's current mental state, it is difficult for her to cooperate in completing this step.
Secondly, in view of Xiao Zheng's deteriorating mental and physical condition, she herself could not successfully go to the hospital.
Third, the airfare back home is very tight. Mr. Zheng said: "At present, it is not possible to buy a ticket until December. It was not easy for him to rush to Bosnia and Herzegovina on this trip, before the couple stared at their mobile phones almost every day, grabbed a long time to buy a ticket for September 16: first from Chengdu to Beijing, then from Beijing to Vienna, and then to Bosnia and Herzegovina. All the way to the toss, taste the hardships...
Red Star News reporter Dai Jiajia pictured according to the interviewee
Edited by Yu Manga
Previously reported: Serbia's missing Chengdu woman meets her father in Bosnia and Herzegovina Family: I hope that the special affairs office will let her daughter return to China as soon as possible
Chengdu woman Serbia was found 25 days after she was missing! Embassy: Someone has been sent to contact, and you need to apply in person to return to China
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